⚠️ 5 WAYS to Date Women Out of Your League (Proven Techniques That Work!) ⚠️


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[Music] most men believe that certain women are simply out of their league women who would never date them if you have similar feelings you should watch this video Until the End because as I’ll show it’s quite simple to attract these seemingly unattainable women after watching this video you’ll realize how foolish it was to think that some girls are out of your league to be honest you don’t have to become a model celebrity or wealthy billionaire to accomplish this girls who are are extremely attractive and valuable are frequently approached by needy boring and desperate men who want to win their approval if you want to attract a girl who is out of your league you must stand out from the majority of the other guys she meets you need to make a good impression on her even if you disagree with some of these points you can still learn a lot from them keep watching till the end to find out before we begin I would appreciate it if you like the video you can help me continue spreading the stoic philosophy if you are not subscribed I recommend you subscribe and activate the Bell to avoid missing any videos if you like the topic of this video please comment with a number one if you don’t please comment with a number two to let me know so I can make better videos in the future number one talk like a man when it comes to talking with women most men are extremely boring and uninteresting they just are they believe this is because there aren’t enough conversation starters which is incorrect the fundamental issue here is that you can talk to any woman about about anything and she will remain interested it doesn’t really matter what you say when you talk what matters is your intent attitude and speaking style as a result a girl’s perception of you is based more on how you say something than on what you say because they don’t feel the same way most guys are ignorant of this they talk to girls in a way that is so incredibly boring and repetitive that the girls want to shut up yet the most attractive and captivating men those who enjoy great success with women might not always have the most insightful things to say but they always voice their thoughts with passion and conviction their genuine interest and involvement in what high value women have to say is their key to starting conversations with them a woman may still be listening intently to everything they say even if they are talking about what they had for breakfast whereas another guy might be discussing something that on paper appears to be incredibly interesting but fails to hold her attention my point is that delivery is everything you can hook a female for hours days months or anything if you nail the delivery not only that but it shows that you’re unique from those guys who kill her enthusiasm and mood number two don’t try to get along let me tell you something when you go into a conversation wanting to get along with someone you will unintentionally behave in a way that may come across as needy because you enjoy it you might therefore only say things that you believe they would find enjoyable you could be too focused on how you look you may find it difficult to set limits or to disagree with them are you getting the direction I’m going with this all of which are incredibly unattractive especially to a woman used to men who are constantly trying to win her approval and acting awkwardly and simply around them therefore it would be wiser to just be straightforward and honest with the woman you are speaking with and then observe whether a natural chemistry develops it is not necessary to attempt to manipulate or control anything it appears as though you give into the Heat of the Moment not giving a damn about making mistakes making friends or making a good impression you just act and speak as you see fit at the moment letting the girl do as she pleases I know a lot of you find this hard speaking from a place of honesty or cander will make you look more confident carefree and attractive than other guys and you’ll find it much easier to talk to these women you won’t have to stress over saying the appropriate or inappropriate thing after all before we continue if you want to keep receiving dating advice that works in the real world and if you’re tired of these fake dating gurus out here giving absolutely dog advice that never really works then do consider subscribing to this channel for your own good you might just learn something new number three stop predicting the future this one might be the most significant so pay close attention to it it’s easy for your mind to tell you that a girl you think is too good for you I put that in quotes because it’s not true won’t give you any any time of day or that she will instantly reject you if you ask her out you are actually in the dark though the issue arises when you cease taking initiative our brain’s default setting is to expect the worst allowing us to safeguard ourselves by averting or bracing for it even if they seem extremely real in our heads these things rarely come to pass nine out of 10 times they rarely occur and even when they do they are never as horrible as your mind imagines as the ancient stoic philosopher Sen sagely observed we suffer more often in imagination than in reality there are more things likely to frighten us than to crush us take another look at that quote give up obsessing over hypothetical scenarios and stop spending so much time thinking about them as an alternative just take a chance because you never know what will actually happen you are not a fortune teller or a mind reader observing events unfold and developing firsthand is the only way to gain knowledge number four light touch this is an extremely underappreciated method of attracting people in my experience at least 95% of men avoid touching women while speaking with them why because they are anxious and afraid they keep wondering what if she rejects me what happens if she leaves what if I am all over her and she finds me creepy look buddy I recognize that these are legitimate concerns especially in light of modern society however you must recognize that physical contact is one of the most effective ways to create attraction touch activates oxytocin the bonding hormone which promotes trust and connection touch also signals interest in a girl which takes you out of the friend zone and removes the chance that you could be mistaken for a friend most men are afraid anxious and tense around attractive or valuable women so they tend to tread carefully they never come into contact with each other she finds it unsettling that the few who do are out of balance and escalate things too quickly keep in mind to begin touching her at a PG level platonic is acceptable and then gradually increase depending on how she reacts that implies you can start by lightly touching her shoulders arm or thigh body areas where you could touch a friend so she doesn’t find you creepy but feels comfortable around you and once you confirm that she is comfortable then you escalate touch her leg lower back or side of her face to pull her close maybe a short kiss on the cheek proves your point this steady escalation method will gently turn her on and draw her closer to you so don’t be shy when you have a chance to do it after all every woman gets turned on by a man who takes charge number five joke around when a girl is really attractive guys don’t care about her attention because they’re used to her constant praise and worship combine your compliments with some light-hearted playful jesting furthermore teasing rather than bullying is an effective way to develop attraction with women first and foremost when done correctly it allows women to laugh connect and feel very comfortable it also demonstrates that you do not treat us as simps and place us on a pedestal I promise it looks great almost no girl wants to be praised by a man women want men to treat them like they would treat anyone else special but not over the top or on a pedestal that being said this doesn’t mean you should never praise a girl since sincere Compliments are cute and girls love them the key is to strike a balance between the teasing and the complimenting so that it becomes effective and meaningful and the best part is that the game is already in your favor thanks to the advice I gave you in this video but if you’re on a date with a woman out of your league and you want to know what she’s thinking and you want to read her mind then make sure to watch the my other videos feel free to subscribe and like the video until next time epic tetus the great stoic philosopher said that the goal is to surround yourself with people who pull you up and inspire you to be your best you’ve undoubtedly heard the expression you are the average of The Five People You spend the most time with today we’ll look at that concept through a stoic lens before we begin we will explore the seven categories of people that might impede your development in stoic philosophy and how to negotiate these difficult situations I’d love it if you could get the video so you can help me to spread the stoic philosophy if you are not already subscribed I encourage that you do so and activate the Bell so that you do not miss any videos number one the victim consider life to be a game of chess with each player having the same pieces and the same aim the opponent’s king is checkmated you plan ahead of time make some sacrifices and take some chances the victim on the other hand blames the board the pieces or even their opponent for every bad move they make they’re always in Checkmate not as a result of their choices but as a result of an outside power acting against them their story is a never-ending tale of adversity with themselves as the powerless protagonist I can’t advance in my career because my employer dislikes me or I can’t get in shape because I have poor genetics now it is critical to recognize that some people experience actual challenges as well as systemic issues however the victim in question utilized their situation as an excuse to avoid taking responsibility for their actions or lack thereof you can become inmed in their plot possibly as a supporting character who is always needed to save them assume you’ve spent numerous hours listening to a buddy blame their NeverEnding line of unsuccessful relationships only on their ex Partners this not only waste your time but it may also subtly persuade you to adopt a victim perspective in your own life so how do you proceed when dealing with a victim it may be tempting to become their rescuer providing unending guidance and emotional support but the stoics would advise against it they would advise you to set a clear boundary to preserve your mental health you might use a technique called compassionate Detachment show empathy and kindness but don’t try to save them they must handle their own difficulties provide a listening ear but avoid being their continuous problem solution Marcus aelius famously remarked that the finest retribution is to be unlike the one who committed the Injustice if you find yourself drawn into the victim’s narrative fight the impulse to become one yourself instead take charge of your own game board make your moves and remember that being permanently in check made is frequently a choice not a fate in the chess game of life keep your pieces going ahead make strategic sacrifices when required and play for development and knowledge rather than Vengeance or pity number two the drama magnet consider your life to be a ship cruising over Peaceful Waters until you come across the vortex known as the drama magnet this person appears to have an endless succession of crises disputes or controversies and they have a disconcerting capacity to drag you into their Vortex of instability you could be drawn to the intensity of the drama magnets at first mistaking it for passion or excitement however you’ll quickly find that being in their Realms is taxing and risky much like piloting a ship through a storm what makes working with drama magnets so difficult is that their problems frequently feel like your own their Anarchy is contagious you can even find yourself engaged in disputes in which you have no prior involvement consider the following scenario you have a buddy that frequently clashes with other people in your social group they’re not talking to Kate today Mario will be next your buddy seeks your help but you see that this cycle never stops and you find yourself at odds with Kate or Mario because you attempted to interfere in this scenario instead of providing advice or choosing sides try introspective listening and echoing their thoughts back to them for example if they remark I can’t believe Kate said that about me you may react so Kate’s words have betrayed me this strategy enables you to offer emotional support without becoming involved in the drama yourself another strategy which may appear paradoxical is to become selectively unavailable stoicism teaches us to value our time which sometimes means being unavailable for other people’s problems especially if they reoccur without resolution turn off your phone during specific hours set out time to focus completely on your job or personal growth and make it clear that you are not to be interrupted during these times senica true pleasure comes from enjoying the current moment without worrying about the future this is very useful when dealing with drama magnets instead of worrying about the next catastrophe focus on the current moment where you have control enjoy your life and don’t allow it be disturbed by someone else’s drama make a point of sailing your ship peacefully avoiding whirlpools that jeopardize your journey to personal progress and calmness number three the complainer we’ve all got that friend family member or coworker that always finds something wrong with everything whether it’s the weather their job J or even the cuisine at a renowned restaurant they never pass up a chance to show their displeasure you may be wondering why this matters to me I can simply disregard them that however is easier said than done consistent exposure to such negativity drains your mental well-being it’s like a leaky faucet gradually emptying your store of emotional Vitality stoicism instructs us to focus on on practical Solutions rather than issues consider the following scenario you’re working on a project with someone who is often complaining each meeting devolves into a tiring round of complaints with little useful discourse as the team’s morale deteriorates you get distracted from discovering practical answers and you may become progressively disgusted with the project and potentially with life in general so how can stoicism assist us in dealing with a complainer there are numerous approaches you may take first restrict your contact with this person whenever possible if that isn’t possible maybe because they are a family member or co-worker your second choice is to mentally detach yourself from them during their rants consider their criticisms to be a passing storm noisy and disturbing But ultimately insignificant in comparison to the immovable Mountain that is your own inner peace your third option is is to redirect the conversation or change the subject to something more constructive Marcus Aurelius you control your thoughts not external events when you realize this you will discover strength this Timeless stoic wisdom urges us to vigilantly defend our mental Serenity ensuring that the negativity of chronic complainers does not distract us from our stoic path of perseverance and virtue number four the naysayer consider yourself an artist working on a canvas each brush stroke enhances the color depth and vibrancy of your vision enter the skeptic they go into your studio take a look at your work and instantly start criticizing it are you certain about the Hue that doesn’t appear realistic you already know that most artists never get it perfect their remarks like gray paint Strokes begin to diminish your colorful canvas this isn’t your typical constructive critique however it may be useful instead it’s a continuous Aura of skepticism and hostility assume you’re enthusiastic about exploring a new job path you’ve done your homework spoken with industry experts and perhaps even attended a few basic courses when you express your excitement with the Skeptics they rapidly list all the reasons why it won’t work the market is overcrowded do you have the necessary skills what if you fail too soon their uncertainties begin to feel like your own and The Confident your eyesight is beginning to sway how do you deal with a skeptic especially if they are close to you rather than simply presenting your objectives or aspirations one uncommon yet successful technique is to ask them for advice people in advisory roles are less likely to oppose your ideas directly and may provide more or useful comments instead of absorbing their negativity another option includes changing the script through a technique known as positive confrontation encourage them to come up with Solutions if they suggest you’ll never be able to change occupations at this point respond with an intriguing Viewpoint how do you believe someone could effectively change careers this not only deflects criticism but also stimulates more positive discourse remember remember the teachings of epicus the stoic philosopher because we have two ears and one mouth we can listen twice as much as we can talk listening does not imply taking in everyone’s criticism it entails distinguishing useful input from noise take a step back listen think and continue painting your own life with the colors that speak to you when the doubters begin to obscure your canvas with their shades of Doubt don’t allow anyone transform your colorful creation into a monotonous gray landscape number five the time Vampire consider your everyday routine to be a well-crafted symphony when each instrument symbolizes a work or responsibility they form a wonderful balance until the time Vampire joins in shrieking Off Pitch drowning out your song and converting your beautiful Masterpiece into discordant cacophony vampires are not always evil in fact they may appear rather benign it could be a coworker who constantly interrupts you with trivial questions transforming your productive workday into a series of fragmented moments or it could be a friend who invites you to countless social events that you don’t want to attend making you feel obligated to attend and draining your time and energy these interactions may appear little in the moment but the cumulative effect may be tremendously disruptive so how can you prevent a Time vampire from ruining your Symphony the Pomodoro Technique a time management tool that includes splitting your work into 25 minute segments typically separated by brief breaks is one effective option you make it plain that you are not to be bothered During certain intervals this creates a barrier that prevents your most productive periods from getting eaten away if you are dealing with a social time Vampire remember that saying no is not just acceptable it is necessary for your well-being instead of detailed explanations a simple I appreciate the invitation but I can’t make it would work according to senica refusing an invitation is a confirmation of your own needs and priorities not a rejection of the individual life if lived well is long enough stoicism emphas izes that time is one of our most valuable resources and it should be used carefully it’s the canvas on which we paint the portrait of our life and we should be very picky about who and what gets a brush stroke make sure that each note instrument and Melody in your life’s big Masterpiece coincide with your greater purpose don’t let a Time vampire’s cacophonous incursion disrupt your Symphony as we approach the conclusion of today’s examination of the characters who might derail our road toward stoic resilience and wisdom hold the Baton firmly and conduct your life with purpose ensuring that every moment is a note beautifully played in your harmonic Masterpiece number six the toxic positivist when you’re going through a difficult time they’re the ones that encourage you to Simply Be cheerful dismissing your sentiments and experiences with a flippant wave of sparkly optimism consider your life to be a garden flowers are present but so are weeds and bugs a poisonous positivist on the other hand refuses to see anything that isn’t a budding Rose aphids will appear on your leaves just concentrate on the flowers they tell you not to bring negativity into your garden while it may appear to be encouraging their approach may leave you feeling rejected and removed from reality you’re upset be wildered and looking for emotional balance if you’re going through a difficult breakup the advice of the toxic positivist the water is teeming with fish simply grin and be happy excessive optimism ignores the intricacies of human emotion and the realities of life’s obstacles how can you grow your garden without allowing poisonous positivists to trample it with their indiscriminate sprinkling of Positive Vibes the only option is to engage them in a conversation that includes both light and shade look on the bright side they say and you have your health yes I’m glad for my health but it’s also fair for me to be furious about this particular situation both are compatible you may also use what psychologists refer to as emotional granularity which is the capacity to feel and distinguish between a wide spectrum of emotions both good and negative because of X I’m feeling a little down today which is okay referencing stoic thinking may be a freeing confirmation senica once remarked that genuine pleasure is understanding our duty to God and man and enjoying the now without worrying about the future take note of the balance between comprehending unpleasant obligations and enjoying the moment a stoic attitude does not focus only on the good or bad rather it Embraces life’s complexities with Serenity so the next time a poisonous positivist dumps confetti on your well-kept garden take a step back and realize that a garden requires both sunlight and Rain to thrive accept your entire emotional range and continue to nurture your garden with the richness and complexity it deserves number seven the manipulator consider your life to be a script for a movie your the main character and you have an idea of how your narrative should play out where the twists will come from who your allies and mentors will be and what your final Act will look like enter the manipulator the Shady producer who quietly rewrites your script without your knowledge until one day you discover your tale has deviated from its original path the manipulator is an expert in emotional or psychological manipulation they may use flattery guilt trips or even deception to guide you in a path that favors them you could have a buddy who constantly gets you to pay for dinner by saying something like you know I’ve been having a rough month and you’re so successful it wouldn’t mean much to you but would make my day better over time you realize that your generosity has been used but calling them out seems awkward since they frame it as a favor to a friend in need handling a manipulator may be difficult fogging is a technique used by certain Specialists to oppose their techniques this strategy entails accepting any truth in the manipulator’s assertions but refusing to be affected by emotional persuasion you may react if they claim you’re so successful you should pay for supper you are right that I have been performing well but let us share the bill as usual another strategy is to establish and enforce defined limits if the manipulator asks you to lend the money or commit to duties that you don’t want to do learn to say no assertively maintain a cool tone and straightforward communication I can’t lend money but I can offer emotional assistance that maintains the connection while setting a limit borrowing inspiration from stoic ideas epicas cautioned us that while we cannot control our external circumstances we can always control how we respond to them the manip Ator profits from your predicted emotions they use your generosity remorse or need for acceptance by responding differently you reclaim control of your script so if you come across a manipulator in your life remember that you’re the one with the pen your storyline is yours to write and while the cast may include a variety of characters your journey should always be guided by your own values and decisions reclaim your script and don’t allow anyone change the course of your life let us not Overlook the importance of self-awareness it’s simple to spot these Personalities in others but the more difficult and instructive challenge is to look for them in yourself are you accidentally performing one of these roles in the life of someone else remember that stoicism is about more than simply managing the environment it is also about knowing and developing oneself if today’s debate prompted a discovery and Epiphany or even just some contemplation please share your thoughts in the comments below write your opinions share your experiences and let’s have a conversation that benefits us all so until the next time may your decisions reflect your values your actions reflect your knowledge and your life be the Masterpiece you were born to make when faced with disrespect it’s crucial to stay calm and collected stoicism a practical philosophy teaches us just that it’s about seeing others rude actions as their own issues not ours we learn to detach from negativity and not let it control our emotions this way we handle disrespect with strength and understanding it’s a gradual process but consistently applying these principles will show others that their negative behavior doesn’t affect us stay strong and focused and remember the most impactful part of this advice comes at the end of this journey one reflect on yourself taking the time to reflect on oneself in the midst of conflict can be a powerful tool for resolving disagreements in a healthy manner this involves examining one’s own motivations and behaviors and considering how one’s actions may have contributed to the situation at Hand by doing so one can identify areas for growth and Improvement and make changes accordingly additionally reflecting on one’s core values can provide a guiding framework for making decisions and taking action in situations of disrespect two keep your calm by keeping your calm in the face of disrespect you can avoid adding fuel to the fire and escalating the situation further instead you can choose to rise above the negativity and respond in a way that promotes healing and understanding remember the other person’s behavior is often a reflection of their own insecurities and misguided beliefs so taking the high road and responding with compassion and empathy can help diffuse the situation and promote positive change three cultivate empathy empathy is essential for mending and strengthening strained Relationships by empathizing we make an effort to view situations from the other person’s Viewpoint gaining insight into their possibly disrespectful Behavior it’s crucial to acknowledge that everyone faces unique challenges and hardships and often such behavior is a manifestation of their inner turmoil or misunderstanding showing compassion towards their plight allows us to handle situations with more kindness and patience even when we disagree with them this approach isn’t about excusing bad behavior but about striving to comprehend its underlying reasons and responding with a heart full of understanding and love for take a moment before reacting in the face of disrespect it’s natural to want to respond immediately and emotionally however it’s wiser to take a brief pause before reacting this pause creates a space for clearer thought and a more composed considerate response by delaying your reaction until you’ve gathered your thoughts you avoid escalating the conflict or causing additional problems this mindful approach helps in handling the situation more effectively and prevents regrettable actions or words five respond with Reason Not emotions when dealing with disrespect it can be tempting to respond with anger or frustration but this only adds fuel to the fire instead focusing on virtues like wisdom and courage can help us approach the situation with a level head and respond with reason rather than emotions by demonstrating wisdom we can find Creative Solutions to the problem at hand while courage helps us stand up for ourselves and communicate effectively despite any fear or anxiety we may feel responding with virtue takes practice but it can lead to more effective and satisfying outcomes in different difficult situations six Embrace acceptance this is an important aspect of personal growth and development it allows us to let go of unrealistic expectations and comparisons and instead focus on our own journey and progress embracing acceptance means acknowledging that we cannot control others actions or reactions but we can control our own responses and attitudes towards them when we learn to accept people in circumstances as they are without judgment or resistance we we can cultivate inner peace and happiness that is not dependent on external factors in this way we can respond to disrespect with Grace and Equanimity rather than anger or resentment seven choose forgiveness forgiveness is often seen as a sign of strength not weakness it doesn’t necessarily mean condoning or forgetting about the hurt caused by someone else’s disrespectful Behavior but rather choosing to release negative emotions such as anger resentment and bitterness by letting go of these emotions we free ourselves from their hold and can focus on healing and moving forward forgiveness does not mean that we become dorats or allow others to walk all over us rather it enables us to respond to disrespect with compassion and assertiveness Seeking Justice and fairness without letting hatred or grudges consume us this path may require time and effort But ultimately it leads to Greater inner peace and the ability to build stronger more meaningful relationships based on M mutual respect eight set clear boundaries setting clear boundaries is an essential part of self-care and respect it means being mindful of what you will and will not tolerate in your life and communicating those limits to others being the mountain refers to remaining steady and unshakable in the face of adversity just as a mountain Stands Tall and strong regardless of the winds that blow around it we can learn to stay true to ourselves and our values even in the Fai of disrespectful behavior from others by setting clear boundaries and standing firm in our beliefs we demonstrate to others that we won’t be pushed around or bullied into submission at the same time this teaches us to respect ourselves and our own needs and desires which forms the foundation of healthy relationships with others nine leverage humor and Smiles A Touch of humor or a simple smile can effectively ease tensions and lighten overly serious atmospheres we we often exacerbate conflicts by immersing ourselves too deeply in our emotions losing track of the larger context injecting humor or keeping a positive demeanor shifts attention from negative Vibes to a more amicable communication space it’s essential however to be mindful that humor is used thoughtfully without seeming disrespectful or minimizing the other person’s emotions 10 change your perspective embracing a wider perspective is key in managing tough situations with more insight and serenity this means distancing oneself from the immediacy of the situation to view it in a broader context understanding that change is constant and everything eventually evolves or Fades this broader Viewpoint allows us to sidestep the traps of vengeful thoughts or anger enabling us to respond with sagacity and empathy it also serves as a reminder of the transitory nature of material gains power and short-lived Pleasures which should overshadow our primary objectives and values by adopting such a perspective we can concentrate on cultivating lasting qualities like compassion humility and wisdom in summary mastering the art of dealing with disrespect is achievable through stoicism’s 10 key lessons these include staying calm introspective reflection pausing before reacting employing humor focusing on wisdom and courage embracing acceptance and empathy setting firm boundaries opting for forgiveness and shifting your Viewpoint by honing these abilities you’re not just responding to disrespect effectively you’re also standing up for yourself healing from any hurt and preserving your selfworth building this kind of inner fortitude takes real effort and dedication it involves confronting your weaknesses managing your emotions forming positive habits and leaning on mentors for support and guidance the payoff however ever is immense leading to a life filled with happiness love and purpose so the next time you face disrespect draw on these 10 stoic strategies day by day they’ll make you stronger and more Adept at handling life’s challenges you’ll discover that you have the strength to overcome any hurdle internal or external as the philosopher epicus said we have control over our opinions Pursuits desires and essentially our will take charge of your thoughts and actions and embark on this journey towards resilience and Inner Strength if you find Value in this approach please comment after watching the entire video don’t forget to subscribe for more insights and check out the accompanying video I’ve linked for further exploration

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