⚠️ 7 HARD truths about WOMEN, men learn too late ⚠️


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[Music] women who are traditionally viewed as the physically weaker sex should not be underestimated their potential for influence is enormous a cruel reality that many men have discovered firsthand forget fairy tales and cultural stereotypes that depict women as only nice and harmless it is time to face the facts ignorance of female nature no matter how nice a man you are can have serious consequences we’re about to delve into seven painful truths about women invaluable lessons learn from difficult situations understanding this is more than just self- protection it is about acknowledging women’s complicated sometimes misunderstood nature before we begin I would appreciate it if you like the video you can help me continue spreading the stoic philosophy if you are not subscribed I recommend you subscribe and activate the Bell to avoid missing any videos if you like the topic of this video please comment with a number one if you don’t please comment with a number two to let me know so I can make better videos in the the future one disrespect in boundaries disrespect from women is often a consequence of what you allow the moment you tolerate insults or raised voices you’re setting a precedent for future disrespect many men have shared stories of their Partners becoming physically aggressive this usually doesn’t happen out of the blue it’s often the end result of a pattern where the man has repeatedly allowed disrespect without setting firm boundaries the harsh reality is that if a man finds himself in a situation where a woman feels comfortable hitting him it’s likely because he failed to establish and enforce respect early on not setting these boundaries and tolerating disrespect can lead to more severe forms of disrespect later remember it’s about self-respect you wouldn’t accept abuse or disrespect from others so why tolerate it from a partner addressing minor acts of disrespect early can prevent major issues down the line it’s not just about reacting to disrespect it’s about proactively setting clear boundaries from the start two no weakness women may have a high level of empathy but when it comes to men particularly weak men this empathy often Fades women biologically speaking have a strong dislike for male weakness the modern narrative May teach men that it is okay to be vulnerable and openly weak but this is where many men fall short showing weakness to a woman can backfire throughout history women have been drawn to powerful authoritative figures there is little tolerance or sympathy for a who can’t deal with his problems this may seem harsh but it is reality she may seem sympathetic on the surface but she despises weakness this does not require you to be emotionless or inhuman everyone has moments of weakness it only signals to her brain that you’re not a capable leader for her or her future children instead learn to manage your emotions share your struggles with friends or brothers those who understand and support you remember projecting strength and stability is crucial in how women perceive your suitability as a partner three she’ll test you again and again women will put you to the test endlessly many men believe that women are unpredictable and change their moods all the time but it is actually about testing throughout history women have tested men while dating to determine whether they are worth committing to this evolutionary trait still exists women do this to determine whether you are the person with whom they can spend their lives and have children the tests can be varied such as her becoming emotional and initiating a fight if you respond emotionally and argue you have failed but if you remain calm and unfazed you pass most guys fail these tests because they don’t understand what’s happening they see the tests as disrespectful and get insulted but that’s not the right approach understand that women don’t test with bad intentions often they’re not even aware they’re doing it it’s part of their biological makeup a way to see if you’re as capable as you appear actions matter More Than Words in these situations four the reality of hypergamy the phenomenon of hypergamy is a stark reality within the dating sphere in essence it reflects a trend where men commonly seek partners of lower socioeconomic status while women tend to gravitate towards those who surpass them in success earnings and Leadership qualities importantly this inclination isn’t driven by materialistic motives or a desire for financial gain rather it stems from a fundamental need for safety and stability unlike men women are biologically predisposed to prioritize these attributes in a potential mate consequently they are drawn to individuals who exhibit greater prowess and capability as such qualities are deemed essential for ensuring their own and their offspring’s well-being so as a man it’s important to understand and accept this Dynamic there’s no room for complaints or excuses if you’re ambitious and driven being outperformed by your partner shouldn’t be an option Embrace this reality and let it fuel your drive to succeed five nice guys finish last reality is unforgiving and this includes how women perceive nice men here’s the harsh reality nice guys frequently finish last what’s the reason the so-called nice guy is typically passive aggressive using niceness as a tool of manipulation it’s a facade a way to gain favor while concealing true intentions women are not easy easily duped they can spot a fake nice guy a mile away and tend to friendzone him in contrast the bad boy or jerk knows exactly what he wants he exudes masculine characteristics such as assertiveness and dominance he does not use the niceness card to gain approval this authenticity is something the nice guy lacks the takeaway here is clear being genuinely assertive and confident trumps pretending to be nice women are attracted to realness and strength not a facade of niess used as a strategy to gain affection it’s about being true to your intentions and embodying genuine masculine traits six she needs security regardless of the fact that women today are more financially independent than ever before their biological needs have not changed every woman still seeks Security in a man this is more than just physical or Financial Security it is also about emotional security it is critical to be her Rock a constant source of support when she is emot it is your responsibility to remain calm you must be the unwavering force that can withstand her emotional storms and here’s an important Point even if she earns more than you don’t be mistaken a woman is not predisposed to be the provider the modern narrative promotes equality but it frequently ignores the fundamental differences between men and women these differences have always existed and they always will understanding and embracing these differences is essential making a woman feel secure in free sense of the word is the pathway to her heart it’s about being the stable Dependable man she needs regardless of the changing world around us seven She desires a winner strong morals and character are unquestionably important but they are only one piece of the puzzle women naturally gravitate toward those who emerge Victorious many people who fail to achieve success frequently use their morality and character as a shield claiming superiority over the pursuit of success they may extol their virtues loudly but it is often a ruse to avoid competition and life’s difficulties let’s face the truth no woman aspires to be with a Perpetual underachiever it’s a harsh reality but it’s the truth while everyone encounters setbacks there exists a profound distinction between encountering defeat and embodying Perpetual failure a true loser is one who never dares to enter the arena who stumbles and refuses to rise again who shelters behind feeble excuses the message here is Crystal Clear strive for victory reject mediocrity and remember if you’re dedicated to elevating yourself in life demonstrate your support feel free to subscribe so you won’t miss any videos in the future epicus the great stoic philosopher said that the goal is to surround yourself with people who pull you up and inspire you to be your best you’ve undoubtedly heard the expression you are the average of The Five People You spend the most time with today we’ll look at that concept through a stoic lens before we begin we will explore the seven categories of people that might impede your development in stoic philosophy and how to negotiate these difficult situations I’d love it if you could get the video so you can help me to spread the stoic philosophy if you are not already subscribed I encourage that you do so and activate the Bell so that you do not miss any videos number one the victim consider life to be a game of chess with each player having the same pieces and the same aim the opponent’s king is checkmated you plan ahead of time make some sacrifices and take some chances the victim on the other hand blames the board the pieces or even their opponent for every bad move they make they’re always in Checkmate not as a result of their choices but as a result of an outside power acting against them their story is a never-ending tale of adversity with themselves as the powerless protagonist I can’t advance in my career because my employer dislikes me or I can’t get in shape because I have poor genetics now it is critical to recognize that some people experience actual challenges as well as systemic issues however the victim in question utilizes their situation as an excuse to avoid taking responsibility for their actions or lack thereof you can become enmeshed in their plot possibly as a supporting character who is always needed to save them assume you’ve spent numerous hours listening to a buddy blame their NeverEnding line of unsuccessful relationships only on their ex Partners this not only wastes your time but it may also subtly persuade you to adopt a victim perspective in your own life so how do you proceed when dealing with a victim it may be tempting to become their rescue resuer providing unending guidance and emotional support but the stoics would advise against it they would advise you to set a clear boundary to preserve your mental health you might use a technique called compassionate Detachment show empathy and kindness but don’t try to save them they must handle their own difficulties provide a listening ear but avoid being their continuous problem solution Marcus Aurelius famously remarked that the finest retribution is to be unlike the one who committed the Injustice if you find yourself drawn into the victim’s narrative fight the impulse to become one yourself instead take charge of your own game board make your moves and remember that being permanently in Checkmate is frequently a choice not a fate in the chess game of life keep your pieces going ahead make strategic sacrifices when required and play for development and knowledge rather than Vengeance or pity number two the drama magnet consider your life to be a ship cruising over Peaceful Waters until you come across the vortex known as the drama magnet this person appears to have an endless succession of crises disputes or controversies and they have a disconcerting capacity to drag you into their Vortex of instability you could be drawn to the intensity of the drama magnets at first mistaking it for passion or excitement however you’ll quickly find that being in their Realms is taxing and risky much like piloting a ship through a storm what makes working with drama magnets so difficult is that their problems frequently feel like your own their Anarchy is contagious you can even find yourself engaged in disputes in which you have no prior involvement consider the following scenario you have a buddy that frequently clashes with with other people in your social group they’re not talking to Kate today Mario will be next your buddy seeks your help but you see that this cycle never stops and you find yourself at odds with Kate or Mario because you attempted to interfere in this scenario instead of providing advice or choosing sides try introspective listening and echoing their thoughts back to them for example if they remark I can’t believe Kate said that about me you may react so Kate’s words have betrayed me this strategy enables you to offer emotional support without becoming involved in the drama yourself another strategy which may appear paradoxical is to become selectively unavailable stoicism teaches us to value our time which sometimes means being unavailable for other people’s problems especially if they reoccur without resolution turn off your phone during specific hours set out time to focus completely on your job or personal growth and make it clear that you are not to be interrupted during these times senica true pleasure comes from enjoying the current moment without worrying about the future this is very useful when dealing with drama magnets instead of worrying about the next catastrophe focus on the current moment where you have control enjoy your life and don’t allow it be disturbed by someone else’s drama make a point of sailing your ship peacefully avoiding whirlpools that jeopardize your journey to personal progress and calmness number three the complainer we’ve all got that friend family member or coworker that always finds something wrong with everything whether it’s the weather their job or even the cuisine at a renowned restaurant they never pass up a chance to show their displeasure you may be wondering why this matters to me I can simply disregard them that however is easier said than done consistent exposure to such negativity drains your mental well-being it’s like a leaky faucet gradually emptying your store of emotional Vitality stoicism instructs us to focus on practical Solutions rather than issues consider the following scenario you’re working on a project with someone someone who is often complaining each meeting devolves into a tiring round of complaints with little useful discourse as the team’s morale deteriorates you get distracted from discovering practical answers and you may become progressively disgusted with the project and potentially with life in general so how can stoicism assist us in dealing with a complainer there are numerous approaches you may take first restrict your contact with this person whenever possible if that isn’t possible maybe because they are a family member or coworker your second choice is to mentally detach yourself from them during their rants consider their criticisms to be a passing storm noisy and disturbing But ultimately insignificant in comparison to the immovable Mountain that is your own inner peace your third option is to redirect the conversation or change the subject to something more constructive Marcus Aurelius you control your thoughts not external events when you realize this you will discover strength this Timeless stoic wisdom urges us to vigilantly defend our mental Serenity ensuring that the negativity of chronic complainers does not distract us from our stoic path of perseverance and virtue number four the naysayer consider yourself an artist working on a canvas each brush stroke enhances the color depth and vibrancy of your vision enter the skeptic they go into your studio take a look at your work and instantly start criticizing it are you certain about the Hue that doesn’t appear realistic you already know that most artists never get it perfect their remarks like gray paint Strokes begin to diminish your colorful canvas this isn’t your typical constructive critique however it may be useful instead it’s a continuous Aura of skepticism M and hostility assume you’re enthusiastic about exploring a new job path you’ve done your homework spoken with industry experts and perhaps even attended a few basic courses when you express your excitement with the Skeptics they rapidly list all the reasons why it won’t work the market is overcrowded do you have the necessary skills what if you fail too soon their uncertainties begin to feel like your own and the confident your eyesight is beginning to sway how do you deal with a skeptic especially if they are close to you rather than simply presenting your objectives or aspirations one uncommon yet successful technique is to ask them for advice people in advisory roles are less likely to oppose your ideas directly and may provide more useful comments instead of absorbing their negativity another option includes changing the script through a technique technique known as positive confrontation encourage them to come up with Solutions if they suggest you’ll never be able to change occupations at this point respond with an intriguing Viewpoint how do you believe someone could effectively change careers this not only deflects criticism but also stimulates more positive discourse remember the teachings of epicus the stoic philosopher because we have two ears and one mouth we can listen listen twice as much as we can talk listening does not imply taking in everyone’s criticism it entails distinguishing useful input from noise take a step back listen think and continue painting your own life with the colors that speak to you when the doubters begin to obscure your canvas with their shades of Doubt don’t allow anyone transform your colorful creation into a monotonous gray landscape number five the time vampire consider your everyday routine to be a well-crafted symphony when each instrument symbolizes a work or responsibility they form a wonderful balance until the time Vampire joins in shrieking Off Pitch drowning out your song and converting your beautiful Masterpiece into discordant cacophony vampires are not always evil in fact they may appear rather benign it could be a coworker who constantly interrupts you with trivial questions transforming your productive workday into a series of fragmented moments or it could be a friend who invites you to countless social events that you don’t want to attend making you feel obligated to attend and draining your time and energy these interactions may appear little in the moment but the cumulative effect may be tremendously disruptive so how can you prevent a Time vampire from ruining your [Music] Symphony the pomodora technique a time management tool that includes splitting your work into 25 minute segments typically separated by brief breaks is one effective option you make it plain that you are not to be bothered During certain intervals this creates a barrier that prevents your most productive periods from getting eaten away if you are dealing with a social time Vampire remember that saying no is not just acceptable it is necessary for your well-being instead of detailed explanations a simple I appreciate the invitation but I can’t make it would work according to senica refusing an invitation is a confirmation of your own needs and priorities not a rejection of the individual life if lived well is long enough stoicism emphasizes that time is one of our most valuable resources and it should be used carefully it’s the canvas on which we paint the portrait of our life and we should be very picky about who and what gets a brushstroke make sure that each note instrument and Melody in your life’s big Masterpiece coincide with your greater purpose don’t let a Time vampire’s cacophonous incursion disrupt your Symphony as we approach the conclusion of today’s examination of the characters who might derail our road toward stoic resilience and wisdom hold the Baton firmly and conduct your life with purpose ensuring that every moment is a note beautifully played in your harmonic Masterpiece number six the toxic positivist when you’re going through a difficult time they’re the ones that encourage you to Simply Be cheerful dismissing your sentiments and experiences with a flippant wave of sparkly optimism consider your life to be a garden flowers are present but so are weeds and bugs a poison visous positivist on the other hand refuses to see anything that isn’t a budding Rose aphids will appear on your leaves just concentrate on the flowers they tell you not to bring negativity into your garden while it may appear to be encouraging their approach may leave you feeling rejected and removed from reality you’re upset bewildered and looking for emotional balance if you’re going through a difficult breakup the advice of the toxic positivist the water is teeming with fish simply grin and be happy excessive optimism ignores the intricacies of human emotion and the realities of life’s obstacles how can you grow your garden without allowing poisonous positivists to trample it with their indiscriminate sprinkling of Positive Vibes the only option is to engage them in a conversation that includes both light and shade look on the bright side they say and you have your health yes I’m glad for my health but it’s also fair for me to be furious about this particular situation both are compatible you may also use what psychologists refer to as emotional granularity which is the capacity to feel and distinguish between a wide spectrum of emotions both good and negative because of X I’m feeling a little down today which is okay referencing stoic thinking may be a freeing confirmation senica once remarked that genuine pleasure is understanding our duty to God and man and enjoying the now without worrying about the future take note of the balance between comprehending unpleasant obligations and enjoying the moment a stoic attitude does not focus only on the good or bad rather it Embraces life’s complexities with Serenity so the next time a poisonous positivist dumps confetti on your well-kept garden take a step back and realize that a garden requires both sunlight and Rain to thrive accept your entire emotional range and continue to nurture your garden with the richness and complexity it deserves number seven the manipulator consider your life to be a script for a movie you’re the main character and you have an idea of how your narrative should play out where the twists will come from who your allies and mentors will be and what your final Act will look like enter the manipulator the Shady producer who quietly rewrites your script without your knowledge until one day you discover your tale has deviated from its original path the manipulator is an expert in emotional or psychological manipulation they may use flattery guilt trips or even deception to guide you in a path that favors them you could have a buddy who constantly gets you to pay for dinner by saying something like you know I’ve been having a rough month and you’re so successful it wouldn’t mean much to you but would make my day better over time you realize that your generosity has been used but calling them out seems awkward since they frame it as a favor to a friend in need handling a manipulator may be difficult fogging is a technique used by certain Specialists to oppose their techniques this strategy entails accepting any truth in the manipulator’s assertions but refusing to be affected by emotional persuasion you may react if they claim you’re so successful you should pay for supper you are right that I have been performing well but let us share the bill as usual another strategy is to establish and enforce defined limits if the manipulator asks you to lend them money or commit to duties that you don’t want to do learn to say no assertively maintain a cool tone and straightforward communication I can’t lend money but I can offer emotional assistance that maintains the connection while setting a limit borrowing inspiration from stoic ideas epicas cautioned us that while we cannot control our external circumstances we can always control how we respond to them the manipulator profits from your predicted emotions they use your generosity remorse or need for acceptance by responding differently you reclaim control of your script so if you come across a manipulator in your life remember that you’re the one with the pen your storyline is yours to write and while the cast may include a variety of characters your journey should always be guided by your own values and decisions reclaim your script and don’t allow anyone change the course of your life let us not Overlook the importance of self-awareness it’s simple to spot these Personalities in others but the more difficult and instructive challenge is to look for them in yourself are you accidentally performing one of these roles in the life of someone else remember that stoicism is about more than simply managing the environment it is also about knowing and developing oneself if today’s debate prompted a discovery an epiphany or even just some contemplation please share your thoughts in the comments below write your opinion share your experiences and let’s have a conversation that benefits us all so until the next time may your decisions reflect your values your actions reflect your knowledge and your life be the Masterpiece you were born to make in a world full of challenges setbacks and obstacles where times are more challenging than ever now is the time for you to rise up and become the best version of yourself this video will guide you through five essential masculine and habits that will help you overcome your problems and live a more fulfilling life it’s far more than just another self-help video it acts as a blueprint for a stronger and more resilient self let’s dive in together and Unleash Your true potential stay tuned because today we’re laying the foundation for your journey to become the man who is destined for greatness from birth number one control your mind when dealing with life’s challenges the first and most important step is to take control of your heart men often feel overwhelmed by their problems and complain not only does this undermine their masculinity it also exacerbates their problems a person’s greatness depends on his ability to deal with problems effectively and if you hesitate to deal with small problems you will weaken yourself your mind is your most powerful weapon failure to control it can lead to self-inflicted problems because your thoughts determine your actions remember if you don’t control your mind it will undoubtedly control you and lead you to develop destructive habits and unproductive activities mindfulness is the key to controlling your thoughts by focusing on the present moment and accepting your feelings and thoughts you gain control this is not a quick fix but a necessary practice understand that your thoughts are powerful and can both create and Destroy take charge for your life’s trajectory depends on it number two exercise daily train every day exercise is the secret weapon that can change your life it’s not just about looking good it’s about feeling good and becoming mentally sharper daily exercise is a powerful habit that can help you overcome problems and achieve your goals when you exercise you not only only take care of your physical health but also improve your mental Clarity many seemingly insurmountable problems can become solvable with good training exercise releases endorphins oxygenating your body and clearing your mind this kind of physical activity isn’t limited to the gym a simple brisk walk or a quick home workout may be enough the key is consistency when you incorporate exercise into your daily routine you’ll find that many of the problems that once troubled you now become easier to solve you’ll become more resilient more focused and ready to face life’s challenges headon don’t underestimate the power of daily exercise it’s not just about building a better body number three question after question after you’ve developed your mental discipline gained mental clarity through daily exercise and adopted a Whole Foods diet it’s time to take a practical approach to solving the problem the key is to solve one problem at a time trying to conquer Everything at Once often leads to overwhelm and procrastination to solve this problem write down a task the night before and if it’s a complex problem break it down into manageable steps starting your day with clear goals can improve focus and productivity it’s important to understand that solving a problem is not about solving the most important tasks first it’s about continuous Improvement small conscious steps lead to huge success by setting yourself challenges every day you’ll stay motivated and steadily move closer to your goals remember life is a journey and you are the master of your destiny number four eating habits play a pivotal role in a man’s ability to conquer life’s challenges it’s time to stop consuming junk and start embracing Natural Foods as men we’re not children or individuals prone to hormonal mood swings we eat with intention the foods we choose directly impact our future both mentally and physically when you indulge in processed unhealthy Foods your body and mind become preoccupied with processing these empty calories this diminishes your mental sharpness and problem solving abilities however hunger when harnessed as a superpower can enhance your productivity working while fasting can make you significantly sharper enabling you to tackle problems effectively furthermore when you do eat opt for Natural nutrient-rich Foods balance is the key with around 80% of your nutrition comprising these natural foods that fuel your body and mind the remaining 20% can be reserved for occasional Treats but always make conscious choices rather than succumbing to bad habits fast teaches you to appreciate the taste and benefits of real wholesome food diminishing your cravings for unhealthy snacks remember a well-nourished body is better equipped to handle life’s challenges number five make money making money is an important aspect of being a truly manly man while it’s true that money can’t buy happiness it does remove the financial burden that’s weighing you down in a world ruled by money a lack of financial stability leaves you powerless it’s important to think of making money as one of your primary responsibilities as a provider some people deflect their financial difficulties by claiming that money is the root of all evil or that money does not bring happiness however these are merely coping mechanisms to justify their own fiscal deficits don’t fall into this trap instead face it mastering the art of making money is critical to your personal growth remember it’s never too late to learn something new and improve your financial situation by subscribing to our Channel you will receive valuable information and strategies to help you on the path to financial success in the future money might not be everything but it’s a tool that can Empower you to lead a more fulfilling life continue to forge your path with these habits as your steadfast allies and may you thrive in the face of adversity if you found 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  1. The alpha of today would be crushed like a bug by the alphas of epictetus' day. And today crushed by any common construction worker, when the next cataclysm occurs, the lies will stop. And the cycle begins again…

  2. At age 81, I can confirm every one of your points. I can only add that today, a globalist media promotes feminism as a weapon to undermine masculinity, as leverage to destroy the concept of family. Nevertheless, if a man frequently reminds himself of your points he can surmount these obstacles. Many men have intuitively moved to countries where women retain the values that have served them well for millennia. I refer here to Vietnam, Thailand, Laos, Cambodia, Philippines, and some Latino nations. It is never too late to move the odds in your favour. Women of the west have permitted themselves to become the weapons of their own destruction. Incidentally, I exercise, lift weights, do pushups, cycle, write articles and books, play rock/blues Fender guitar, and design industry entry modes for third world nations combatting western colonialism. A man must fight to the day he dies. That is our destiny. Finally, eat only natural foods.

  3. Fuck this video, I say act like a man and go take everything I want-Fuck it. For example if there is a new sport car out. I am going to work my ass off towards trying to get it and I don't give a fuck about what somebody thinks about it. I think what attract women to men is our careless and arrogant attitude. Like, I don't care about how she feels about me or her crictism about me getting this new sports car. Either she supports me all the way or she will not be riding in my new sports car when we do get it-facts. Basically I just learnt how to love myself, and I always think positive all the time. And I always try to learn from all of my past mistakes and move straight ahead towards the future and never looking back. If I had 40 to 50 women chasing after me daily, why would I care about one or two women that did not like me at all- Make That Make Sense?? Hey man, fuck them two stupid bitches that was trying to change who I am and what I ĥave become and tried to stop more blessings to come my way-you dig. I got another 50 women saying that I am the best thing walking around since slice bread-facts. I love all your videos and please keep them coming, homie. All of these videos are trying to tell me that I am not crazy, but my surroundings and environments are-FACTS. I'm always thankful and I count all of my blessings on a daily basis-AMAN.

  4. If i had known this facts at a younger age i probably would never have gotten married, taking in account the many other responsibilities that a man has to endure like taking care of family, raising children, paying bills just to mention but a few is enough to drive any man up a hill let alone everything you mentioned in your video thus far,is way too much for any man to maintain his sanity and whit all that pressure, no wonder there are so many devorce cases all over the world.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂