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[Music] are you tired of feeling disrespected by the women in your life do you want to know why your woman doesn’t respect you and how to change that you’ve come to the right place because in this video we’ll talk about why respect is so important in relationships and how to earn it to be clear we are not discussing being toxic or abusive to women this is never acceptable because respect and attraction go hand inand we’ll talk about how to gain a woman’s respect in a positive and healthy way one is impossible without the other as a result in order to be perceived as attractive you must first earn the respect of women in this video we will discuss it so sit down take some notes and get ready to learn the seven ways to instantly gain a woman’s respect before we begin I would appreciate it if you like the video you can help me continue spreading the stoic philosophy if you are not subscribed I recommend you subscribe and activate the Bell to avoid missing any videos if you like the topic of this video please comment with a number one if you don’t please comment with a number two to let me know so I can make better videos in the future one respect yourself and she will respect you if you want to be respected by others you must first respect yourself however most men don’t understand what it is and end up draining it from their personalities this reduces their presence making it difficult for women to notice them you become a man when you respect yourself which includes being honest with yourself and and others accepting responsibility planning for your future and doing something meaningful with your life when you’re satisfied with yourself you feel proud and respected and this positive energy follows you like a powerful force women will sense your strength and respect you if you carry yourself with dignity however if you spend your entire life pretending you exist no one will respect you make an impact in everything you do and you will earn respect that lasts remember respect yourself first and others will follow suit two learn how to say no if a woman thinks you have low self-esteem she might take advantage of you and lose respect for you you must learn to say no and establish boundaries while remaining respectful understanding who you are as a person and your values is critical for recognizing when your partner is acting in opposition to them relationships require sacrifices and adjustments but you must never lose yourself in the process if you don’t respect yourself neither will your partner a low self-esteem is unattractive and can lead to cheating so keep your masculine energy in a relationship if you compromise your values too much you will lose both your own and your partner’s respect so it’s essential to respect yourself if you want your partner to respect you three increase your value you can increase your value in a variety of ways but if you want women to admire and respect you you must first understand what women women want how they think and what attracts and repels them women are drawn to and admire men who can lead be a leader and take command of the events unfolding around them as well as men who understand how to control their lives and make things happen this will bring you a lot of female admiration women prefer confident men which increases your worth know that you are powerful enough to defend her from any harm and she will cling to you like a lovesick puppy and never leave your side until the end your passion for chasing purpose your gentle and calm behavior and your mysterious personality are all factors that can increase your value four be real about your words and actions many men are arrogant in their pursuit of the affections of the women they desire doing things they don’t enjoy and lavishing the woman with compliments as if she were a goddess however you should be aware that acting as a s will never earn you a woman’s respect because she will Det protect your true intentions whether platonic or sexual if you want her to respect you you must be completely honest with her at all times if you promise to pick her up from work don’t make excuses tell her about any foods you dislike if you like her offer genuine compliments if you don’t agree with everything she says express your opinion five stand up for yourself many men have low self-esteem because they are overly polite to others they do not defend their belief Bel or actions when confronted by others however being able to advocate for yourself not only increases your Independence but also adds charm to your personality when you learn self-defense you not only gain confidence in the respect of those around you but you also begin to see yourself and function at a higher level which increases your sense of worth and attracts women who want to be with you in that capacity six avoid being needy you cannot be needy if you want women to think highly of you she will recognize your neediness and turn away women want to be loved as well as to satisfy their sexual needs you also don’t want to come across a scared of losing her as this will give her control and make you feel disrespected you must set boundaries for yourself if you want women to respect you she will not perceive your lack of strength if you appear calm and collected rather she will believe that you are with her because you genuinely care about her when she sees you as a man who can live on his own she’ll be attracted to you even before she knows you seven Chase your purpose men without goals are useless women prefer men who are self assured protective compassionate and sincere even if they have a life purpose women are unable to resist the increased magnetism that comes with pursuing a life purpose men with a purpose need only pursue their goals not women women will pursue you if you focus on your goal instead of wasting time on meaningless activities find your purpose and work toward it remember that women seek men of authority and you can become one by pursuing your goals you can become the type of man that women genuinely admire by affirming your worth setting boundaries being genuine in both your words and actions increasing your self-esteem and avoiding being needy put these suggestions into action right now and you’ll see your relationships transform before your eyes remember to subscribe to our channel to see more informative videos like this one we appreciate your time and we’ll see you at the next one epicus the great stoic philosopher said that the goal is to surround yourself with people who pull you up and inspire you to be your best you’ve undoubtedly heard the expression you are the average of The Five People You spend the most time with today we’ll look at that concept through a stoic lens before we begin we will explore the seven categories of people that might impede your development in stoic philosophy and how to negotiate these difficult situations I’d love it if you could get the video so you can help me to spr the stoic philosophy if you are not already subscribed I encourage that you do so and activate the Bell so that you do not miss any videos number one the victim consider life to be a game of chess with each player having the same pieces and the same aim the opponent’s king is checkmated you plan ahead of time make some sacrifices and take some chances the victim on the other hand blames the board the pieces or even their opponent for every bad move they make they’re always in Checkmate not as a result of their choices but as a result of an outside power acting against them their story is a never-ending tale of adversity with themselves as the powerless protagonist I can’t advance in my career because my employer dislikes me or I can’t get in shape because have poor genetics now it is critical to recognize that some people experience actual challenges as well as systemic issues however the victim in question utilizes their situation as an excuse to avoid taking responsibility for their actions or lack thereof you can become inmed in their plot possibly as a supporting character who is always needed to save them assume you’ve spent numerous hours listening to a buddy blame their NeverEnding line of unsuccessful relationships only on their ex Partners this not only wastes your time but it may also subtly persuade you to adopt a victim perspective in your own life so how do you proceed when dealing with a victim it may be tempting to become their rescuer providing unending guidance and emotional support but the stoics would advise against it they would advise you to set a clear boundary to preserve your mental health you might use a technique called compassionate Detachment show empathy and kindness but don’t try to save them they must handle their own difficulties provide a listening ear but avoid being their continuous problem solution Marcus Aurelius famously remarked that the finest retribution is to be unlike the one who committed the Injustice if you find yourself drawn into the victim’s narrative fight the impulse to become one yourself instead take charge of your own game board make your moves and remember that being permanently in Checkmate is frequently a choice not a fate in the chess game of life keep your pieces going ahead make strategic sacrifices when required and play for development and knowledge rather than Vengeance or pity number two the drama magnet consider your life to be a ship cruising over Peaceful Waters until you come across the vortex known as as the drama magnet this person appears to have an endless succession of crises disputes or controversies and they have a disconcerting capacity to drag you into their Vortex of instability you could be drawn to the intensity of the drama magnets at first mistaking it for passion or excitement however you’ll quickly find that being in their Realms is taxing and risky much like piloting a ship through a storm what makes working with drama magnet so difficult is that their problems frequently feel like your own their Anarchy is contagious you can even find yourself engaged in disputes in which you have no prior involvement consider the following scenario you have a buddy that frequently clashes with other people in your social group they’re not talking to Kate today Mario will be next your buddy seeks your help but you see that this cycle never stops and you find yourself at odds with Kate or Mario because you attempted to interfere in this scenario instead of providing advice or choosing sides try introspective listening and echoing their thoughts back to them for example if they remark I can’t believe Kate said that about me you may react so Kate’s words have betrayed me this strategy enables you to offer emotional support without becoming involved in the drama yourself another strategy which may appear paradoxical is to become selectively unavailable stoicism teaches us to value our time which sometimes means being unavailable for other people’s problems especially if they reoccur without resolution turn off your phone during specific hours set out time to focus completely on your job or personal growth and make it clear that you are not to be interrupted during these times senica true pleasure comes from enjoying the current moment without worrying about the future this is very useful when dealing with drama magnets instead of worrying about the next catastrophe focus on the current moment where you have control enjoy your life and don’t allow it be disturbed by someone else’s drama make a point of sailing your ship peacefully avoiding whirlpools that jeopardize your journey to personal progress and calmness number three the complainer we’ve all got that friend family member or coworker that always finds something wrong with everything whether it’s the weather their job or even the cuisine at a renowned restaurant they never pass up a chance to show their displeasure you may be wondering why this matters to me I can simply disregard them that however is easier said than done consistent exposure to such negativ drains your mental well-being it’s like a leaky faucet gradually emptying your store of emotional Vitality stoicism instructs us to focus on practical Solutions rather than issues consider the following scenario you’re working on a project with someone who is often complaining each meeting devolves into a tiring round of complaints with little useful discourse as the team’s morale deteriorates you get distracted from discovering practical answers and you may become progressively disgusted with the project and potentially with life in general so how can stoicism assist us in dealing with a complainer there are numerous approaches you may take first restrict your contact with this person whenever possible if that isn’t possible maybe because they are a family member or coworker your second choice is to mentally detach yourself from them during their rants consider their criticisms to be a passing storm noisy and disturbing But ultimately insignificant in comparison to the immovable Mountain that is your own inner peace your third option is to redirect the conversation or change the subject to something more constructive Marcus Aurelius you control your thoughts not external events when you realize this you will discover strength this Timeless stoic wisdom urges us to vigilantly defend our mental serenity ensuring that the negativity of chronic complainers does not distract us from our stoic path of perseverance and virtue number four the naysayer consider yourself an artist working on a canvas each brush stroke enhances the color depth and vibrancy of your vision enter the skeptic they go into your studio take a look at your work and instantly start criticizing it are you certain about the Hue that doesn’t appear realistic you already know that most artists never get it perfect their remarks like gray paint Strokes begin to diminish your colorful canvas this isn’t your typical constructive critique however it may be useful instead it’s a continuous Aura of skepticism and hostility assume you’re enthusiastic about exploring a new job path you’ve done your homework spoken with industry experts and perhaps even attended a few basic courses when you express your excitement with the Skeptics they rapidly list all the reasons why it won’t work the market is overcrowded do you have the necessary skills what if you fail too soon their uncertainties begin to feel like your own and The Confident your eyesight is beginning to sway how do you deal with a skeptic especially if they are close to you rather than simply presenting your objectives or aspirations one common yet successful technique is to ask them for advice people in advisory roles are less likely to oppose your ideas directly and may provide more useful comments instead of absorbing their negativity another option includes changing the script through a technique known as positive confrontation encourage them to come up with Solutions if they suggest you’ll never be able to change occupations at this point respond with an intriguing viewpoint how do you believe someone could effectively change careers this not only deflects criticism but also stimulates more positive discourse remember the teachings of epicus the stoic philosopher because we have two ears and one mouth we can listen twice as much as we can talk listening does not imply taking in everyone’s criticism it entails distinguishing useful input from noise take a step back listen think and continue painting your own life with the colors that speak to you when the doubters begin to obscure your canvas with their shades of Doubt don’t allow anyone transform your colorful creation into a monotonous gray landscape number five the time Vampire consider your everyday routine to be a well-crafted symphony when each instrument symbolizes a work or responsibility they form a wonderful balance until the time vampire joins in shrieking Off Pitch drowning out your song and converting your beautiful Masterpiece into discordant cacophony vampires are not always evil in fact they may appear rather benign it could be a coworker who constantly interrupts you with trivial questions transforming your productive workday into a series of fragmented moments or it could be a friend who invites you to countless social events that you don’t want to attend making you feel obl liated to attend and draining your time and energy these interactions may appear little in the moment but the cumulative effect may be tremendously disruptive so how can you prevent a Time vampire from ruining your Symphony the Pomodoro Technique a time management tool that includes splitting your work into 25 minute segments typically separated by brief breaks is one effective option you make it plain that you are not to be bothered During certain intervals this creates a barrier that prevents your most productive periods from getting eaten away if you are dealing with a social time Vampire remember that saying no is not just acceptable it is necessary for your well-being instead of detailed explanations a simple I appreciate the invitation but I can’t make it would work according to senica refusing an invitation is a confirmation of your own needs and priorities not a rejection of the individual life if lived well is long enough stoicism emphasizes that time is one of our most valuable resources and it should be used carefully it’s the canvas on which we paint the portrait of our life and we should be very picky about who and what gets a brushstroke make sure that each note instrument and Melody in your life’s big Masterpiece coincide with with your greater purpose don’t let a Time vampire’s cacophonous incursion disrupt your Symphony as we approach the conclusion of today’s examination of the characters who might derail our road toward stoic resilience and wisdom hold the Baton firmly and conduct your life with purpose ensuring that every moment is a note beautifully played in your harmonic Masterpiece number six the toxic positivist when you’re going through a difficult ult time they’re the ones that encourage you to Simply Be cheerful dismissing your sentiments and experiences with a flippant wave of sparkly optimism consider your life to be a garden flowers are present but so are weeds and bugs a poisonous positivist on the other hand refuses to see anything that isn’t a budding Rose aphids will appear on your leaves just concentrate on the flowers they tell you not to bring negativity into your garden while it may appear to be encouraging their approach may leave you feeling rejected and removed from reality you’re upset bewildered and looking for emotional balance if you’re going through a difficult breakup the advice of the toxic positivist the water is teeming with fish simply grin and be happy excessive optimism ignores the intricacies of human emotion and the realities of life’s obstacles how can you grow your garden without allowing poisonous positivists to trample it with their indiscriminate sprinkling of Positive Vibes the only option is to engage them in a conversation that includes both light and shade look on the bright side they say and you have your health yes I’m glad for my health but it’s also fair for me to be furious about this particular situation both are compatible you may also use what psychologist refer to as emotional granularity which is the capacity to feel and distinguish between a wide spectrum of emotions both good and negative because of X I’m feeling a little down today which is okay referencing stoic thinking may be a freeing confirmation senica once remarked that genuine pleasure is understanding our duty to God and man and enjoying the now without worrying about the future take note of the balance between comprehending unpleasant obligations and enjoying the moment a stoic attitude does not focus only on the good or bad rather it Embraces life’s complexities with Serenity so the next time a poisonous positivist dumps confetti on your well-kept garden take a step back and realize that a garden requires both sunlight and Rain to thrive accept your entire emotional range and continue to nurture your G garden with the richness and complexity it deserves number seven the manipulator consider your life to be a script for a movie you’re the main character and you have an idea of how your narrative should play out where the twists will come from who your allies and mentors will be and what your final Act will look like enter the manipulator the Shady producer who quietly rewrites your script without your knowledge until one day you discover your t has deviated from its original path the manipulator is an expert in emotional or psychological manipulation they may use flattery guilt trips or even deception to guide you in a path that favors them you could have a buddy who constantly gets you to pay for dinner by saying something like you know I’ve been having a rough month and you’re so successful it wouldn’t mean much to you but would make my day better over time you realize that your generosity has been used but calling them out seems awkward since they frame it as a favor to a friend in need handling a manipulator may be difficult fogging is a technique used by certain Specialists to oppose their techniques this strategy entails accepting any truth in the manipulator’s assertions but refusing to be affected by emotional persuasion you may react if they claim you’re so successful you should pay for supper you are right that I have been performing well but let us share the bill as usual another strategy is to establish and enforce defined limits if the manipulator asks you to lend them money or commit to duties that you don’t want to do learn to say no assertively maintain a cool tone and straightforward communication I can’t lend money but I can offer emotional assistance that maintains the connection while setting a limit borrowing inspiration from stoic ideas epicus cautioned us that while we cannot control our external circumstances we can always control how we respond to them the manipulator profits from your predicted emotions they use your generosity remorse or need for acceptance by responding differently you reclaim control of your script so if you come across a manipulator in your life remember that you’re the one with the pen your story line is yours to write and while the cast may include a variety of characters your journey should always be guided by your own values and decisions reclaim your script and don’t allow anyone change the course of your life let us not Overlook the importance of self-awareness it’s simple to spot these Personalities in others but the more difficult and instructive challenge is to look for them in yourself are you accidentally performing one of these roles in the life of someone else remember remember that stoicism is about more than simply managing the environment it is also about knowing and developing oneself if today’s debate prompted a discovery an epiphany or even just some contemplation please share your thoughts in the comments below write your opinions share your experiences and let’s have a conversation that benefits us all so until the next time may your decisions reflect your values your actions reflect your knowledge and your life be the Masterpiece you were born to make imagine stepping into a world where your kindness is seen not as a virtue but a weakness where your generosity is exploited and your compassion becomes a tool in the hands of others to manipulate and control you this isn’t a dystopian fiction it’s a stark reality for many who practice unguarded kindness today we’re delving into the stoic perspective on kindness and exploring the 10 ways how excessive kindness can actually ruin your life one the loss of respect consider this simple example to illustrate the loss of respect from excessive kindness imagine always lending money to friends without asking when they’ll return it initially they might appreciate your generosity but over time they begin to expect it your kindness has inadvertently taught them that your resources are always available leading to a lack of appreciation and respect for your financial boundaries the solution lies in setting clear boundaries next time a friend asks for a loan gently remind them of your policy for repayment or offer Alternatives like helping them budget this approach respects both your resources and maintains the Integrity of your relationships stoicism teaches us the importance of self-respect and the value of boundaries by setting these limits we ensure our kindness is appreciated and respected not taken for granted two being overburdened visualize yourself as the always available volunteer at your child’s School your name echoes in every Corridor synonymous with tireless help at bake sales plays and field trips initially this involvement brings a sense of accomplishment but soon the toll becomes evident your personal time shrinks your energy waines and your hobbies once a source of Joy now sit in neglect this is the classic trap of overextending oneself in the spirit of kindness stoicism with its emphasis on balance and inner Tranquility teaches us to avoid such extremes it’s essential to strike a harmonious balance between assisting others and nurturing our own needs reflect on the activities that align with your passions and bring genuine fulfillment prioritize these and allow yourself to step back from the rest embracing the stoic principle of moderation begin to practice saying no with Grace and conviction this is not about withdrawing your support but about redistributing your your energy more wisely by selectively engaging in activities that resonate with you your contributions become more impactful and your personal well-being remains intact this balanced approach ensures that your kindness is a sustainable gift to your community and to yourself three exploitation by others consider the friend who always calls you for favors never for a casual chat you help but it feels one-sided sto is reminds us to be Discerning it’s time to have an honest conversation with your friend set clear expectations about your willingness to help and observe if the relationship balances or remains lopsided this approach will help you invest your kindness where it’s valued and not exploited four loss of personal goals and Ambitions imagine having dreams like mastering a new language or starting a business these goals are part of who you are yet they’re sidelined by your constant help to others your time is spent on Friends needs and family requests leaving little for your Ambitions here’s where stoicism’s emphasis on personal growth becomes vital it teaches us to value our development as much as we value helping others it’s time to recalibrate your priorities start by scheduling specific time for your goals treating them with the same seriousness as your commitments to others this isn’t selfishness it’s essential for your growth by allotting dedic ated time for your Ambitions you honor your aspirations while maintaining your supportive role this balanced approach ensures you nurture your dreams without neglecting others leading to a more fulfilling life if you made it this far feel free to like And subscribe so you won’t miss any videos in the future five emotional exhaustion imagine always being the shoulder to cry on the problem solver while you’re there for everyone who’s there for you you feel emotionally drained stoicism teaches the importance of emotional resilience start setting emotional boundaries it’s okay to offer support but not at the cost of your emotional health practice self-care routines to recharge your emotional batteries six being perceived as inauthentic when you constantly say yes when you want to say no it can lead others to question your sincerity this habit of being overly accommodating while often well-intentioned may result in a perception of inauthenticity stoicism an ancient philosophy valuing wisdom and self-control encourages authenticity it suggests that being true to your feelings and openly expressing your genuine thoughts and opinions is not just about self-honesty but also about cultivating respect and Trust from others authenticity according to stoicism aligns your actions with your inner values leading to a more fulfilling life this approach is not only liberating but also builds stronger more honest relationships while it might be challenging initially to express your true feelings especially when they go against the grain this honesty can bring a sense of peace and Clarity it removes pretense allowing for deeper connections ultimately embracing authenticity brings both personal peace and enhances your relationships it shows strength of character and earns respect from those around you in a world where sincerity is rare choosing to be genuine is both revolutionary and deep rewarding seven the development of resentment when you’re consistently compromising your preferences to accommodate others it can lead to a buildup of resentment continually setting aside your desires or choices for the sake of others might seem selfless but it often comes at the cost of your own well-being stoicism a philosophy grounded in mastering control over one’s emotions cautions against harboring such negative feelings it emphasizes the the importance of acknowledging and addressing them before they escalate the stoic approach encourages you to start voicing your preferences and assertively stand your ground in decision-making processes this doesn’t mean becoming inflexible or uncooperative but rather finding a fair balance between your needs and those of others it’s about establishing boundaries that allow you to maintain your integrity and self- reses while still being considerate of others needs initiating this change might be challenging ing especially if you’re used to always yielding however it’s essential for your emotional health and personal growth by expressing your true preferences and participating actively in decisionmaking you not only alleviate feelings of resentment but also Foster healthier more balanced relationships remember finding Harmony between your needs and the needs of others is key to personal contentment and emotional well-being eight Financial strain imagine being the person everyone turns to for financial help whether it’s a friend short on rent or a relative facing unexpected bills you’re always ready to assist it feels good to be so generous to be the one who can always be counted on however over time this generosity starts to impact your own finances your savings are not growing they might even be shrinking you find yourself hesitating before checking your bank balance a clear sign that your financial health is suffering due to your con and generosity this is where the wisdom of stoicism can guide you stoics believed in living a life of moderation including how we handle our finances they taught that helping others is Noble but not at the cost of our own stability it’s time to apply this wisdom to your life start by assessing your financial situation and setting a budget for charitable giving and personal loans this isn’t about stopping your generosity but about managing it wisely when friends or family ask ask for financial aid consider offering support in non-monetary ways like giving advice or helping them to budget if you do lend money make it clear it’s within your means and set terms for repayment by practicing this stoic principle of moderation you can maintain your generous Spirit without putting your financial future at risk this balanced approach ensures that your kindness is a sustainable part of your life not a source of personal strain nine neglecting close Rel relationships in the pursuit of kindness and benevolence towards everyone there is a risk of inadvertently neglecting the very relationships that form the Cornerstone of Our Lives stoicism a philosophy rooted in practical wisdom emphasizes the significance of nurturing deep and meaningful connections with those closest to us it is vital to remember that while extending kindness to all is commendable our closest relationships those with family and dear friends deserve our utmost attention and Care often in the hustle of daily life and the noble Endeavor to be universally kind we may Overlook the needs and importance of those who are consistently present in our lives these are the individuals who offer unwavering support understand our deepest fears and joys and contribute significantly to our personal growth and well-being therefore it is essential to periodically re-evaluate our commitments and priorities making time for family and close friends is not just a duty but but a nurturing of the bonds that sustain us emotionally and psychologically this doesn’t mean diminishing the kindness we offer to others rather it’s about striking a delicate balance by consciously allocating time and energy to our personal relationships we enrich our lives and deepen the connections that truly matter in doing so we embody the stoic ideal of living a life that is not only kind but also profoundly connected and [Music] fulfilling 10 the illusion of control you believe your kindness can solve everyone’s problems but some situations are beyond your control stoicism teaches acceptance of what we can’t change Focus your kindness where it can make a difference and accept that some things are out of your hands this acceptance will bring you peace and a more effective use of your compassionate efforts in the stoic philosophy kindness must be balanced with wisdom self-respect and self-awareness it’s about finding the middle path where kindness is a strength not a vulnerability remember it’s not about diminishing kindness but about practicing it with discernment and balance if you like 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  1. number 1. respect is key in every relationship. swithout ewpect it is diffivult yto move on .

    self drespect is also key wit hout self respect you do not habe a foubdation to build respect
    ..

    without self respect you become a wabderer .

    respect is a foundation bfor nutual respect and a relationship for friendship. if the friendship is strong enough it might fofrm a relationship that escalates into love and marriage.

    in my life i hace 3 key stoic relations that leadded growards marrariage 2 one did not happen and gthe second had a marriage proposal but lack of respect for me broke it off.
    tnhr 3rd was a friendsbhip that vlossomed in to respect a.nd eventually marriage. it had a rovky start rhe bride was a half hour late for a wedding at her life long chur ch wihth her family pastor and he grew to be a mutal friend.

    i have zero respect for my brides syounger sister. she lnew rhzat the bride would be late. i call her only sister as a martron of dishonor.. a maid or matron of honor is supposed to see rhe vride is ready ro join hands and life together. thce maid of honor is focussed on rhe bride and the merriage ceremony. she failed her job and was focused on being mother to her flower girls.
    my bride got to church on her own time. she was rhas the last person in at a 10:00 shurch service and so
    me say she was thde last church member to arive. others used igt to set their clocks . my jane was usually a half hour late.

    i take pride on being on time yet after her bpassing in 2019 i use the exvuse that i am a half hour late for a 10:00 service at church. i am doi ng a late arrival o

    sorrz cataract vision issues. .