I spent 748 Days to Find the 1000 Best Life Lessons Most People Don’t Notice in Life


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a tough lesson in life that one has to learn is that not everybody wishes you well there is neither happiness nor unhappiness in this world there is merely the comparison of one state to the other only a man who has felt ultimate despair is capable of feeling ultimate Bliss hard times are sometimes blessings in disguise we do have to suffer but in the end it makes us strong better and wise rehearsing situations in your head is a waste of time the situation will always be different than anything your imagination will come up with people will walk in and out of your life and those you least expect will become past remembrances of a temporary time you once thought was permanent one of my biggest lessons in life is we heal at the speed of our forgiveness a little fishness enough to enjoy life and a little wisdom to avoid the errors that will do hard times don’t create Heroes it is during the hor times when the hero within us is [Music] revealed happiness is not the absence of problems it’s the ability to deal with them the great courageous act that we must all do is to have the courage to step out of our history and past so that we can live our [Music] dreams nothing in your life will change unless you change you think you know someone but mostly you just know what you want to know it took a long time but I have learned that you just can’t take anything you want out of life without putting something back in exchange instead of worrying about what you cannot control shift your energy to what you can create maturity is when you stop complaining and making excuses and start making changes you can’t understand everything immediately sometimes you need to wait some goodbyes set you free the only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be if you have a strong purpose in life you don’t have to be pushed your passion will drive you there life changes for the better when we realize that we don’t have to know everything and we don’t have to pretend that we do be the reason someone Smiles be the reason someone feels loved and believes in the goodness in people it’s never too late to reinvent yourself actions rooted in persistence sometimes bear bitter fruit sometimes you have to let parts of yourself go or you’ll never be happy obstacles don’t have to stop you if you run into a wall don’t turn around and give up figure out how to climb it go through it or work around it [Music] you can’t always get what you want but if you try sometimes you get what you need the first step towards getting somewhere is to decide that you are not going to stay where you are the hardest thing to learn in life is which bridge to cross and which Bridge To Burn all you have to do is pay attention lessons always arrive when you are ready facing your emotions gives you more strength and happiness in the long run than shutting them down or ignoring them if you believe very strongly in something stand up and fight for it guard well your thoughts when alone and your words when accompanied the trouble is if you don’t spend your life yourself other people spend it for [Music] you be grateful for what you already have while you pursue your goals if there’s a single lesson that life teaches us it’s that wishing doesn’t make it so sometimes you’re not going to fit in no matter how hard you try and it’s better to just be alone every Journey has its final day don’t rush when one door closes another open opens but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has open for us always trust what your gut tells you even when everybody else tries to convince you otherwise don’t take people for granted you never know when they could be gone you never know how much they mean to you until they’re gone never back down from a real challenge they give the best lessons in life you are the only person that can simultaneously be your best friend and your worst enemy and you can choose which one is more prevalent you cannot control the behavior of others but you can always choose how you respond to it don’t cry because it’s over smile because it happened sometimes you have to lose all you have to find out who you truly are people only get better with experience if they are willing to learn and understand the lessons that are given to them through the bad times in their lives tough times teach us that our resilience is stronger than we ever imagined you have to speak up for yourself no one else will you won’t always be able to help someone change for the better if you keep trying there will come a day when you decide you can’t do it anymore and they clearly don’t want to [Music] change your life is the result of the choices you make there is no plan just the consequences of choices be cautious with go Deeds kindness has limits and some may exploit your generosity [Music] you can either become the victim of your struggles or emerge from them as the hero of your life the most precious thing in the world is time with those you love we tend to forget that happiness doesn’t come as a result of getting something we don’t have but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have not everyone wants to see you succeed some will even go out of their way to see you fail learn to be self-sufficient and realize you are a mortal who will suffer horribly later if you don’t become independent and resourceful stop worrying about what other people think honest who gives a keep to yourself stay away from idiot stupidity is contagious your friends want you to do good but not better than them rest don’t care learn how to say it and mean it don’t say yes to everyone to make them comfortable check with yourself too before you commit many people don’t like you especially if they see you as a competition rule your life with your mind not with your feelings every bad decision we have made in life there was more emotion in it than there was mind every single one always listen to your gut somehow it knows many things that you wouldn’t expect know your worth never put yourself in The Bargain Bin or that’s where others will value you time truly flies be grateful always because it can always be worse live like there’s no tomorrow and do what you love don’t get bogged down in regrets no one is perfect don’t chase happiness just stay positive and you will experience Joy pay close attention to those who say they love you because so often they don’t they only use you trust in yourself and your first instinct on decisions lower your expectations having high expectations of yourself and of others is a recipe for chronic dissatisfaction in life accept that some folks love to point fingers and blame others you will be blamed for things you haven’t done and for things that haven’t even happened yet stop complaining whining and nagging it’s wasted energy who’s listening anyway realize you cannot control everything or everyone but you can control yourself and that’s even better always move in your own Direction not according to society friends or family leave the house messy in the yard under mode for the weekend you will remember the fun not the clean house or yard make time for [Music] fun learn to say no Be Frugal eat only real food no wheat and limit carbs the more you know the Dumber you sound to stupid people pay attention to the negative signs that people give off and immediately disconnect from them it will save you a lot of pain and more importantly wasted [Music] time never take the responsibility that does not belong to you never sell out and trust your instincts also most importantly never take loved ones for [Music] granted have firm boundaries and be Discerning about who you let into your life if you want to help yourself find someone worthy to serve through service you gain experience contacts and a reputation as a reliable and accountable alley it is only through an apprenticeship that one becomes a master buy real estate land anything you can afford the less possessions you own the happier and less burden you will have in your life life is often very ambiguous sometimes there isn’t a right or wrong decision or Choice things are not always completely clear you may not get the answer so you just have to wing it don’t leave someone to teach them a lesson leave because you learned yours life is far from over but it’s very short too if you want to do something don’t delay but don’t sacrifice what you want for what you want right [Music] now when in doubt just take the next small step slow down and realize that mistakes are essential to learning [Music] anything get yourself together before you get any older the older you are the harder it is to change no one cares except [Music] family start saving you money don’t spend it on homes you can’t afford fancy cars and running your credit cards to the max in the end you’ll be much happier nothing is actually as bad as it seems or as great as you think it will be take good care of your health without Health nothing will matter no amount of money can bring you Joy if you are suffering marry before 30 have kids before 35 work and earn actively and sufficiently till and Before 40 make passive income workable before 50 plan to retire from work activity before 60 do everything for family but expect nothing from it not even from [Music] spouse you’ll never be sorry for telling someone you love them do it before it’s too late save a little money every week or month nothing gives you happiness like a financial buffer believe it or not if it ain’t broke don’t fix it not everybody wants to be your friend and that’s okay you really don’t want everybody as a friend any anyway you don’t always have to be going being and doing it’s really okay to just chill give back even if it’s donating your tag sale leftovers or handing a dollar bill over to someone less fortunate do it it’ll make you feel good everything happens for a reason always do not fear getting hurt you can’t grow if you don’t [Music] hurt don’t ruin your health in order to earn money you will end up spending your money to recover your health and that is not reciprocal be kind to people without allowing them to take advantage of your good [Music] nature efforts never go in vain how others see you is not important how you see yourself means everything everything you need will come to you at the perfect time ukuk into this huge world alone and will go out of it alone hence can make any impossible thing possible by yourself only if you punish the truth expect to be lied to you will look back at your life with much more regret for the things that you didn’t do than for the things that you did things don’t make us happy experiences do keep your mouth shut whenever you’re happy keep your mouth shut whenever you are sad stop comparing yourself with those who started 10 years before you focus on your own [Music] Journey you can’t go back and change the beginning but you can start where you are and change the ending if you waste money you can earn it again if you miss the moment it can never be returned live life with opened eyes ears and heart strong people are always simple you spend your first 20 years worrying what people think about you you spend your next 20 years swearing that you don’t care what people think about you you spend the next 20 years realizing that they aren’t thinking about you never let others know your weaknesses instead always try to show up your positives don’t tell your friends that you’re happy don’t make them angry don’t tell your enemies that you’re unhappy don’t make them happy time flies one day you are 30 the next you are 50 plan now for what you want 50 to look like last but not least you are here for a reason that you may not know but be patient you beat a billion odds by being here be grateful for the little things in life that others take for granted the only way to live like a king is to work like a slave there are two ways to do things right and again better to fight and fall than to live without hope whatever ever is begun in Anger ends in shame the answer is always no until you ask if a man empties his purse into his head no one can take it from him even in the sheath the sword must be sharp so too must the mind and the spirit be within the body a person should not agree today to what he will regret tomorrow life gives you lots of chances to screw up which means you have just as many chances to get it right people treating you poorly is a reflection on them not [Music] you don’t make yourself available too much for anyone you will lose importance [Music] never ruin an apology with an excuse never trust anybody trust is earned not given from the start you’re never too old to cut people out of your life it takes a long time to realize how truly miserable you are and even longer to realize it doesn’t have to be that way you may delay but time will [Music] not if you would know the value of money go and try to borrow some laziness travels so slowly that poverty soon overtakes him love your enemies for they tell you your [Music] faults there are three Faithful Friends an old wife an old dog and ready money by failing to prepare you are preparing to fail just because the boat rocks doesn’t mean it’s time to jump overboard you’ll have bad times but it’ll always wake you up to the good stuff you weren’t paying attention to when you try to please everybody you almost always please nobody your past does not equal your future sometimes you can make all the right choices and then have to sit there and watch them all crumble around you you just have to pick up the pieces and keep moving never be so kind you forget to be clever and never be so clever you forget to be kind if you put your mind to it you can accomplish anything stop trying to be happy you can’t be happy all the time and it’s okay if you’re trying to break a habit don’t say this is the last time I’m doing it to yourself instead say this is the first time I’m not doing [Music] it an investment in knowledge pays the best interest he that displays too often his wife and his wallet is in danger of having both of them borrowed we do not stop playing because we grow old we grow old because we stop playing work as if you were to live a thousand years play as if you were to Die Tomorrow contentment makes poor men rich discontent makes rich men poor he that can have patience can have what he will having been poor is no shame but being ashamed of it is nothing that life has to offer is worth the price of worry you stop explaining yourself when you realize people only understand from their level of perception some day isn’t even a real day although for some people it’s every day it’s never too late to turn your life in a completely new Direction and there is huge importance in just one day you will never be who you want to be until you are happy with who you are when you get a different vantage point it changes your perspective it allows us to see things that maybe we should have seen a long time ago that which has a bad beginning is likely to have a bad ending too much ale and a man’s heart is laid open for all to see all the people need in order to rise up against tyranny is a leader bold enough to take up the banner never take for granted the time you spend with the people you keep it could be over any [Music] day live in reality as it is not as you wish it was if you expect the world to be fair with you because you are fair that’s like expecting the lion not to eat you because you didn’t eat him if you’re right but you are obnoxious about it people won’t see you as the good guy courage doesn’t always Roar sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying I will try again tomorrow [Music] people often confuse stress with responsibility the reason you want to be better than someone else is the reason why you aren’t a man must be big enough to admit his mistakes smart enough to profit from them and strong enough to correct them be the person you needed when you were younger you will reach your destination even though you travel slowly the error is the result of letting fear rule your actions better to Die With Honor than live with shame accept things as they are life isn’t about living in the past or living for the future it’s about living in the now enjoy every bit of your life to the fullest your compromises and sacrifices will be rewarded never keep people in your life if they don’t love and respect you as much as you do them be at war with your vices at peace with your neighbors and let every New Year find you a better man be slow in choosing a friend slower in changing when you are finished changing you’re finished strive to make small changes and learn something new daily because there are always these experiences you have had to tap into for the future someone’s opinion of you doesn’t have to become your reality not everybody who speaks in a pleasant way to you is your friend if you change the way you look at things the things you look at change change you don’t ever truly know another person unless you can take up residence in their head you’ll never be privy to their true nature it is not our abilities that show what we truly are it is our choices you will find the key to success under the alarm clock a penny saved is a penny [Music] earned fear not death for the sooner we die the longer we shall be immortal wanting something is not enough you must hunger for it your motivation must be absolutely compelling in order to overcome the obstacles that will invariably come your way [Music] our lives are defined by opportunities even the ones we miss every person alive hits a Crossroads in life when you have to let go of the past and Forge ahead into something new the only sad thing would be clinging to the Past once it’s Out Of Reach you’ve got to know when it’s time to turn the page [Music] forgiving doesn’t make the person who hurts you feel better it makes you feel better if someone is trying to bring you down it only means you are above [Music] them you train people how to treat you unconsciously or not you are either part of the problem or part of the [Music] solution never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity socializing is just like any skill you need to practice before you’re good at it life is brutal and will break your heart and you just have to be brave and do the best you you can when you’re testing to see how deep water is never use two [Music] feet happiness depends more on the inward disposition of Mind than on outward circumstances be civil to all sociable to many familiar with few friend to one enemy to none n there is more honor in accumulating little by little than in reaching for the sky and ending up flat on your face often times it is not numbers that win the victory but those who fare forward with the most Vigor to forget is the secret of Eternal youth one grows old only through memory there’s much too little forgetting if you have to keep asking yourself if something is worth it then maybe it’s not he who wants to hold on to that is losing those who are ready to let go with a smile are trying to keep him if it were easy everybody would do it the more primitive a man is the better he believes himself to be life did not intend to make us perfect whoever is perfect belongs in a museum modesty and conscientiousness receive their reward only in novels in life they are exploited and then shoved side don’t take criticism from anyone you would not take advice from education in knowing things means nothing if you’re not willing to put in effort and use what you know strive to be the man you want your daughter to marry if you blame it on someone else don’t expect it to get better leave when a promise turns into a sorry never tell your boss your Bor be alone sometimes it is important for your mind and well-being the first person you think of in the morning and the last person you think of at night is either the cause of your happiness or the cause of your pain not always sorry for the one who is wrong asking forgiveness of the one who values the [Music] relations figure out what you love to do and then figure out how to get someone to pay you to do it don’t make decisions when you’re angry don’t make promises when you’re happy we are the average of the people we spend time with surround yourself with good people to be a good [Music] person clean dishes as you cook letting go is very hard but it’s the best thing to do avoid bad habits they will become harder to break as you get older if you try to please everybody somebody won’t like [Music] it smart girls like to hear they’re pretty pretty girls like to hear that they’re [Music] smart you don’t really know the person you’re with until you move in together never marry anyone without living with them first if you’re not dating to marry then you’re dating for heartbreak let that sink in be in a serious relationship a person can become close to you in 3 days and the one who lives near you for years may never know what your favorite color is women do not need to explain anything you always have to act with them being in love is when you want to get old with [Music] someone it’s only terrible to have nothing to wait for it is very clear that the unhappiness of the world is so often brought on by small men a woman should not tell a man that she loves him let her shining Happy Eyes speak about this they are more eloquent than any words a lonely person cannot be abandoned keep things at armis length if you let anything come too near you want to hold on to it and there is nothing a man can hold on to we have so much to say and we shall never say it never stop the other person from talking because the worst thing that could happen to them is you proving them wrong think with your big head not your little one don’t judge anyone based on the rumors that you have heard about them know people by yourself and have your own opinion go for someone you perceive to be out of your league you’ll surprise yourself the clock does not determine when the job is done keep your eyes and ears open and your mouth shut observe for all the information potential means you haven’t done anything yet life can take a loved one at any time so cherish those you love make time for family and friends and tell people you love them often people have to do a lot of stupid to figure out what they really want it is better to die when you want to live than to live before you want to die what you can’t get always seems better than what you have this includes the romance and idiocy of human life strange how complicated we can make things just to avoid showing what we feel anything you can settle with money is [Music] cheap the best way to lose a woman is to show her a kind of life that one could offer her for only a few days a man only begins to be valued when he is no longer there whatever happens to you never take it personally nothing in this world is so important I stood next to her listened to her laughed and thought how terrible it is to love a woman and be poor it is a mistake to assume that all people have the same ability to feel don’t try to fit in where you’re not [Music] wanted there’s no quick and easy way to achieve or attain something valuable and hard-earned anyone else who tells you otherwise is trying to sell you [Music] something save money as soon as you get paid and not what’s left it was a Melancholy secret that reality can arouse desires but never satisfy them if a woman saves money on herself it means that it makes men want to save money on her our knowledge of life is limited to death what Comfort there is in the skin of someone you love good or ill Life Is Life you only realize that when you have to risk it a friend standing behind is worse than an enemy standing in front nothing changes if nothing changes the most important thing you can learn is personal responsibility bad things happen it’s your job to overcome them cooking and cleaning are basic life skills and not a gender role if you can’t take care of yourself you can’t take care of anyone else don’t borrow anything you can’t afford to replace trust is built over the life of a relationship but can be lost in an instant if you’re not careful everyone saves someone at least once just as he kills someone at least once even though he may not know it a woman becomes smarter when she is in love whereas a man loses his mind the things men did or felt they had to [Music] do love should not be polluted with friendship if you’re interested in a girl see what her mother looks like that’s how she will turn out after marriage brush your teeth before before you put on your [Music] tie no job is beneath one’s dignity do not judge a person by their words judge them by their [Music] actions no matter what the circumstance Drive defensively your only goal in driving is to reach the destination safely learn to be content and happy by yourself if you need company to be happy then it will make you weak always go out into public dress like you’re about to meet the love of your life don’t let emotions affect your life no matter if those emotions are your own or someone else’s don’t read a quote and say this is what wise but read a quote and say how can I relate this to my life there are times when you see someone for the last time and don’t even realize it watch out you’ll never know the true value of the moment until it becomes a memory never expect too high the more you expect when it doesn’t meet your expectation the more it’s going to hurt it is indeed very hard to move on but once you do you’ll realize it was your best decision never make a promise you can’t [Music] keep stop letting other people take advantage of you learn to say no and understand your [Music] rights you might might regret your speech but you’ll never regret your silence learn to let go even if you are [Music] right life is a boxing game defeat is not declared when you fall down it is declared when you refuse to get up breathe it’s just a bad day not a bad life things will get better better just wait you will be disappointed and heartbroken multiple times but it’s how you respond that matters don’t let anyone ever make you feel like you don’t deserve what you want no relationship is worth damaging your mental health depend on yourself never on others being too nice breaks you you’ve got to do what’s right for you even if it hurts some people you love the days that break you are the days that make you time never Waits it only urges you to catch up or get left behind trust yourself you’ve survived a lot and you’ll survive whatever is coming you grow mentally weak when your life is too [Music] comfortable sometimes loneliness is the price you pay for growth Embrace every opportunity for regrets come from the chances we didn’t take if you can dream it you can do it you are who you are nobody’s approval is needed learn from what people do not from what they tell you expect nothing and you will never get disappointed stop telling people more than they need to know you meet every single person for a [Music] reason find something you love something you can lean on to something that would keep you going you need something to fall back on when you get depressed nothing is complicated not as much as you assume it’s just your mind playing tricks with you if you get down to it it’s all really simple and clear saying no is important people don’t get offended as much as you think never awaken a woman’s love with no intention of loving her when talking to people look them in the eye and on the face this will make you more confident in front of others time is your most valuable resource there are no refunds or second chances for the time you waste in order to love who you are you cannot hate the experiences that shaped [Music] you be impatient with actions but patient with results remember 5 years ago you dreamed about being where you are now think about it not everybody wants to be your friend and that’s okay you really don’t want everybody as a friend [Music] anyway give back even if it’s donating your tag sale leftovers or handing a dollar bill over to someone less fortunate do it it’ll make you feel good everything happens for a reason always you will look back at your life with much more regret for the things that you didn’t do than for the things that you did things don’t make us happy experiences due do not fear getting hurt you can’t grow if you don’t hurt don’t ruin your health to earn money you will end up spending your money to recover your health and that is not reciprocal be kind to people without allowing them to take advantage of your good nature you came into this huge world alone and will go out of it alone hence you can make any impossible thing possible by yourself only if you punish the truth expect to be lied to efforts never go in vain how others see you is not important how you see yourself means everything the only way to live like a king is to work like a slave just let it be if it’s meant to be it will [Music] happen your past was never a mistake if you learned from it once you feel free someone avoids you never disturb them again perceive failure as a vulnerable teacher and a stepping stone to success celebrate small victories and Milestones because they pave the way for bigger achievements whoever brings you the most peace should get the most time some things are meant to cross your way but are not meant to stay your direction is more important than your speed never fall in love with the same person twice because the second time you fall in love with the memories not the person you need to stop the habit of doubting [Music] yourself you can tell more about a person by what he says about others than you can by what others say about him your heart will tell you where to go your head will guide you there safely use one without the other and you’ll get lost never be afraid to treat people the way they treat [Music] you just be real it saves everyone’s time never think twice about investments in yourself they pay dividends for a long time life will only come around once so do whatever makes you happy you can’t do big things if you are distracted by small things if you’re not happy with yourself you’ll never be happy in a relationship being lonely and being alone are different things overthinking ruins you it ruins the situation twists things around makes you worry about fule questions and makes everything much worse than it actually is just trust your instincts gut feelings can sometimes save you from big troubles you don’t get extra marks for putting up with people you dislike life is unfair don’t moan don’t complain learn to be thick skinned make the most of what you can most people are a complete waste of time a lesson never ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know don’t let people know too much about you you don’t have to be great to start but to become great you just have to start the moment poverty walks in through the door love and peace toss themselves out of the [Music] window keep your mouth shut whenever you are happy keep your mouth shut whenever you are sad stop comparing yourself with those who started 10 years before you focus on your own Journey you can go back and change the beginning but you can start where you are and change the ending don’t be emotionally attached to anyone people change even your best friends May probably turn into strangers one day no one cares except you do what lifts you up in your eyes what people say does not matter if you waste money you can earn it again if you miss the moment it can never be returned live life with open eyes ears and heart strong people are always simple you spend your first 20 years worrying about what people think about you your next 20 years swearing that you don’t care what people think about you and the next 20 years realizing that they aren’t thinking about you think before you act you can take a second to do something you haven’t properly considered that isn’t a true reflection of your character and it can undo a life lifetime of kindness and generosity life gives you lemons pepper salt and sometimes cold water but they don’t come together or in a certain order so keep struggling until the lemonade is [Music] ready if you can do it now you won’t do it ever never let others know know your weaknesses instead always try to show up your [Music] positives don’t tell your friends that you’re happy don’t make them angry don’t tell your enemies that you’re unhappy don’t make them happy time flies one day you are 30 the next you are 50 plan now for what you want 50 to look like regretting won’t change your past and it will end up your future if you continue to do [Music] that don’t make hopes hopes will create expectation and expectation makes you weaker some people just won’t admit they’re wrong don’t waste time trying to get them to accept it sometimes you just have to let stupid people be stupid the walls you build to keep things out are also keeping things in passion is super awesome but it doesn’t cure all your problems passion can go a long way in your life but it doesn’t mean it’s all unicorns and rainbows you are not unique there will always be someone else equally attractive fun and qualified to replace you life is like a book some chapters are sad some are happy but all are necessary for the full story learn how to change a flat tire on your vehicle if you don’t value your time neither will others the strongest people are not those who show strength in front of us but those who fight battles we know nothing about the pain you feel today will be the strength you feel tomorrow turn your wounds into wisdom when writing the story of your life don’t let anyone else hold the pen don’t put off important medical [Music] checkups practice self-compassion we are all human and everyone makes mistakes time heals almost everything give it time a good laugh and a long sleep are the two best cures for anything sometimes you win sometimes you [Music] learn forgiveness is not for the other person it’s for your peace of mind sometimes we’re tested not to show our weaknesses but to discover our strengths the calmer you are the clearer you think learn to cook a few basic dishes it’s a valuable life skill patience is power sometimes you have to let go of something good to make room for something better never tolerate disrespect not even from yourself listen more than you speak for wisdom often comes from Silence create and stick to a personal budget what other people think of you is none of your business kindness is a language that the deaf can hear and the blind can see worrying is like a rocking chair it gives you something to do but gets you [Music] nowhere you can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep rereading the last one the best view comes after the hardest climb courage doesn’t always Roar sometimes it’s the quiet voice at the end of the day saying I will try again tomorrow never lose your sense of humor laughter is the best medicine for the Soul you’ll never find a rainbow if you’re looking down always pay off your credit card debt it’ll save you trouble later the best revenge is massive success the more you give the more you receive the heart that shares is the heart that’s full tough times don’t last but tough people do the most valuable currency is not money but time spend it wisely a ship is safe in Harbor but that’s not what ships are for the way you treat others reflects Who You Are are not who they are it’s not about having what you want but wanting what you have don’t wait for the perfect moment take it and make it perfect believe in yourself and the rest will fall into place don’t be afraid to take risks and try new things like Life’s too short to always play it safe always take responsibility for your actions for it is the mark of a mature [Music] individual take a deep breath it’s just a bad day not a bad life don’t say someday say now for someday may never come donate to charity small acts change lives a person who doesn’t make mistakes doesn’t make anything at all you cannot change the direction of the wind but you can adjust your sails to reach your [Music] destination the only constant in life is change embrace it and you’ll grow say please and thank you often you can’t change the past but can shape your future by learning from [Music] it the heaviest burden we carry is the weight of our expectations it’s better to be alone than in Bad Company when you stop chasing the wrong things the right ones catch up there are no shortcuts to any place worth [Music] going you never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have do not let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do the best way to gain self-confidence is to do what you are afraid to [Music] do a River cuts through Rock not because of its power but because of its persistence there is no elevator to success you have to take the stairs the greatest risk is not taking [Music] one happiness is not something you postpone for the future it is something you design for the [Music] present your life does not get better by chance it gets better by change you are confined only only by the walls you build yourself an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure focus on what you can control and let go of what you cannot take time to enjoy life’s Simple Pleasures it’s in these moments that we often find the most Joy give without expecting anything in return the only time you should ever look back is to see how far you’ve [Music] come you cannot have a positive life and a negative mind doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will in the face of adversity remember that Diamonds Are Made Under Pressure if you get tired learn to rest not to quit do not let the shadows of your past darken the doorstep of your [Music] future do not postpone joy for the sake of the future the tomorrow is promised to no one the first step to getting anywhere is deciding you’re not willing to stay where you are stop wasting time on women don’t chase women instead focus on your growth values and cultivating kindness the right person will find their way to you at the perfect moment without the need for chasing never bend your head always hold it High look the world straight in the eye the true test of a man’s character is what he does when no one is watching you don’t have to win every argument agree to disagree spend time with the elderly their wisdom and experiences are invaluable one day or day one you decide everything will be okay in the end if it’s not okay it’s not the [Music] end you can change other people and it’s rude to try the answer is always no until you ask there are two ways to do things right and again stop expecting others to give you more respect than the respect you give yourself I don’t know the secret to success but the secret to failure is trying to please everyone hope is not a strategy never trust anybody trust is earned not given from the start you’re never too old to cut people out of your [Music] life it takes a long time to realize how truly miserable you are and even longer to realize it doesn’t have to be that way [Music] a wise man can learn more from his enemies than a fool from his friends life gives you lots of chances to screw up which means you have just as many chances to get it right people treating you poorly is a reflection on them not you the people who say you can’t and you won’t are usually the ones scared that you will don’t make yourself available too much for anyone you will lose importance just because the boat rocks doesn’t mean it’s time to jump overboard you’ll have bad times but it’ll always wake you up to the good stuff you weren’t paying attention [Music] to the more you know who you are and what you want the less you let things upset you when you try to please everybody you almost always please nobody if you put your mind to it you can accomplish anything [Music] stop trying to be happy you can be happy all the time and it’s okay once a problem is solved its Simplicity is amazing if you’re trying to break a habit don’t say this is the last time I’m doing it to yourself instead say this is the first time I’m not doing it you don’t like everybody so don’t worry about everybody liking you your past does not equal your future sometimes you can make all the right choices and then have to sit there and watch them all crumble around you you just have to pick up the pieces and keep moving never be so kind you forget to be clever and never be so clever you forget to be kind nothing that life has to offer is worth the price of worry you stop explaining yourself when you realize people only understand from their level of perception someday isn’t even a real day although for some people it’s everyday don’t hang on to your mistakes just because you spent a lot of time making them never take for granted the time you spend with the people you keep it could be over any day Liv in reality as it is not as you wish it was if you expect the world to be fair to you because you are fair that’s like expecting the lion not to eat you because you didn’t eat him don’t focus on Perfection or control you are not in control of anything and there is no such thing as perfection no matter how good a person you are you will always be bad in someone’s story waiting for change while not doing anything for it is like waiting for the train at a bus stop don’t doubt yourself that’s what haters are for to live life you need problems if you get what you want the minute you want it then what’s the point of living don’t take criticism from someone you wouldn’t take advice [Music] from reflection and the gaining of knowledge is power without the means of either you are powerless at some point you will realize no one else has a say in your life unless you let them the cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek say no more than you wish to have said Do no less than what you wish to have done mistakes do not attest to your character your reaction to them does that without you even trying discipline your mind to see the good in every situation and look at the best side of every event stop expecting others to always agree with you ability can take you to the top but it takes character to keep you there everything can be taken from a man but one thing the last of the human freedoms to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances to choose One’s Own Way be prepared to change your ideas about who you want to be this is an important feedback loop as you gain life experience chasing a person doesn’t give you value or build value in you you earn your value by chasing morality and practicing dignity don’t do anything you feel you’d have to lie about later if you are driven by fear anger or Pride nature will force you to compete if you are Guided by courage awareness tranquility and peace nature will serve you you’re going to make a lot of people mad doing what’s right for you any thought you have about the future is a delusion never trust a woman who tells you what you want to hear trust the woman who tells you what you need to hear whatever is causing you worry or pain right now won’t cause you worry or pain forever things change with time and it will pass if you need more than one hand to count your best friends you’re not a great best friend the single most powerful element of you youth is that you don’t have the life experiences to know what can’t be done at some point you just got to forgive the past your happiness hinges on it there are not a lot of things worth caring about the past is a place of reference not a place of residence the past is a place of learning in not a place of living we’re all born with two things borrowed time in varying amounts and the ability to make choices if you wish to know how you’re spending yours observe how others waste their time making wrong choices and don’t repeat them don’t correct people if you could just as easily let it slide you can either be a negative or positive person in life but only one will get you somewhere life doesn’t care about your vision you just got to roll with it nothing happens to anyone that he is not fit by nature to Bear you you will never remember the days and nights you stay home and do nothing it’s never too late to turn your life in a completely new Direction and there is huge importance in just one day lessons in life will be repeated until they are learned you will never be who you want to be until you are happy with who you [Music] are when you get a different vantage point it changes your perspective it allows us to see things that maybe we should have seen a long time ago if you’re right but you’re obnoxious about it people won’t see you as the good guy [Music] courage doesn’t always Roar sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying we’ll try again tomorrow why let go of yesterday because yesterday has already let go of [Music] you don’t spend your life dreaming about what could have been in another place or under different circumstances instead invest your energy in what is right in front of you people often confuse stress with responsibility in this life you don’t have to prove anything to anyone but yourself accept things as they are life isn’t about living in the past or living for the future it’s about living in the now it is not a lack of time it is a lack of priority enjoy every bit of your life to the fullest your compromises and sacrifices will be rewarded no one ever got tired of loving they get tired of waiting hearing lies assum in saying sorry and [Music] hurting never keep people in your life if they don’t love and respect you as much as you do them the reason you want to be better than someone else is the reason why you aren’t it’s not whether or not you get knocked down it’s what you do when you get back up up a man must be big enough to admit his mistakes smart enough to profit from them and strong enough to correct them be the person you needed when you were younger strive to make small changes and learn something new daily because there are always these experiences you have had to tap into for the future someone’s opinion of you doesn’t have to become your reality not everybody who speaks in a pleasant way to you is your friend people are not good people are not bad people are just [Music] people experience don’t expect experience life do not carry expectations on how it should be wanting something is not enough you must hunger for it your motivation must be absolutely compelling in order to overcome the obstacles that will invariably come your way our lives are defined by opportunities even the ones we we miss every person alive hits AC Crossroads in life when you have to let go of the past and Forge ahead into something new the only sad thing would be clinging to the Past once it’s Out Of Reach if you change the way you look at things the things you look at change if you saturate your mind with positive thoughts it will sustain you in any situation you don’t ever truly know another person unless you can take up residence in their head you’ll never be privy to their true nature it is not our abilities that show what we truly are it is our choices you train people how to treat you unconsciously or not you are either part of the problem or part of the solution never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity you’ve got to know when it’s time to turn the page forgiving doesn’t make the person who hurt you feel better it makes you feel better if someone is trying to bring you down it only means you are above them socializing is just like any skill you need to practice before you’re good at it life is brutal and will break your heart and you just have to be brave and do the best you can never deny yourself an experience just because it’s unknown or uncomfortable it may just be a defining and wonderful part of your life never go to the Past not for happiness not for justification not for excuses the world is what it is you are what you are [Music] sometimes the right path is not the easiest one if you only blame your problems on someone else don’t expect your life to get [Music] better life is an experiment in which you may fail or succeed Explore More expect least people don’t forget nothing gets forgiven things are only impossible until they are not each defeat each heartbreak each loss contains its own seed its own lesson on how to improve your future don’t prepare the road for your kids prepare your kids for the road don’t be scared because you don’t have all the answers right away you will learn through your experiences and find your own way to happiness just because you got away with a bad decision it doesn’t make it a good decision speak with caution even if someone forgives harsh words you’ve spoken they may be too hurt to ever forget them don’t leave a legacy of pain and regret of things you never should have said it’s not your fault things are the way they are you need to have faith in yourself be brave and take risks you don’t have to have it all figured out to move forward W accept responsibility for your life know that it is you who will get you where you want to go no one else make improvements not excuses seek respect not attention opportunities can become obstacles the same way obstacles can become opportun ities it all depends on how they are being interpreted by the mind of a person if you’re going to apologize you don’t say but after either you mean it or you don’t there are more things likely to frighten us than to crush us we suffer more often in imagination than in reality all we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us life moves pretty fast if you don’t stop and look around once in a while you could miss it anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured fake love is mighty convincing in a world where real love is mighty rare you can only lose what you cling to if you want to find happiness find gratitude accept that things happen it may not be for a reason and you may have no control over it but the first step to getting through it is accepting what it [Music] is you’ll never be able to please everyone so don’t make your life revolve around being accepted by everyone don’t rely on others to tell you how to be happy or what makes a good life it’s up to you to follow your heart and find happiness from [Music] there sometimes Which choice you make is not as important as making a choice and committing to [Music] it a denied expectation hurts more than a denied hope while a fulfilled hope makes us happier than a fulfilled expectation don’t worry about controlling your emotions control your actions don’t wait for something good to happen realize that there are no participation trophies in life go out and do something for yourself success comes from action there’s no shame in saying I don’t know nobody has all the answers pretending to be perfect doesn’t make you perfect good people always marry wrong people because they see the good in everyone even when it’s not reciprocated listen to your conscience and do the right thing no matter the cost you can’t put a price on self-respect whoever fights can lose whoever doesn’t fight has already [Music] lost we live longer when we are too busy living the problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts while the stupid ones are full of [Music] confidence we don’t even ask for happiness just a little less pain beware of those who seek constant crowds they are nothing [Music] alone if you have the ability to love love yourself first wherever the Crowd Goes run in the other direction they are always wrong some people like what you do some people hate what you do but most people simply don’t give a damn too often the people complain that they have done nothing with their lives and then they wait for somebody to tell them that this isn’t so the crowd is the Gathering Place of the weakest true creation is a solitary Act success is always dangerous it can make a nashole out of anybody if you’re going to try go all the way otherwise don’t even start what matters most is how well you walk through the fire I don’t hate people I I just feel better when they’re not around sometimes you climb out of bed in the morning and you think I’m not going to make it but you laugh inside remembering all the times you felt that way we are here to laugh at the odds and live our lives so well that death will tremble to take us beauty is nothing Beauty won’t stay you don’t know how lucky you are to be ugly because if people like you you know it’s for something else people are strange they are constantly anur by trivial things but on a major matter like totally wasting their lives they hardly seem to notice nobody can save you but yourself and you’re worth saving it’s a war not easily won but if anything is worth winning then this is it of course it’s possible to love a human being if you don’t know them too well bad taste creates many more millionaires than good taste your ambition I is handicapped by laziness there is nothing that teaches you more than regrouping after failure and moving on the less you need the better you feel we’re all going to die all of us what a circus that alone should make us love each other but it doesn’t find what you love and let it kill you things get bad for all of us almost continually and what we do under constant stress reveals who or what we are you have to die a few times before you can really live [Music] real loneliness is not necessarily limited to when you are alone sleeping in the Lion’s Den doesn’t make you a lion there is always one woman to save you from another and as that woman saves you she makes ready to destroy the there are only two things wrong with money too much or too little Simplicity is always the secret to a profound truth to doing things to writing to painting life is profound in its Simplicity can you remember who you were before the world told you who you should be if something burns your soul with purpose and desire it’s your duty to be reduced to ashes by it any other form of existence will be yet another dull book in the library of life nothing is worse than to finish a good than reach over and find the toilet paper container empty even the most horrible human being on Earth deserves to wipe his ass the only time most people think about Injustice is when it happens to them there are worse things than being alone but it often takes decades to realize this and most often when you do it’s too late and there’s nothing worse than too late if you’re losing your soul and you know it then you’ve still got a soul left to lose to truly make a difference in the world start by helping one person at a time anything more grandos than this is either overly idealistic or politically motivated love is a form of prejudice you love what you need you love what makes you feel good you love what is [Music] convenient and why do women always need the husbands of other women and why do horse thieves always prefer a tamed horse to a wild one genius might be the ability to say a profound thing in a simple way [Music] a love is like a serious illness an illness from which you never entirely recover we are like flowers that never took the chance to bloom when we should have and it’s as if life has grown tired of waiting for us when a person thinks deeply and seriously he has a bad time among the general public public a creation of importance can only be produced when its author isolates himself it is a child of solitude the greatest evil that can befall a man is that he should come to think ill of himself our friends show us what we can do our enemies teach us what what we must [Music] do Destiny grants us our wishes but in its own way in order to give us something beyond our wishes do not give in too much to feelings an overly sensitive heart is an unhappy possession on this shaky Earth many people take no care of their money until they come near the end of it and others do the same with their time if you knew how rarely we are understood correctly you would be silent more [Music] often he who moves not forward goes backward you can easily judge a man’s character by how he treats those who can do nothing for him mountains cannot be surmounted except by winding paths what you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your [Music] goals if you treat an individual as he is he will remain how he is but if you treat him as if he were what he ought to be and could be he will become what he ought to be and could be the most ridiculous desire is the desire to please [Music] everybody doubt can only be removed by action too many parents make life hard hard for their children by trying too zealously to make it easy for them Talent is formed in silence character in stormy disturbances of light everything is hard before it is easy if each of us sweeps right under our feet the whole world will be clean give a man a purpose worth living for and he can survive in any situation to be pleased with one’s limits is a wretched State love is an ideal thing marriage a real thing one always has enough time if one applies it well it is better to make an approximately correct decision than a precise mistake what is not started today is never finished tomorrow catch a good mood it so rarely visits us everybody wants to be somebody but nobody wants to grow there are people who never make mistakes because they don’t want to do it nothing is worth more than this day nothing shows a man’s character more than what he laughs at no one knows what his powers are until he uses [Music] them the way you see people is the way you treat them and the way you treat them is what they become true greatness begins with understanding your own insignificance there is no more hopeless slavery than the slavery of those slaves who consider themselves free from Fetters and intelligent person is not the one who knows a lot but the one who knows [Music] himself the best government is that which teaches us to govern ourselves we know accurately only when we know little with knowledge doubt and increases man’s manners are a mirror in which his portrait is reflected whoever wishes to keep a secret must hide the fact that he possesses one ingratitude is a kind of weakness outstanding people are never ungrateful everyone hears only what he [Music] understands go to foreign countries and you will get to know the good things one possesses at home divide and conquer is a wise rule but unite and Lead is even better knowing is not enough we must apply willing is not enough we must [Music] do for a man to achieve all that is demanded of him he must regard himself as greater than he [Music] is a person lives a real life if he is happy with someone else’s happiness as soon as you trust yourself you will know how to live the greatest thing in this world is not so much where we stand as in what direction we are moving art is the mediator of what cannot be said we all live upon the past and through the past we are destroyed the longer you live alone the less the crowd appeals the less you need others to fill the silence the more you find peace in solitude’s Whispers correction does much but encouragement does more I can tell you honest friend what to believe believe life it teaches better than a book or orator of all the thieves idiots are the most harmful they steal our time and mood from us someone despises me that’s their problem realize that you have something in you more powerful and miraculous than the things that affect you and make you dance like a [Music] puppet no carelessness in my actions no confusion in my words no imprecision in my thoughts no matter what anyone says or does my task is to be good not to be driven this way and that but always to behave with Justice and see things as they are not to assume it’s impossible because you find it hard but to recognize that if it’s humanly possible you can do it too do not let others hold you back the object of life is not to be on the side of the majority but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane limit yourself to the present the first rule is to keep an untroubled Spirit the second is to look things in the face and know them for what they [Music] are never esteem anything as of advantage to you that will make you break your word or lose your self-respect receive without Pride let go without attachment you have power over your mind not outside events realize this and you will find [Music] strength be tolerant with others and strict with yourself get busy with life’s purpose toss aside empty hopes and get active in your own rescue everything is born from change stop allowing your mind to be a slave to be jerked about by selfish impulses to kick against fate in the present and to mistrust the future the responsibility is all mine no one can stop me from being honest or straight forward think of yourself as dead you have lived your life now take what’s left and live it [Music] properly learn to be indifferent to what makes no difference the struggle is great the task Divine to gain Mastery Freedom happiness and tranquility it’s courtesy and kindness that Define me today I escaped anxiety or no I discarded it because it was Within Me In My Own perceptions not outside there is nowhere that a person can find a more peaceful and trouble-free Retreat than in his own mind so constantly give yourself this Retreat and renew yourself true Good Fortune is what you make for yourself good fortune good character good intentions and good actions anywhere can lead your life I can lead a good one when I do help others or help them to do something I’m doing what I was designed for think about the expanse of time and how brief almost momentary the part marked for you think of the workings of fate and how infinitesimal your role is the responsibility is all mine no one can stop me from being honest or straightforward to love only what happens no greater Harmony the happiness of my life depends upon the quality of my thoughts there is a limit to the time assigned you and if you don’t use it to free yourself it will be gone and never return there is never any need to get worked up or to trouble your soul about things you can’t control these things are not asking to be judged by you leave them [Music] alone why should you feel anger at the world as if the world would notice be like the cliff against which the waves continually break but it stands firm and tames the fury of the water around it if it is not right do not do it if it is not true do not say it if you are distressed by anything external the pain is not due to the thing itself but to your estimate of it and this you have the power to revoke at any moment your days are numbered use them to throw open the windows of your soul to the sun if you do not the sun will soon set and you with it the best revenge is not to be like your enemy do not indulge in dreams of having what you have not but reckon up the chief of the blessings you do possess and then thankfully remember how you would crave for them if they were not yours [Music] the things you think about determine the quality of your mind your soul takes on the color of your thoughts because a thing seems difficult for you do not think it impossible for anyone to accomplish never remind people about your yourself because those who value you remember and the rest doesn’t matter harmed choose not to be and you won’t feel harmed don’t feel harmed and you haven’t been do not act as if you were going to live 10,000 years death hangs over you while you live while it is in your power be good it is not death that a man should fear but he should fear never beginning to live here is a rule to remember in the future when anything tempts you to feel bitter not this is Misfortune but to bear this worthily is good fortune when you arise in the morning think of what a privilege it is to be alive to think to enjoy to love

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