⚠️ How to seduce an OLDER WOMAN (Never run out of things to say) ⚠️


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[Music] do you find yourself at a loss for words when communicating with an older woman while the fundamentals remain constant there are a few differences when learning how to communicate with older women and Peak her interest most of the time they know exactly what they want and do not have time for boring dates or conversations of course this is not to say that older women have a negative attitude on the contrary straightforward open communication is refreshing just make sure to come prepared if you’re not a great conversationalist that’s fine that’s what I’m here for in this video I’ll give you a few quick tips to get you started the best part is that they will work in almost any situation these tips will help you get through a text conversation a bar or any of our favorite places to meet older women by the end you’ll have more than enough to get started from there you can add your own flare you’ll quickly learn how to communicate with older women and it all starts here before we begin I would appreciate it if you like the video you can help me continue spreading the stoic philosophy if you are not subscribed I recommend you subscribe and activate the Bell to avoid missing any videos if you like the topic of this video please comment with a number one if you don’t please comment with a number two to let me know so I can make better videos in the future number one be confident she is talking to you for a reason if you take anything away from this video remember this confidence is something that everyone finds appealing don’t let her age ruin it for you she’s happily conversing with you and nobody is forcing her to be there so don’t worry about it obviously she’s fine with the distance between you so there’s no reason to second guess yourself number two don’t make the age Gap a focus of conversation age gaps are no longer considered taboo you’re both aware that there is a gap between you but it doesn’t matter anymore however in the early stages of the conversation you will both be slightly concerned the worst thing you can do is poke at the source of your mild anxiety if it comes up in conversation that’s fine but don’t make it the main topic it will only exacerbate your anxieties and ruin the experience for you both if you’re stumped for what else to talk about keep reading you’ll find the simplest tips for creating questions to ask an older woman number three talk to older women about relationships to get her interested this can be tricky but when done correctly it can be an interesting topic of discussion relationships are something you both have in common and they don’t have to be bad discussing relationships can take the conversation to a more intimate level breaking down barriers Begin by talking abstractly then gradually shift the conversation to you and her if that is the direction you both want to go avoid any negative conversation it’s best to avoid discussing ex- Partners or previous bad breakups on the other hand if you believe she is interested in you you can use some dirty talk to turn turn her on number four never try to act like an older man this is another common mistake you might find yourself making as you figure out how to talk to a woman older than you you don’t have to act like the men you think she usually dates if she seems interested in dating you at least in this instance you’re the one she wants to date not you acting like someone her age but you playing the role of you remember if she wanted to be with an older man she would be number five her passions a great great way to bore someone to death in a conversation is to use the tiresome what do you do question instead inquire about her passions what drives her and what excites her those are the things you want to know and they will spark an interesting conversation some of the best questions to ask an older woman are about topics that are interesting to her she enjoys talking about her interests they are easy for her to discuss and they are also interesting to you to get her talking ask open-ended questions and make mental notes of what she mentions you can then ask her to elaborate on each one number six talk to older women about travel most older women have traveled and For Better or Worse we all bring back exciting stories from those Adventures it’s another topic that’s interesting for you both and something so easy for her to talk about in fact research finds that 18% of people want a second date after talking about travel it lets her relive her adventures while sharing positive memories with you better yet if you’ve both traveled to the same place you’ve got endless topics of conversation right there travel is a gateway topic that leads to other topics like passion goals memories and favorites it’s a conversation that keeps the Positive Vibes flowing as long as you keep the dialogue on the right track this is also a great way to start a conversation with an older woman ask questions what’s her favorite place her most cherished memory a place she’d return to somewhere she has always wanted to go where might you two go together and what would you do number seven her dreams almost as important as her passions are her dreams some older women feel the pull of their dreams stronger than their younger counterparts they might feel they’re running out of time to live their perfect existence talking about her dreams will get her excited thinking of the future it’s a great way to connect Beyond superficial conversation talk about how you might fit into her picture perfect future number eight advice older women enjoy giving younger men advice it gives them a sense of importance and demonstrates that you are willing to consider her point of view she is aware that you have less experience than she does and it is critical that she understands your vulnerability so if you want to talk to an older woman and Peak her interest in you asking her for advice is an excellent way to do so by remaining engaged and asking follow-up questions you will demonstrate your interest in what she has to say being a good listener is an excellent way to attract women without speaking keep eye contact and try not to break it until she does it shows your interest and helps you gauge hers by her level of eye contact number nine her goals goals aren’t the same as dreams but they are definitely one of the best ways to start a conversation online with a woman goals are smaller more realistic steps towards something she’s aiming for for most of us they’re also what gives us a sense of purpose and excitement in life you’ll learn a lot about about her and have a productive conversation who knows you might even motivate her to chase some of those goals she’ll be so thankful for your help number 10 your passions dreams and goals your passions dreams and goals are also important most older women want to know about their date so she’ll likely inquire about your interests dreams and goals if she doesn’t that’s fine you can work it into the conversation organically or wait until she says hit me up because good conversation is an ongoing back and forth you should always be ready to answer any question maintain confidence throughout the conversation sit up straight face her and speak up remember that your body language reveals a lot about who you are as you speak if you’re slouching and talking into your wine you’re not going to make the best conversation partner number 11 flattery as long as they’re genuine Everyone likes to receive compliments just don’t go overboard this is a very simple Habit to get into as you you learn how to talk to older women the best thing to do is focus on things she can control rather than talking about her eyes focus on her dress sense or the way she approaches a topic that will put you in her good graces and give you a chance to start a conversation about why you messaged or approached her make sure it’s sincere and be prepared to repeat yourself in case she rebuffs you number 12 share humor and light-hearted moments one of the best ways to connect with an older woman is through shared humor and light-hearted moments laughter is a great way to break the ice and create a positive connection share funny stories jokes or anecdotes that will bring a smile to her face being able to laugh together can strengthen your bond and make the conversation more enjoyable for both of you remember to keep the humor respectful and appropriate for the setting avoid offensive jokes or topics that could make her uncomfortable the goal is to have fun and create a memorable experience that will leave her wanting to continue the conversation so don’t be afraid to show off your sense of humor and bring some joy into your interactions with older women it’s a great way to build rapport and make a lasting impression these tried and true methods for engaging an older woman will almost always result in her opening up to you whether you’re at a bar at work or with friends you can use these tips and topics to peque her interest in you please subscribe if you like this video show some love by clicking the like button your likes tell us what content you enjoy the most and sharing is caring until next time remain blessed imagine harnessing a secret power one that’s been revered by stoic philosophers for centuries today we uncover that power silence in this video we’ll explore six critical life situations where staying silent isn’t just a choice but a necessity stoicism an ancient philosophy teaches The Art of Living Through wisdom and virtue Central to this wisdom is the practice of Silence let’s discover why silence is more than just a lack of words but a strategy for resilience and strength situation one when anger strikes this is a familiar scenario for many the rise of anger the impulse to immediately respond the stoics however offer a different approach one that emphasizes control over emotions rather than being controlled by them when anger emerges the Instinct might be to unleash a flood of words often ones we might regret later the stone iics suggest a different course a pause a moment of silence this silence is not a sign of passivity but rather a deliberate act to regain control over the situation in this silence lies a unique power it’s the ability to process our emotions to delve into the true root of our anger is the anger really about the present situation or is there an underlying issue this period of reflection can be Illuminating it helps in avoiding conflict escalation and in preserving relationships that could be harmed by rash words silence in the face of anger is also an act of self-respect it is about maintaining inner peace and not letting external events disrupt your mental state the stoics were Advocates of focusing on what we can control our reactions and our mindset choosing silence in these moments is not an indication of weakness but a display of strength a strength that transcends the fleeting satisfaction of expressing anger more over practicing silence in moments of anger is a journey towards wisdom each instance where we opt to stay silent rather than react in Anger teaches us more about ourselves our triggers and how to manage them better in the future this skill once honed not only brings peace to our lives but also positively influences those around us therefore the next time anger grips you think of the stoic way take that deep breath embrace the silence and let it guide you towards a response that is in harmony with your true character and values this approach to handling anger not only aligns with stoic philosophy but also offers a practical method for navigating one of life’s challenging emotions situation two confronted with gossip gossip is a common element in social interactions but it presents a unique Challenge from a stoic perspective the stoics known for their emphasis on virtue and character viewed gossip as a destructive force not just for those who are the subject of the gossip but also for those who engage in in it when confronted with gossip the stoic approach is to maintain silence this is not about avoidance but rather a conscious decision to not participate in a conversation that can harm others engaging in Gossip is often seen as a harmless way to bond or share information but it can have unintended consequences it can damage reputations strain relationships and create an environment of mistrust but the impact of Gossip goes beyond its effect on others it also affects the character of the person who gossips the stoics believed in living a life of Integrity where one’s actions are in alignment with their values gossiping can be a deviation from this path as it involves speaking about others in a way that is not truthful kind or necessary by engaging in Gossip a person compromises their own principles and integrity moreover the stoics saw the act of gossiping as a missed opportunity for personal growth instead of spending time discussing others they advocated using that time for self-improvement learning or engaging in meaningful conversations that enrich the Mind and Spirit therefore the stoic response to gossip is rooted in the philosophy of self-control and virtue by choosing silence in the face of Gossip one not only prevents harm to others but also upholds their own character this Choice reflects a commitment to personal integrity and a life led by stoic principles in essence avoiding gossip is not just about keeping away from idle talk it’s about maintaining a standard of behavior that is consistent with the stoic pursuit of wisdom and virtue it’s a practice that reinforces the importance of focusing on our actions and words ensuring they contribute positively to our lives and the lives of those around us situation three when you lack knowledge in the stoic view wisdom is among the highest virtues and part of wisdom is knowing the limits of one’s knowledge the stoics teach the value of Silence especially when it comes to speaking on matters where one lacks understanding or information this approach is not just about avoiding false statements but it’s also a demonstration of humility and the willingness to learn in situations where you find yourself uninformed the stoic practice is to remain silent this is more than just refraining from contributing to a conversation it’s an acknowledgement of One’s Own limitations and an expression of the desire to learn by not speaking on matters we don’t fully understand we avoid the potential spread of misinformation and the risk of misleading others furthermore stoicism teaches that pretending to know something we don’t is a form of self-deception that can hinder personal growth acknowledging ignorance is the first step towards acquiring knowledge in this respect choosing silence when uninformed is not a sign of weakness or ignorance but rather a sign of strength and wisdom it shows a commitment to truth and a respect for the value of accurate knowledge this humility in acknowledging what we don’t know also opens the door to learning it creates an opportunity for others who are knowledgeable to share their insights and for us to learn from them in this way silence becomes a tool for personal growth and intellectual development additionally this practice of remaining silent when uninformed is empowering it frees us from the pressure to always have an answer or an opinion it allows us to be comfortable with not knowing which is a key aspect of intellectual humility this comfort with uncertainty can lead to a more thoughtful reflective and considerate approach to learning and speaking in essence the stoic approach to situations where one lacks knowledge is not just about maintaining silence but about valuing the pursuit of wisdom it’s a practice that respects the complexity of knowledge and celebrates the process of learning by embracing this approach we align ourselves with the stoic virtues of wisdom humility and intellectual Integrity situation for in the midst of conflict conflict is an inevitable part of Human Relationships but the way we handle it can make a significant difference stoicism with its focus on inner tranquility and rational thinking offers a unique approach to conflict resolution the use of Silence this isn’t about simply not speaking it’s about using silence strategically to deescalate tension and promote understanding in conflicts emotions often Run High and words spoken In the Heat of the Moment can exacerbate the situation the stoics teach that in such moments silence can be a powerful tool by choosing not to respond immediately we give ourselves time to process our emotions to step back from the heat of the conflict and to approach the situation with a clearer more rational mindset this pause can prevent the conflict from escalating and can create a space for calmer more constructive communication moreover silence and conflict is a form of active listening it signals to the other person that you are taking their perspective seriously and considering it thoughtfully this can foster a mutual respect and understanding even in the midst of disagreement it shows that you value resolving the conflict more than winning the argument stoicism also teaches that conflicts often arise from misunderstandings or differing perceptions by remaining silent and listening we can gain a better understanding of the other person’s Viewpoint and the underlying issues that may be fueling the conflict this understanding is key to finding a resolution that is satisfactory to all parties involved furthermore employing silence in Conflict situations reflects self-control a core stoic virtue it demonstrates the ability to control one’s impulses and to act in accordance with reason rather than emotion this self-control not only helps in resolving the immediate conflict but also contributes to personal growth and the development of stronger more resilient iant relationships in essence the stoic use of Silence in conflict is about creating an environment where resolution is possible it’s a practice that values rationality understanding and respect and aligns with the stoic principles of wisdom and virtue by embracing this approach we can navigate conflicts in a way that is constructive and harmonious staying true to our values and fostering positive outcomes situation five the art of listening sto iism a philosophy deeply rooted in self-awareness and personal growth places great emphasis on the importance of listening over speaking this perspective Champions the idea of Silent active listening as a transformative tool in personal and interpersonal development the stoics understood that true communication involves much more than just expressing one’s own thoughts and opinions it requires the ability to listen actively and attentively to others silent listening isn’t merely the absence of speech it’s an active engagement with the speaker this form of listening allows us to fully absorb what is being said understand the nuances of the conversation and respond thoughtfully active listening in silence involves several key elements first it requires giving full attention to the speaker free from distractions or the urge to formulate a response while the other person is still talking this level of attention demonstrates respect and value for the speaker’s perspective fostering a deeper level of dialogue and understanding secondly silent listening involves observing non-verbal cues such as body language and tone of voice which are often as important as the words being spoken this helps in understanding the full context of the message and the emotions behind it additionally stoicism teaches that listening is an opportunity for Learning and personal growth by listening silently we open ourselves to new ideas perspectives and knowledge that we might miss if we were too eager to speak this approach reflects a humble acknowledgement that we do not have all the answers and that there is always more to learn furthermore the practice of Silent active listening can transform relationships it builds trust empathy and a deeper connection with others when people feel heard and understood it creates a foundation for open honest and supportive interactions in essence the art of listening as taught by stoicism is not just a communication skill it’s a life skill it involves embracing silence as a space for understanding empathy and connection by cultivating the practice of Silent active listening we align with the stoic values of wisdom self-improvement and harmonious living enhancing both our personal lives and our interactions with others situation six facing critical decisions in the realm of stoicism the act of making decisions is not just a practical necessity but a reflection of one’s philosophical principles the stoics regarded silence not merely as a lack of speech but as a space for reflection crucial for making thoughtful and considered decisions when faced with critical decisions the stoic practice of embracing silence offers a moment to step back from the immediacy and pressures of the situation this pause is not about procrastination or avoidance but is a deliberate choice to create mental space for reflection in the quiet of Silence we can weigh the options consider the potential consequences of our decisions and reflect on how each choice aligns with our values and principles silence in decision-making allows for a Detachment from external influences and fleeting emotions enabling a focus on rational objective thinking the stoics believe that emotions while a natural part of The Human Experience should not dominate our decision-making process by cultivating a period of Silence we can assess our choices without the clouding effect of intense emotions or external pressures moreover the practice of Silent reflection is an exercise in self-awareness it involves examining our motivations desires and fears understanding these internal drivers is essential for making decisions that are true to ourselves and our path the stoics taught that self- knowledge is a critical component of wisdom and wise decision-making is a natural extension of this knowledge in addition to aiding in personal Clarity silence as a tool for decision-making can also lead to more responsible and ethical choices when we take take the time to reflect we are more likely to consider the broader impact of our decisions including how they affect others this aligns with the stoic principle of living a virtuous life one that contributes positively to society and the common good in essence the stoic use of Silence in facing critical decisions is about harnessing the power of reflection it’s an approach that values deliberation rationality and alignment with personal and ethical values by incorporating silence into our decision-making processes we align ourselves with the stoic ideals of wisdom and virtue making choices that are thoughtful considered and reflective of our true selves silence is not just absence of noise it’s a stoic tool for self-mastery and wisdom today we’ve learned six critical situations where silence is your greatest Ally Embrace these lessons and watch how they transform your life thank you for joining us in this journey of stoic wisdom remember Sil is a lesson learned from the many sufferings of life until next time embrace the power of Silence have you ever felt a yearning even a longing for love as if it were the missing piece that would finally complete your life love is frequently portrayed in society as the ultimate aim the summit of human experience and the Magical answer to all of our problems but what if we told you that this NeverEnding search for love may be more of a hindrance than an aid in achieving real pleasure and contentment hello and welcome to our exploration of a Viewpoint that may question all you’ve been taught about love today we’ll go back in time to investigate the ancient stoics wisdom stoicism a philosophical School formed in the 3rd Century BC held that virtue or the ultimate good is predicated on knowledge and that the wise live in harmony with Divine reason which controls nature the stoics had some extremely astute things to say about our emotions particularly love they felt that rather than allowing our emotions to govern us we should learn to understand and regulate them what does this have to do with our current romantic Pursuits stay tuned as we dissect the stoics ideas and investigate why they felt we should not pursue love as we go more into the stoic perspective on love it’s critical to grasp the opinions of some of its most significant thinkers senica Marcus Aurelius and epicus among others made important contributions to the stoic view of love senica a well-known stoic philosopher wrote extensively about emotions such as love he thought that love is a natural invital aspect of life but that it should not devour you senica believed that love like other emotions ought to be tempered and controlled it should not become an obsession that pulls us away from the path of morality and wisdom Marcus aelius the Roman Emperor and a devout stoic expressed similar ideas in his well-known book meditations he emphasized the significance of retaining emotional control reminding us that we have the ability to mold our views and responses epicus a former slave turned philosopher emphasized that our peace is dependent on discriminating between what we can and cannot manage and while we have no influence over whether or not someone else loves us we do have power over how we react to these Sensations the notion of chosen indifference is Central to stoicism these are parts of life that are neither intrinsically good or evil but can contribute to a good existence if managed wisely according to the stoics love falls under this group it is neither a virtue in and of itself nor is it fundamentally Wicked rather love can enrich our life but it should not be our ultimate objective or decide our pleasure isn’t this a radical Viewpoint especially when juxtaposed with popular myths about love being the ultimate source of happiness and fulfillment however the stoics believe that genuine trans quility comes from inside not from outside influences including love but what exactly do we mean by seeking love to seek love means to make finding a loving partner your major objective in life it is the unwavering Pursuit Of Love often at the expense of other aspects of human development when we Chase love we are continuously looking for someone else to complete fulfill and provide significance to our lives on the surface this may not appear to be a problematic strategy after all love is a lovely and fulfilling aspect of The Human Experience when we go further it becomes evident that this thinking may lead to a slew of issues to begin with it places our happiness in the hands of someone else we often associate our feeling of self-worth and satisfaction with whether or not we are in a romantic relationship when we pursue love we may feel incomplete or as if we are failing while we are single however the stoics would argue that this is an incorrect source of worth they believed in achieving satisfaction inside oneself rather than seeking it from other sources furthermore when we are obsessed with seeking love we may Overlook other vital elements of Our Lives such as personal growth interests or friendships we might become so engrossed in our goal that we lose sight of ourselves our originality and the characteristics that distinguish us third seeking for love can lead to bad Partnerships we can miss warning signals suffer maltreatment or settle for partners who aren’t suited for us when our primary aim is to be in a relationship any relationship we might become so needy for love that we lose sight of what it means to be in a healthy respectful and rewarding relationship lastly seeking love can be a NeverEnding disappointing Quest if we’re always seeking for love we’re always looking forward always looking for the next thing we’re never present never content with what we have right now as senica put it he who is everywhere is nowhere pursuing love on the other hand might lead to a life of dissatisfaction endless striving and finally sadness however this does not imply that the stoics were opposed to love they on the other hand valued it they did however advocate for a different more attentive approach let us go further into stoicism’s love lessons consider epicus a former slave Who Rose to become one of the most important stoic thinkers his ideas revolved around the concept ccept of control differentiating between what we can and cannot influence according to epicus love belongs to the latter kind in the discourses he instructs remember that you must behave in life like at a dinner party is there anything presented to you put your hand up and take your fair portion in moderation does it pass you by don’t put a halt to it is it still not here wait for it to come to you rather than stretching your passion towards it what exactly he’s saying here is to enjoy love when it comes your way to completely connect with it while it’s present in your life but not to desperately seek it out when it’s not there or to clutch it too tightly when it attempts to go senica another prominent stoic philosopher preached that one should love without attachment recognizing that everything is fleeting this is not to encourage emotional Detachment or apathy but rather to encourage resilience in the face of change and loss senica said he who loves with longing is constantly distressed these views were mirrored by Marcus Aurelius a Roman Emperor and stoic philosopher in his meditations he stated accept the things to which fate binds you and love the people with whom fate brings you together but do it with all your heart this advice urges us to participate with love totally when it enters Our Lives yet without clutching or desperation these stoic love principles lead us to a better and more resilient approach to love they tell us to respect enjoy and completely participate with love but not to make it the primary center of our life or the single source of our pleasure at the end love should be a portion of Our Lives rather than the totality of them adopting the stoic perspective of not seeking love may significantly enhance your life this may appear paradoxical in a society where we are urged to pursue our desires with Zeal yet stoicism teaches us a more nuanced approach to begin with not seeking love can result in a strong feeling of emotional resilience we become vulnerable to emotional upheaval when we link our happiness and self-worth to whether or not we are in a love relationship we may build an emotional balance that remains steady whether or not love is present in our lives by taking a step back and not feverishly chasing it second not seeking love promotes self-actualization it’s all too simple to believe that we need another person to complete ourselves stoicism on the other hand supports the notion that we are already whole and capable of finding contentment within ourselves we may devote more time and attention to personal growth understanding ourselves and fostering our hobbies and interests when we stop seeking love we learn to be content with ourselves which makes us more self-reliant and robust it is not about avoiding or being indifferent to love but rather about allowing love to come to you in its own time and way it takes a lot of effort to shift from a love chasing attitude to one of acceptance and self-fulfillment it necessitates reflection patience and dedication so how can we use these stoic ideas in our daily lives here are some actions you can take number one self-awareness Begin by identifying your patterns are you continually looking for approval from others are you hopping from one relationship to the next because you’re afraid of being alone the first step toward changing is being honest with yourself about these Tendencies number two conscious relationships when you do start dating keep stoic ideas in mind maintain your individuality don’t rely on the relationship for happiness and make sure there’s mutual respect and understanding number three self-esteem instead of seeking affection from other sources begin creating it within yourself whether you’re in a romantic relationship or not engage in self-care activities pursue your hobbies and create a life you like remember that you are already complete number four appreciate Solitude the stoic sawu seclusion is valuable it allows us to better understand ourselves reflect and evolve spend some time alone and learn to love your own company number five emotional resilience improve your emotional management skills stoicism does not imply not feeling anything but rather not allowing your emotions to govern your actions and decisions mindfulness practice might be a nice place to start number six patience it’s easy to get caught up in the pursuit of love in the age of dating apps instead work on your patience allow love to come to you naturally and at its own speed remember that this is a journey there will be days when you struggle and that is perfectly normal change takes time but each step you take brings you closer to a life of emotional resilience self-actualization and healthier relationships the stoics taught us to accept love when it is present Let It Go when it isn’t and to constantly retain our inner Serenity and self-respect according to the famed stoic philosopher senica the man who is quiet and tranquil is not the guy who has fled from things but who remains their Master may we all aspire to become emotional and life Masters thank you for joining us on this trip through stoicism and its relationship to love if you found this video Ed useful please consider like sharing and subscribing for more information like this remember that self-improvement is a journey that 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  1. I'm ngl I've always had luck with having girls my age some time like a year or 2 younger im 23 and they are beautiful but lately idk why these older women have been more attractive to me and I want an older women but I always fuck something up even just talking to her I feel like I'm just a lil kid to her