⚠️ How High Value Men Talk to Women (Women Will Love You) ⚠️


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[Music] stay with me and pay attention to what I have to say because what I’m going to teach you in this video will benefit you for the rest of your dating and relationship life forget boring dating advice this is a GameChanger we’re going to use real examples and proven studies to show you how to talk to women in a way that gets Real Results get ready to completely transform your dating life we’re diving into the secrets of high value communication and you’ll never approach dating the same way again let’s reshape your dating Journey like never before before we begin I would appreciate it if you like the video you can help me continue spreading the stoic philosophy if you are not subscribed I recommend you subscribe and activate the Bell to avoid missing any videos if you like the topic of this video please comment with a number one if you don’t please comment with a number two to let me know so I can make better videos in the future number one asking meaningful questions high value men understand the value of curiosity and actively seek to learn more about the women they interact with asking meaningful questions is more than just a conversational tactic it is an honest attempt to understand the person on a deeper level this approach goes beyond small talk delving into issues that reveal values interests and goals social psychology research suggests that people who ask more questions are perceived to be more likable high value men take advantage of this Insight by asking thoughtful and relevant question questions during their conversations these questions not only demonstrate a genuine interest in the woman but they also Foster an environment in which she feels valued and appreciated instead of relying on generic queries high value men tailor their questions to the specific context and individual showing that they’ve invested time and thought into understanding the person this approach not only facilitates meaningful conversations but also contributes to the building of a connection based on shared interests and authentic engagement by asking questions that go beyond the surface high value Men set the stage for more profound and enriching interactions number two don’t try too hard high value men understand the importance of genuine confidence when interacting with women it’s not about putting on a show or using flashy tactics to impress it’s about being comfortable in your own skin this authenticity allows them to stand out they don’t resort to cheesy pickup lines or over-the-top gesture to catch a woman’s attention instead they approach conversations with Simplicity and sincerity confidence not arrogance is the key these men recognize that trying too hard to please everyone is feudal and can come off as insincere research has consistently shown that women are attracted to men who exude confidence and self- assuredness this isn’t about being boastful but about being secure in one’s identity learning from high value man involves embracing your true self understanding your strengths and allowing that authenticity to shine through in your interactions applying these principles means letting go of the pressure to conform to societal expectations or resort to artificial methods of Attraction instead high value men focus on being genuine understanding that sincerity is a magnetic quality that draws people in especially women by adopting this mindset you not only enhance your dating life but also cultivate a deeper connection based on authenticity and mutual respect number three listening more than they speak a distinct trait of high value men is their ability to listen actively during conversations placing a premium on understanding the perspectives and thoughts of the women they engage with instead of dominating discussions they create a space where women feel heard and appreciated this practice goes beyond avoiding awkward silences it’s a deliberate choice to prioritize the thoughts and feelings of the person they’re conversing with contrary to the misconception that filling every moment with words is necessary high value men recognize the power of silence and thoughtful listening they understand that allowing a woman to express herself without interruptions Fosters a deeper connection research in social psychology consistently emphasizes the significance of active listening and building Rapport and strengthening Relationships by focusing on what the woman is saying rather than waiting for an opportunity to speak high value men demonstrate empathy and genuine interest this approach allows them to offer meaningful responses contributing to more meaningful and fulfilling interactions the ability to listen attentively isn’t just a skill it’s a key component of building emotional intelligence and establishing connections built on understanding and respect number four making eye contact when high value men engage in conversations with women making eye contact is a Cornerstone of their approach it goes beyond merely looking at someone it’s about conveying genuine interest and establishing a connection on a personal level eye contact communicates that you’re not just hearing the words you’re actively listening and acknowledging the person’s presence in the realm of Attraction eye contact signals confidence a quality universally appealing to women it signifies that you are present in the moment and genuinely interested in the person you are conversing with high value men recognize the power of eye contact and building Rapport and creating a foundation for Meaningful connections avoiding distractions such as checking your phone or scanning the surroundings during a conversation is crucial by maintaining consistent eye contact you send a message of undivided attention and respect Studies have confirmed that individuals who engage in prolonged eye contact are perceived as more trustworthy and genuine therefore making eye contact isn’t just a non-verbal cue it’s a powerful tool that high value men use to Foster connection and convey their authenticity in every interaction number five strong body language high value men recognize that effective communication extends beyond words it encompasses Body Language they understand the impact of non-verbal cues in conveying confidence and assertiveness from standing up straight to making consistent eye contact these men use their body language as a powerful tool to express their self- Assurance confident body language is a universal language that women find attractive high value men consciously maintain a posture that exudes confidence and openness this includes avoiding slouching using purposeful gestures and employing facial expressions that reflect positivity studies in social psychology consistently affirm the importance of strong body language in making positive Impressions and forming connections while verbal communication is crucial the way you carry yourself can speak volumes about your personality high value men leverage this understanding to create a visual representation of their self assurance by aligning their verbal and non-verbal communication they establish a holistic and consistent message of confidence contributing to an overall positive perception number six they’re not afraid to flirt flirting is an essential component of Attraction and high value men view it as a natural and enjoyable part of their interactions they recognize that a playful and Charming demeanor can foster a light-hearted connection with women according to evolutionary psychology research flirting is a useful tool in the dating world because it allows you to gauge the interest of potential Partners contrary to popular belief flirting does not have to be overly complex or intimidating high value men flirt with a light-hearted and respectful demeanor their approach consists of genuine compliments playful banter and expressing interest without crossing boundaries this creates an environment in which both parties can enjoy their interactions andage mutual interest understanding the art of flirting allows high value men to add an element of fun in excitement to their conversations it’s not about manipulation but rather about creating a positive and enjoyable atmosphere that enhances the overall interaction by incorporating flirting into their communication style these men establish a dynamic and engaging rapport with women contributing to the natural progression of their connections number seven they don’t try too hard one distinguishing trait of high value men is their understanding that genuine confidence doesn’t require excessive effort or flashy displays instead of attempting to impress women with over-the-top gestures or rehearsed lines they Embrace a more relaxed and authentic approach high value men are comfortable in their own skin exuding confidence that stems from self assurance rather than arrogance trying too hard often leads to inauthenticity and high value men recognize that authenticity is a key element in attracting quality women they understand that a simple introduction or a genuine conversation starter can be more impactful than elaborate attempts to impress research has consistently shown that women are attracted to men who are secure in themselves and high value men embody this quality effortlessly this doesn’t mean high value men lack effort rather their effort is directed towards being the best version of themselves not towards conforming to societal Expectations by embracing their true selves and avoiding the pressure to please everyone they create an environment where women can appreciate them for who they genuinely are this approach not only leads to more successful interactions but also lays the foundation for Meaningful connections built on authenticity and self-confidence these seven tips will help you chat with women in a better way it’s not just what you say but how you say it be yourself and let your confidence shine through listen carefully to what she has to say Don’t just wait for your turn to talk act confident even if you’re nervous want more advice like this check out our videos we have lots of tips to help you be a better man and have great relationships with women subscribe for more content and thanks for watching the more you Reveal Your Pain the more people may want to hurt you although it does not always occur it is common for some people to take pleasure in your suffering or even contribute to it occurring or worsening unfortunately sadism and envy are common behaviors that can stifle personal growth in a variety of settings including work a circle of friends and even family as a result learning not to show your weak point can become your strong point consider yourself a tree in the middle of a storm the leaves May flutter and the branches May sway but the trunk remains firm and firmly planted in the ground this is the image of Silent resilience that we will teach here we will discuss how you can become even stronger by demonstrating that you are not easily influenced by external internal issues and how each challenge teaches you to be like the tree you are not denying the storm by acting as if nothing bothers you rather you’re choosing not to let the rain soak you and the wind knock you down you will learn to be the master of your own fate firm strong and calm in the midst of Chaos in this video we’ll go over 17 stoic rules from epicus a great and well-known philosopher you’ve probably heard of furthermore I invite you to self- knowledge where strength comes from the Silence of the light that illuminates the path rather than the noise of Thunder as a result in the coming minutes concentrate on the content rather than on daily distractions the first rule is be prepared to fail because it is the only way to progress we do the impossible to avoid being labeled as idiots epicus on the other hand hand has a different point of view according to his philosophy being considered such is one of the best things that can happen to you because it allows you to grow professionally and personally the stoic philosopher reminds us that overcoming is the result of a long path of trial and error rather than a spontaneous reaction for it is only through trial and error that we can refine what separates us from Excellence the second rule is always remember that death is waiting at the end of the road this is not advice that calls us to pessimism but to be aware that death is the final destination of all our actions and especially our efforts once we have this in mind perhaps we will start to evaluate to what extent it is worth spending 20 years of our limited life saving to pay for a house that as much as it weighs on us we will not be able to take with us wherever we go once death visits us just as we carry in our bag those objects that we consider indispensable for our daily life such as the phone credit cards and our toothbrush it would greatly benefit us to carry a small notebook with these stoic principles because thanks to them we will no longer see setbacks as misfortunes nor life as internal time we have at our disposal but we will acquire a more realistic view of our existence and certainly make better use of our time of life the third rule is listen twice as much as you speak have you ever considered why nature provided us with two ears but only one mouth there is no error or coincidence in this according to epicus but rather a clear purpose behind this reality we are not called to fall in love with our own voice but rather with the voices of others we advance in life by learning from others not by repeating our own speech over and over so starting today start paying more attention to what people around you say and less attention to what you’ve been upholding up to this point the fourth rule is always prepare for the worst believing that unfavorable circumstances await us in the future is one of the leading causes of anxiety and its devastating consequences we are afraid that our children will drop out of school that we will be fired that our spouse will conf confess to us that they have been having an affair with someone else and will ask for a divorce or that something else bad will happen to us such as going bankrupt the problem is that we fear one of these issues one day and another the next and so on life’s path in addition to reserving good and happy parts for us also reserves a handful of unavoidable problems therefore we live in permanent stress caused by different stimulation each day and this is where epicus comes into the picture since his proposal is as drastic as it is effective he says think that all these things you fear so much have already happened so what could be worse in this way your spirit will develop coping strategies to move forward with your head held high the fifth rule is be aware of the threats of Fortune This wealth that we seek carries a stigma from which few people can escape and it’s not just about the people who will appear out of nowhere to take advantage of our Good Fortune such as by pretending to have feelings for us money has the power to change people and not always for the better once we have this highly sought-after resource we have something we did not know we had and it is from that point that our spirit May begin to poison itself in the face of the loss of moral values the sixth rule is guilt is synonymous with plague narrow-minded people blame others Ordinary People people blame themselves but the wise see all guilt as foolishness thanks to this phrase from epicus therapists nowadays have begun to approach guilt as a feeling to be eradicated from our lives the only way to win the competition against guilt is to refuse to play with it the problem is that it results in an easy path since by blaming others or ourselves we completely absolve ourselves of the responsibility to correct the mistake therefore resorting to it is a Temptation that is hard to escape only those people driven by a firm determination to overcome are capable of avoiding guilt and still manage to take responsibility for their actions the seventh rule is true wealth is found in a contented Spirit Epictetus had his own definition of happiness because of stoicism and we can see it in one of his famous quotes a wise man is one who does not fret over what he lacks but rejoices in what he has this reflection is more than a thought it is advice to learn to stop feeling afflicted by those riches that are not yet a part of our Lives because when we allow ourselves to complain and mourn for what we lack we lose valuable minutes of happiness in which we could be thankful for everything we have accomplished thus far Which is far more than our eyes are trained to appreciate the eighth rule is incorporate humility into your life if you really want to learn something it is essential that a person learns what they believe they already know through this phrase epicus calls us to make use of our humility especially in the realm of learning going through life boasting of the pride of knowledge distances us more and more from the authentic knowledge that arises from the conviction that we are completely ignorant about what we intend to learn in this way we will look at everything Through The Eyes of a child which harbor as much capacity for Wonder as they do a desire to learn rule number nine is never forget that your reactions shape your destiny we should not take our reactions lightly as they will undoubtedly determine our success or failure and epicus was unequivocal about it he taught us that we cannot control what happens to us but we can control how we respond to it Misfortune can strike any of us but it is what we do when it does that will determine Our Fate from that point forward divorce can mean entering a world of depression and victimization for some people epicus on the other hand sees it as a golden opportunity to begin the path of self-led remember that what happens to you is not as important as what you do with it rule number 10 is make alliances with winning people it’s curious how when someone sneezes next to us we immediately move away invaded by the fear that they will infect us however we are not so cautious to avoid one of the most lethal contagion we are exposed to daily epicus left us a wise piece of advice about this surround ourselves with people who make us want to give our best because people’s behavior greatly influences our state of mind there are people who drain our energy and ruin in our day While others leave us full of joy and vigor therefore one of the smartest decisions we can make is to Ally ourselves with those who bring Good Vibes into our lives while we say goodbye to those who have the ability to make us regret being born rule number 11 is invest in Simplicity why live frugally when we can surround ourselves with all manner of luxuries nowadays the answer is much simpler and more logical than you think wealth does not sustain itself it requires commitment and a great deal of daily energy to sustain this system of luxuries and wealth in contrast when we choose a simple lifestyle we remove the stress of having to meet the due dates of bills loans and credit cards rule number 12 is always do your duty each of us plays an important role in society and the world and the sun does not require praise or enchantments to rise each morning but it happens every day and that’s the end of it as a result just as every part of nature does its job we must fulfill our responsibilities we fail both the environment to which we belong and ourselves if we wait for praise or praise to do our work if we know what our task is and are aware that others rely on it it is our moral obligation to complete it without waiting for someone to remind us rule number 13 is stop worrying about things over which you have no control your opinion is yours but not your reputation you have the desire and Zeal for the hunt but you have no control over the amount of goods you have or your success worrying and becoming irritated about things we cannot control is simply a decision to waste time according to epicus we are called to cultivate those values over which we have control but it is also our responsibility to let go of what is beyond our control and allow fate to take care of it rule number 14 is do not hate those who hate you instead ignore them you are much bigger and far more powerful than the person who criticizes despises and discriminates against you so don’t waste your time hating that person because they don’t even deserve to be in your thoughts we are encouraged not to be afraid of people people who would harm us because the noise represents a regrettable attempt to harm us so ignore it and develop immunity to it rule number 15 is always extract the benefit from things whatever happens it is up to you to take advantage of it or not these were the words of epicus as you can see it is not about having the option to take the good out of adversity but that doing so is our duty as long as long as there is intelligence in you there will be the ability to realize the advantages you can take from the situation that has struck you imagine that one day you arrive at work to find out you will be fired instead of despairing and accusing the universe of being against you you have the option of venturing into that Enterprise you dreamt of while fulfilling your work schedule alongside people you disliked therefore always try to look for the positive in a situation as this movement added up throughout your life will certainly take you further than just lamenting rule number 16 is when you allow the comments and attitudes of others to bother you you are handing over control of your life any person capable of making you angry becomes your master however that person can only make you angry when you allow yourself to be disturbed by them epic tetus makes us understand that there are many keys within us and some lead us to happiness While others lead us directly to emotional ruin and it is precisely this last key that we hand over to those who make us angry the solution to this problem is to put up a barrier that prevents us from being affected by the attitudes of others because definitely each one is the owner of what they say and also of what they decide to listen to rule number 17 is friendship is more important than wealth genuine friends are true wealth because they will be there to support us if our material Fortune Fades as a result if you devote yourself to cultivating genuine friendships you will be making a very profitable long-term investment in addition to being incredibly useful for everyday life stoic principles are teachings that can help us navigate bad times with interest and resilience as there is no place in their Philosophy for fantasizing but only for applying what is learned and moving forward I hope you like the video and since you’ve made it to the end leave a like and a comment if you’re new to the Channel Please Subscribe see you soon imagine stepping into a world where your kindness is seen not as a virtue but a weakness where your generosity is exploited and your compassion becomes a tool in the hands of others to manipulate and control you this isn’t a dystopian fiction it’s a dark reality for many who practice unguarded kindness today we’re delving into the stoic perspective on kindness and exploring the 10 ways how excessive kindness can actually ruin your life one the loss of respect consider this simple example to illustrate the loss of respect from excessive kindness imagine always lending money to friends without asking when they’ll return it initially they might appreciate your generosity but over time they begin to expect it your kindness has inadvertently taught them that your resources are always available leading to a lack of appreciation and respect for your financial boundaries the solution lies in setting clear boundaries next time a friend asks for a loan gently remind them of your policy for repayment or offer Alternatives like helping them budget this approach respects both your resources and maintains the Integrity of your relationships stoicism teaches us the importance of self-respect in the value of boundaries by setting these limits we ensure our kindness is appreciated and respected not taken for granted two being overburdened visualize yourself as the always available volunteer at your child’s School your name echoes in every Corridor synonymous with tireless help at bake sales plays and field trips initially this involvement brings a sense of accomplishment but soon the toll becomes evident your personal time shrinks your energy wains and your hobbies once a source of Joy now sit in neglect this is the classic trap of overextending oneself in the spirit of kindness stoicism with its emphasis on balance and inner Tranquility teaches us to avoid such extremes it’s essential to strike a harmonious balance between assisting others and nurturing our own needs reflect on the activities that align with your passions and bring genuine fulfillment prioritize these and allow yourself to step back from the rest embracing the stoic principle of moderation begin to practice saying no with Grace and conviction this is not about withdrawing your support but about redistributing your energy more wisely by selectively engaging in activities that resonate with you your contributions become more impactful and your personal well-being remains intact this balanced approach ensures that your kindness is a sustainable gift to your community and to yourself three exploitation by others consider the friend who always calls you for favors never for a casual chat you help but it feels one-sided stoicism reminds us to be Discerning it’s time to have an honest conversation with your friend set clear expectations about your willingness to help and observe if the relationship balances or remains lopsided this approach will help you invest your kindness where it’s valued and not exploited four loss of personal goals and Ambitions imagine having dreams like mastering a new language or starting a business these goals are part of who you are yet they’re sidelined by your constant help to others your time is spent on Friends needs and family requests leaving little for your Ambitions here’s where stoicism’s emphasis on personal growth becomes vital it teaches us to value our development as much as we value helping others it’s time to recalibrate your priorities start by by scheduling specific time for your goals treating them with the same seriousness as your commitments to others this isn’t selfishness it’s essential for your growth by allotting dedicated time for your Ambitions you honor your aspirations while maintaining your supportive role this balanced approach ensures you nurture your dreams without neglecting others leading to a more fulfilling life if you made it this far feel free to like And subscribe so you won’t miss any videos in the future five emotional exhaustion imagine always being the shoulder to cry on the problem solver while you’re there for everyone who’s there for you you feel emotionally drained stoicism teaches the importance of emotional resilience start setting emotional boundaries it’s okay to offer support but not at the cost of your emotional health practice self-care routines to recharge your emotional batteries six being perceived as inauthentic when you constantly say yes when you want to say no it can lead others to question your sincerity this habit of being overly accommodating while often well-intentioned may result in a perception of inauthenticity stoicism an ancient philosophy valuing wisdom and self-control encourages authenticity it suggests that being true to your feelings and openly expressing your genuine thoughts and opinions is not just about self-honesty but also about cultivating respect and Trust from others authenticity according to stoicism aligns your actions with your inner values leading to a more fulfilling life this approach is not only liberating but also build stronger more honest relationships while it might be challenging initially to express your true feelings especially when they go against the grain this honesty can bring a sense of peace and Clarity it removes pretense allowing for deeper connections ultimately embracing authenticity brings both person peace and enhances your relationships it shows strength of character and earns respect from those around you in a world where sincerity is rare choosing to be genuine is both revolutionary and deeply rewarding seven the development of resentment when you’re consistently compromising your preferences to accommodate others it can lead to a buildup of resentment continually setting aside your desires or choices for the sake of others might seem selfless but it often comes at the cost of your own well-being stoicism a philosophy grounded in mastering control over one’s emotions cautions against harboring such negative feelings it emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and addressing them before they escalate the stoic approach encourages you to start voicing your preferences and assertively stand your ground in decision-making processes this doesn’t mean becoming inflexible or uncooperative but rather finding a fair balance between your needs and those of others it’s about establishing boundaries that allow you to maintain your integrity and self-respect while still being considerate of others needs initiating this change might be challenging especially if you’re used to always yielding however it’s essential for your emotional health and personal growth by expressing your true preferences and participating actively in decision-making you not only alleviate feelings of resentment but also Foster healthier more balanced relationships remember finding Harmony between your needs and the needs of others is key to personal contentment and emotional well-being eight Financial strain imagine being the person everyone turns to for financial help whether it’s a friend short on rent or a relative facing unexpected bills you’re always ready to assist it feels good to be so generous to be the one who can always be counted on however over time this generosity starts to impact your own finances your savings are not growing they might even be shrinking you find yourself hesitating before checking your bank balance a clear sign that your financial health is suffering due to your constant generosity this is where the wisdom of stoicism can guide you stoics believed in living a life of moderation including how we handle our finances they taught that helping others is Noble but not at the cost of our own stability it’s time to apply this wisdom to your life start by assessing your financial situation and setting a budget for charitable giving and personal loans this isn’t about stopping your generosity but about managing it wisely when friends or family ask for financial aid consider offering support in non-monetary ways like giving advice or helping them to budget if you do lend money make it clear it’s within your means and set terms for repayment by practicing this stoic principle of moderation you can maintain your generous Spirit without putting your financial future at risk this balanced approach ensures that your kindness is a sustainable part of your life not a source of personal strain nine neglecting close relationships in the pursuit of kindness and benevolence towards everyone there is a risk of inadvertently neglecting the very relationships that form the Cornerstone of Our Lives stoicism a philosophy rooted in practical wisdom emphasizes the significance of nurturing deep and meaningful connections with those closest to us it is vital to remember that while extending kindness to all is commendable our closest relationships those with family and dear friends deserve our utmost attention and Care often in the hustle of daily life and the noble Endeavor to be universally kind we may Overlook the needs and importance of those who are consistently present in our lives these are the individuals who offer unwavering support understand our deepest fears and joys and contribute significantly to our personal growth and well-being therefore it is essential to periodically re-evaluate our commitments and priorities making time for family and close friends is not just a duty but a nurturing of the bonds that sustain us emotionally and psychologically this doesn’t mean diminishing the kindness we offer to others rather it’s about striking a delicate balance by consciously allocating time and energy to our personal relationships we enrich our lives and deepen the connections that truly matter in doing so we embody the stoic ideal of living a life that is not only kind but also profoundly connected and fulfilling 10 the illusion of control you believe your kindness can solve everyone’s problems but some situations are beyond your control stoicism teaches acceptance of what we can’t change Focus your kindness where it can make a difference and accept that some things are out of your hands this acceptance will bring you peace and a more effective use of your compassionate efforts in the stoic philosophy kindness must be balanced with wisdom self-respect and self-awareness it’s about finding the middle path where kindness is a strength not a vulnerability remember it’s not about diminishing kindness but about practicing it with discernment and balance if you like the video I would appreciate a like and a comment if you are new to the channel feel free to subscribe to my channel see you next time time

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