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[Music] are you tired of feeling disrespected by the women in your life do you want to know why your woman does not respect you and how to fix it well you’ve come to the right place because in this video we’ll discuss why respect is so important in relationships and how to earn it before we begin I would appreciate it if you like the video you can help me continue spreading the stoic philosophy if you are not subscribed I recommend you subscribe and activate the Bell to avoid missing any videos if you like the topic of this video please comment with a number one if you don’t please comment with a number two to let me know so I can make better videos in the future to be clear we are not discussing being toxic or abusive to women that is never acceptable since respect and attraction go hand inand we’re going to talk about how to earn a woman’s respect in a constructive and healthy way one is not possible without the other therefore you have to gain women’s respect before you can be considered attractive and if this video we’ll talk about that so sit tight take some notes and get ready to learn the seven things you can do to instantly gain a woman’s respect are you ready let’s get started one respect yourself and she will respect you if you want to be respected by others you must first respect yourself however most men don’t understand what it is and end up draining it from their personalities this reduces their presence making it difficult for women to notice them you become a man when you respect yourself which includes being honest with yourself and others accepting responsibility planning for your future and doing something meaningful with your life when you’re satisfied with yourself you feel proud and respected and this positive energy follows you like a powerful force women will sense your strength and respect you if you carry yourself with dignity however if you spend your entire life pretending you exist no one will respect you make an impact in everything you do and you will earn respect that lasts remember respect yourself first and others will follow suit two learn how to say no if a woman perceives that you lack self-esteem she may take advantage of you and lose respect for you you need to learn to say no and set boundaries while remaining respectful it is critical to understand who you are as a person and what your values are so that you can recognize when your partner is going against them relationships require sacrifices and adjustments but you should never lose yourself in the process if you don’t respect yourself neither will your partner a lack of self-esteem is unattractive and can lead to cheating so it’s critical to keep your masculine energy in a relationship if you compromise your values too much you will lose yourself and your partner will lose respect for you so it’s essential to respect yourself if you want your partner to respect you three be real about your words and actions many men act pretentious in pursuit of the affections of the women they fancy doing things they don’t enjoy and lavishing the woman with compliments as if she were a goddess however you should be aware that acting like a s will never earn you a woman’s respect because she will recognize your true intentions whether platonic or sexual if you want her to respect you you must be honest with her at all times if you promise to pick her up from work don’t leave with lame excuses if you don’t like certain foods tell her if you like her off offer genuine compliments if you don’t agree with everything she says express your opinion four increase your value you can increase your value in a variety of ways but if you want women to admire and respect you you must first understand what women want how they think and what attracts and repels them women are drawn to and admire men who can lead be a leader and take command of the events unfolding around them as well as men who understand how to control their lives and make things happen this will bring you a lot of female admiration women prefer confident men which increases your worth know that you are powerful enough to defend her from any harm and she will cling to you like a lovesick puppy and never leave your side until the end your passion for chasing purpose your gentle and calm behavior and your mysterious personality are all factors that can increase your value five stand up for yourself many men have low self-esteem because they are overly polite to others others they do not defend their beliefs or actions when confronted by others however being able to advocate for yourself not only increases your Independence but also adds charm to your personality when you learn self-defense you not only gain confidence in the respect of those around you but you also begin to see yourself and function at a higher level which increases your sense of worth and attracts women who want to be with you in that capacity six avoid being needy you can’t be needy if you want women to think highly of you she will recognize neediness in you and turn away not only do women seek love to satiate their sexual needs but they also want to be loved you also don’t want to come across as scared of losing her because that will put her in control and you will become disrespected you have to set some boundaries for yourself if you want women to respect you she won’t perceive your lack of strength when you act cool and collected rather she will believe that you are with her because you genuinely care about her when she sees you as a man who can live on his own she’ll be attracted to you even before she knows you seven Chase your purpose men without goals are useless though they appreciate them even more when they have a life purpose women are drawn to men who are self- assured protective compassionate and sincere women find it impossible to resist the increased magnetism that comes from pursuing a purpose in life men with a purpose need only pursue their goals rather than women women will pursue you if you concentrate on your purpose instead of wasting time on pointless activities identify your purpose and strive toward it recall that women look for men with authority and that you can become one by pursuing your goals you can become the kind of man that women genuinely admire by affirming your worth establishing boundaries being sincere in both your words and deeds boosting your self-esteem and refraining from being needy put these suggestions into action now and you’ll see your relationships change right before your eyes remember to subscribe to our channel for more insightful videos like this one we appreciate your time and we’ll see you in the next one disrespect is a typical problem that we all experience in our lives and it can be quite distressing and irritating but what if we could learn from stoicism an ancient philosophy that teaches us how to face tough situations with wisdom and Grace in this video we will look at 10 practical stoic Concepts that might help us deal with disrespect more effectively as is customary I dare you to be brave and stick with me to the finish of the film let’s get started number one reflect on yourself an important aspect of stoicism is the practice of self-reflection and self-examination the stoics believed that the quality of our thoughts determines the quality of our lives and that we should always strive to improve ourselves in our actions as Marcus Aurelius said the happiness of your life depends depends upon the quality of your thoughts when You Face disrespect it is essential to reflect on yourself and ask questions like is there any truth in what the person said or did did I do or say anything that provoked this situation how can I respond in a way that is consistent with my values and virtues by reflecting on yourself in the situation objectively you can gain a better understanding of the event and your own role in it self-reflection is a stoic way of ensuring that responses are based on rational judgment rather than impulsive reactions it helps you learn from the situation and promotes personal growth in wisdom number two have empathy epicus and other influential stoic philosophers say Seek not the good in external things seek it in yourselves stoics believe in the interconnectedness of humanity and that understanding the motivations and emotions of others can lead to better interactions and personal growth when someone shows disrespect stoicism suggests practicing empathy try to put yourself in the other person’s shoes and understand their perspective empathy can help you see the situation from a different angle and realize that the person’s disrespect may not be personal or intentional it may be caused by their own insecurities fears or ignorance empathy can also help you feel compassion for the person and reduce your negative feelings towards them by empathizing with the person who disrespected you you can avoid taking their words or actions personally and respond in a more respectful and dignified manner empathy helps you understand the person’s perspective feelings and motivations instead of getting angry or defensive you can respond with kindness and respect this way you can avoid escalating the conflict and maintain your dignity empathy also reflects the stoic principles of wisdom compassion and self-improvement it enables you to learn from challenging situations and grow as a person by practicing empathy you can cope with disrespect in a more positive and constructive way number three learn to pause senica once said whenever you are angry be assured that it is not only a present evil but that you have increased a habit stoics believe in the importance of self-control and rationality they argue that impulsive reactions driven by intense emotions like anger or frustration often lead to poor decisions and unnecessary suffering when faced with disrespect the stoic approach encourages you to avoid reacting impulsively instead take a moment to pause and collect your thoughts this pause allows you to regain control over your emotions and gives you the opportunity to respond in a more measured and thoughtful manner by resisting the impulse to react immediately you can better align your response with stoic principles of wisdom and self-control this approach often leads to more constructive and less emotionally charged interactions when faced with disrespect pausing is a key stoic strategy to maintain composure and make rational decisions when confronted with disrespect ultimately leading to more positive outcomes and personal growth number four use humor sometimes a little laughter goes a long way as the ancient philosopher senica said you have mastered yourself when you know how to deal with what you should not take seriously stoicism teaches us to control our emotions and act rationally but it also recognizes the value of humor in coping with challenging situations humor can help us keep our emotional balance and avoid getting too angry or annoyed when someone disrespects us instead of letting our emotions get the best of us we can choose to respond with a witty remark or a playful joke of course humor should not be used inappropriately or excessively but it can be a useful stoic technique to handle disrespect in a way that creates a more positive and peaceful outcome number five keep your calm one of the core teachings of stoicism is that we are not disturbed by what happens to us but by how we think about what happens to us as epicus said people are Disturbed not by things but by the view they take of them this means that disrespect is not inherently harmful or offensive it is our interpretation and Judgment of it that make us feel hurt or angry free yourself when someone disrespects you remember that their behavior is is a result of their own thoughts feelings and opinions not a reflection of your true value or worth this can help you keep your calm and not let their disrespect affect your emotional state number six choose forgiveness imagine someone disrespects you how do you react do you lash out in anger or do you let it go the ancient philosophy of stoicism has some wisdom to offer stoics believe that forgiveness is not a favor to the other person but a gift to yourself forgiveness is the key to inner peace and happiness but forgiveness is not easy it does not mean forgetting or approving what happened it means choosing to release the negative emotions that are hurting you more than anyone else stoics say that we should forgive all but not indiscriminately we should forgive wisely with compassion and Justice stoicism teaches us to focus on what we can control and let go of what we can’t we can’t control how others behave but we can control how we respond we can choose to forgive and free ourselves from the burden of anger and resentment we can choose to move on with a sense of inner peace and Tranquility that’s what stoicism means by forgiveness it’s not a weakness but a strength it’s not a surrender but a victory it’s not a sacrifice but a reward forgiveness is the ultimate Act of self-care and personal growth number seven concentrate on virtue one of the main ideas of stoicism is to develop virtues such as wisdom and courage these are the qualities that help us live well and act rightly senica a famous stoic philosopher wrote that virtue is nothing else than right reason this means that being virtuous is the same as being rational and consistent with the natural Order of Things stoics believe that virtue is the highest good in life and that everything else is indifferent when we Face disrespect from others stoicism teaches us to focus on virtue in our response this does not mean that we should ignore or tolerate the disrespect but rather that we should respond in a way that reflects our stoic values and principles by focusing on virtue we can avoid being influenced by our emotions maintain our dignity and integrity and grow as a person stoicism challenges us to be the best version of ourselves even in difficult situations number eight Embrace acceptance one of the key lessons of stoicism is to accept the things that are not in our control such as the disrespect of others epicus said he is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not but rejoices for those which he has this means that we should be grateful for what we have and not worry about what we lack stoicism also teaches us to distinguish between what is in our control and what is not which is known as the stoic dichotomy of control we can only control our own thoughts feelings and actions but not the external events or the behavior of others therefore when we Face disrespect we should not let it affect our inner peace instead we should accept it as a part of life and focus on what we can do to improve ourselves in our situation by accepting disrespect with stoicism we can avoid unnecessary anger frustration and resentment we can also learn from the experience and grow as a person this helps us to deal with disrespect in a rational and calm way number nine set clear your boundaries stoicism is not about being a doormat it’s about being a rock a rock that stands firm in the face of disrespect and Injustice a rock that knows its worth and demands respect from others a rock that controls what it can and lets go of what it can’t when someone disrespects you you don’t have to take it lying down you don’t have to lash out in anger either you can be calm and assertive you can tell them what they did wrong and how you expect them to treat you you can set clear and reasonable boundaries that protect your dignity and self-respect this is what stoicism teaches us it teaches us to be strong just and courageous it teaches us to respect ourselves and others it teaches us to maintain our inner control and our outer dignity in any situation number 10 change your perspective perspective is the ability to see things from a broader and more objective point of view it helps you to avoid overreacting or taking things things personally when someone disrespects you instead it helps you to realize that disrespect is not a big deal in the grand scheme of things as the stoic Emperor Marcus Aurelius said our life is what our thoughts make it when you use perspective you can see that most cases of disrespect are minor and temporary they do not affect your true Worth or happiness you can also see that disrespect is often a reflection of the other person’s ignorance insecurity or weakness not yours you can choose to ignore it forgive it or learn from it rather than letting it bother you perspective also helps you to focus on what really matters in life your goals values and virtues you can use your energy and time to pursue what is good and meaningful for you rather than wasting them on resentment or Revenge by doing so you can live a more fulfilling and peaceful life so the next time you encounter disrespect keep perspective in mind it will assist you in remaining calm and acting properly always remember that stoicism is about controlling your emotions rather than suppressing them when confronted with rudess and unpleasant conduct you may remain cool and Powerful by using these 10 principles please give us a thumbs up to help us reach more individuals looking for old knowledge thank you for viewing Marcus Aurelius a master of stoic thought once declared you have power over your mind not outside events realize this and you will find strength today we embark on a quest to unlock this strength within you are you prepared to defy the odds and master your own mind in this journey we dive deep into the heart of stoic wisdom uncovering ancient secrets for modern resilience transform your mindset conquer manipulation and claim your inner power don’t forget to subscribe for this transformative Adventure lesson one understand what’s in your control the foundation of stoic philosophy lies in Discerning between what is within our control and what lies Beyond it the stoics emphasized a powerful concept Focus your energy solely on things you can control namely your actions your thoughts and your responses this principle is the key to unlocking immense personal strength and resilience Begin by asking yourself a critical question are you inadvertently giving away your power by worrying about things outside your control worry and stress often stem from a preoccupation with external circumstances or the actions of others elements that no matter how much we may wish otherwise we cannot control now visualize a scenario where you’re completely immune to office politics social drama or any external chaos this is the epitome of stoic strength achieving this begins with dissecting each situation you encounter analyze and separate the elements what aspects are under my control what aspects are not this process of clarity acts as a powerful Shield against manipulation and undue stress for instance in a workplace Place conflict you can control your response your attitude and your actions but you cannot control the opinions or actions of your colleagues in personal relationships you can control how openly and honestly you communicate but not how the other person chooses to react this understanding should not lead to passivity but rather to empowered action where it counts when you focus your energy on what you can change your behavior your responses your mindset you gain a sense of agency and peace you stop being a passive recipient of life’s events and become an active empowered participant moreover this stoic lesson teaches us to let go gracefully of what we can’t control this isn’t resignation but rather a wise acknowledgement of the limits of our influence by doing so we free ourselves from unnecessary burdens and focus our energies more productively remember every time you find yourself getting pulled into situations or dramas that are beyond your control take a step back remind yourself of this stoic wisdom focus on what you can control and let go of what you cannot this mindset is not only liberating but also profoundly empowering it’s the foundation for a life of less stress less manipulation and more peace lesson two build your inner Fortress in this essential lesson we explore a core stoic principle fortifying our minds stoicism isn’t just about enduring adversity it’s about preparing for it by building a a mental stronghold imagine your mind as a fortress not just any Fortress but one that is impregnable and remains tranquil in the face of chaos how do you construct such a fortress the answer lies in cultivating two key qualities self-awareness and emotional intelligence self-awareness is the Cornerstone of your mental Fortress it’s about knowing who you are understanding your strengths and weaknesses and recognizing your habitual reactions to external events this deep understanding of your inner workings acts as a foundation making you less prone to being swayed by outside influences emotional intelligence is the next layer of Defense it involves recognizing and managing your emotions as well as empathizing with others when you’re emotionally intelligent you’re not just aware of your feelings you also understand how to handle them this skill is crucial in preventing others from manipulating your emotions as you develop these qualities you’ll find that you become more grounded and centered when facing challenging situations or dealing with manipulative individuals remind yourself that you are the commander of your mental Fortress you have the power to control how you respond to external forces it’s important to regularly reinforce the walls of your Fortress this means practicing mindfulness engaging in introspection and continually seeking personal growth every challenge you face is an opportunity to test the strength of your Fortress and to fortify it further remember the goal is not to become impervious to emotions or experiences but to have a strong resilient mind that can process and deal with whatever comes your way effectively by maintaining your inner Fortress you ensure that external events or other people’s actions do not easily disturb your peace of mind you become a master of your own psyche less susceptible to being manipulated or thrown off balance by the world around you so each time you encounter adversity view it as a drill for your mental Fortress rein force your self-awareness hone your emotional intelligence and continually strengthen your inner resilience this ongoing practice will not only protect you from manipulation but also Empower you to live with greater confidence and Tranquility lesson three Embrace objectivity in this crucial lesson we delve into the stoic Mastery of objectivity the stoics renowned for their wisdom always emphasize the importance of seeing things as they really are free from the distortions of fear or wish thinking this objectivity is your secret weapon in Discerning truth from falsehood especially when others may be attempting to sway you for their own ends being objective doesn’t mean being emotionless rather it’s about acknowledging your emotions without letting them Cloud your judgment it’s about stepping back and viewing the situation as a wise Outsider might when you feel pressured manipulated or used pause and distance yourself from the immediacy of these feelings assess the situation with a clear unemotional gaze focus on the hard facts what is actually happening as opposed to what you fear might happen or hope will happen this process of stripping away emotions to examine the bare facts can be challenging but it’s incredibly empowering it allows you to identify when someone might be trying to exploit your emotions or manipulate you for their agenda this objective lens also helps in self-reflection are your responses based on objective reality or are they colored by subjective emotions by Reg regly practicing this Detachment and objective analysis you cultivate a mental Clarity that can cut through deception and manipulation remember the goal of objectivity is not to become detached from your Humanity but to enhance your ability to respond to situations in a balanced informed manner embracing objectivity means you’re less likely to be swayed by emotional manipulation and more likely to make decisions that align with your true values and goals next time you find yourself in a challenging scenario take a step back remind yourself of the stoic principle of objectivity look at the facts remove the emotional overlay and from this Vantage Point you’ll find a reliable Compass to navigate the often complex and manipulative dynamics of human interactions in doing so you become not only a more objective thinker but also a more resilient and autonomous individual Lesson Four the power of indifference this is where we unveil a stoic superpower the art of M mastering indifference now this isn’t about adopting an I don’t care attitude instead it’s about a powerful form of selective attention this will not disturb my peace it’s about learning to distinguish between what truly matters and what doesn’t ensuring that your energy and focus are invested wisely in the stoic philosophy indifference is about developing a kind of mental filter it’s not about being cold or uncaring rather it’s about being Discerning you learn to recognize and detach from things things that are trivial unimportant or outside your control this includes being indifferent to manipulation to Petty games and to the Myriad of distractions that life throws at you when you practice this selective indifference you’re essentially taking the driver’s seat of your life you become the one who decides what impacts your emotions and what gets your attention think of it like cultivating a garden you water the plants you want to grow and remove the weeds that threaten their growth similarly in life by being select ly indifferent you nurture the thoughts relationships and activities that align with your values and well-being while weeding out the negatives that drain your energy furthermore this practice of indifference is not a one-time decision it’s a daily even momentto moment Choice it involves constant self-reflection and awareness ask yourself regularly is this worth my time is this serving my Higher Goals if the answer is no Grant it the gift of your indifference by doing so you can conserve your emotional energy for what truly matters for your growth your peace and your journey towards a fulfilling life in essence the power of indifference lies in understanding that not every battle is worth fighting not every argument is worth engaging in and not every thought is worth your attention it’s a liberating and empowering stoic practice that puts you firmly in control of your internal world making you less susceptible to being swayed by the external and finally lesson five practice wise companionship remember stoicism isn’t just a personal philosophy it’s a communal Journey as well it’s about intentionally surrounding yourself with people who not only uplift you but also support your growth in meaningful ways this means being incredibly Discerning about who you led into your inner circle every person in your life should add value not chaos or confusion When selecting friends and companions look for those who respect your boundaries and understand the importance of mutual respect these individuals should challenge you but in ways that Foster growth and resilience not in ways that leave you feeling drained or undervalued they should be people who reflect the qualities you admire and strive for honesty Integrity kindness and strength in this circle of wise companions you’ll find a safe haven from the manipulative tactics of the world moreover these relationships should be reciprocal as much as you seek these qualities in others strive to offer the same be the friend who listens who advises with wisdom and who stands firm in their values in this Mutual exchange of respect and support you create a network where manipulation finds no foothold and where each individual thrives in the company of wise companions you’re not only protecting yourself from being used or manipulated you’re actively cultivating an environment where everyone grows together so take the time to assess your relationship nurture those that align with stoic values and gently distance yourself from those that don’t this selective companionship isn’t about elitism it’s about self-preservation and mutual growth there you have it five powerful stoic lessons to Shield you from being used and manipulated apply these teachings and watch as you transform into a more empowered resilient you remember to like share and subscribe for more wisdom from the ages see you soon in a world full of challenges setbacks and obstacles where times are more challenging than ever now is the time for you to rise up and become the best version of yourself this video will guide you through five essential masculine habits that will help you overcome your problems and live a more fulfilling life it’s far more than just another self-help video it acts as a blueprint for a stronger and more resilient self let’s dive in together and Unleash Your true potential stay tuned because today we’re laying the foundation for your journey to become the man who is destined for greatness from birth number one control your mind when dealing with life’s challenges the first and most important step is to take control of your heart men often feel overwhelmed by their problems and complain not only does this undermine their masculinity it also exacer Ates their problems a person’s greatness depends on his ability to deal with problems effectively and if you hesitate to deal with small problems you will weaken yourself your mind is your most powerful weapon failure to control it can lead to self-inflicted problems because your thoughts determine your actions remember if you don’t control your mind it will undoubtedly control you and lead you to develop destructive habits and unproductive activities mindfulness is the key to controlling your thoughts by focusing on the present moment and accepting your feelings and thoughts you gain control this is not a quick fix but a necessary practice understand that your thoughts are powerful and can both create and Destroy take charge for your life’s trajectory depends on it number two exercise daily train every day exercise is the secret weapon that can change your life it’s not just about looking good it’s about feeling good and becoming mentally sharper daily exercise is a powerful habit that can help you overcome problems and achieve your goals when you exercise you not only take care of your physical health but also improve your mental Clarity many seemingly insurmountable problems can become solvable with good training exercise releases endorphins oxygenating your body and clearing your mind this kind of physical activity isn’t limited to the gym a simple brisk walk or a quick home workout may be enough the key is consistency when you incorporate exercise into your daily routine you’ll find that many of the problems that once troubled you now become easier to solve you’ll become more resilient more focused and ready to face life’s challenges headon don’t underestimate the power of daily exercise it’s it’s not just about building a better body number three question after question after you’ve developed your mental discipline gained mental clarity through daily exercise and adopted a Whole Foods diet it’s time to take a practical approach to solving the problem the key is to solve one problem at a time trying to conquer Everything at Once often leads to overwhelm and procrastination to solve this problem write down a task the night before and if it’s a complex problem break it down into manageable steps starting your day with clear goals can improve focus and productivity it’s important to understand that solving a problem is not about solving the most important tasks first it’s about continuous Improvement small conscious steps lead to huge success by setting yourself challenges every day you’ll stay motivated and steadily move closer to your goals remember life is a journey and you are the master of your destiny number four eating habits play a pivotal role in a man’s ability to conquer life’s challenges it’s time to stop consuming junk and start embracing Natural Foods as men we’re not children or individuals prone to hormonal mood swings we eat with intention the foods we choose directly impact our future both mentally and physically when you indulge in processed un healthy foods your body and mind become preoccupied with processing these empty calories this diminishes your mental sharpness and problem solving abilities however hunger when harnessed as a superpower can enhance your productivity working while fasting can make you significantly sharper enabling you to tackle problems effectively furthermore when you do eat opt for Natural nutrient-rich Foods balance is the key with around 80% of your nutrition comprising these natural foods that fuel your body and mind the remaining 20% can be reserved for occasional Treats but always make conscious choices rather than succumbing to bad habits fasting teaches you to appreciate the taste and benefits of real wholesome food diminishing your cravings for unhealthy snacks remember a well-nourished body is better equipped to handle life’s challenges number five make money making money is an important aspect of being a truly manly man while it’s true that money can’t buy happiness it does remove the financial burden that’s weighing you down in a world ruled by money a lack of financial stability leaves you powerless it’s important to think of making money as one of your primary responsibilities as a provider some people deflect their financial difficulties by claiming that money is the root of all evil or that money does not bring happiness happiness however these are merely coping mechanisms to justify their own fiscal deficits don’t fall into this trap instead face it mastering the art of making money is critical to your personal growth remember it’s never too late to learn something new and improve your financial situation by subscribing to our Channel you will receive valuable information and strategies to help you on the path to financial success in the future money might not be everything but it’s a tool that can Empower you to lead a more fulfilling life continue to forge your path with these habits as your steadfast allies and may you thrive in the face of adversity if you found this video valuable please show your support by hitting the like And subscribe buttons by doing so you’ll stay connected with us for more insightful content that will help you level up in life



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