Ignore These Life Lessons to Be Miserable for the Rest of Your Life (like I did)


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everything will be okay in the end if it’s not okay it’s not the [Music] end you can change other people and it’s rude to try the answer is always no until you ask there are two ways to do things right and again stop expecting others to give you more respect than the respect you give yourself I don’t know the secret to success but the secret to failure is trying to please everyone hope is not a strategy never trust anybody trust is earned not given from the start you’re never too old to cut people out of your [Music] life it takes a long time to realize how truly miserable you are and even longer to realize it doesn’t have to be that [Music] way a wise man can learn more from his enemies than a fool from his friends life gives you lots of chances to screw up which means you have just as many chances to get it right people treating you poorly is a reflection on them not [Music] you the people who say you can’t and you won’t are usually the ones scared that you will [Music] don’t make yourself available too much for anyone you will lose importance just because the boat rocks doesn’t mean it’s time to jump overboard you’ll have bad times but it’ll always wake you up to the good stuff you weren’t paying attention [Music] to the more more you know who you are and what you want the less you let things upset you when you try to please everybody you almost always please nobody if you put your mind to it you can accomplish [Music] anything stop trying to be happy you can be happy all the time and it’s okay once a problem is solved its Simplicity is amazing if you’re trying to break a habit don’t say this is the last time I’m doing it to yourself instead say this is the first time I’m not doing it you don’t like everybody so don’t worry about everybody liking you your past does not equal your future sometimes you can make all the right choices and then have to sit there and watch them all crumble around you you just have to pick up the pieces and keep moving never be so kind you forget to be cever and never be so clever you forget to be kind nothing that life has to offer is worth the price of worry you stop explaining yourself when you realize people only understand from their level of perception someday isn’t even a real day although for some people it’s everyday don’t don’t hang on to your mistakes just because you spent a lot of time making them never take for granted the time you spend with the people you keep it could be over any day live in reality as it is not as you wish it was if you expect the world to be fair to you because you are fair that’s like expecting the lion not to eat you because you didn’t eat him don’t focus on Perfection or control you are not in control of anything and there is no such thing as Perfection no matter how good a person you are you will always be bad in someone’s story waiting for change while not doing anything for it is like waiting for the train at a bus stop don’t doubt yourself that’s what haters are for to live life you need problems if you get what you want the minute you want it then what’s the point of living don’t take criticis ISM from someone you wouldn’t take advice [Music] from reflection and the gaining of knowledge is power without the means of either you are powerless at some point you will realize no one else has a say in your life unless you let them the cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek say no more than you wish to have said Do no less than what you wish to have done mistakes do not attest to your character your reaction to them does that without you even trying discipline your mind to see the good in every situation and look at the best side of every event stop expecting others to always agree with you ability can take you to the top but it takes character to keep you there everything can be taken from a man but one thing the last of the human freedoms to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances to choose One’s Own Way be prepared to change your ideas about who you want to be this is an important feedback loop as you gain life experience chasing a person doesn’t give you value or build value in you you earn your value by chasing morality and practicing dignity don’t do anything you feel you’d have to lie about later if you are driven by fear anger or Pride nature will force you to compete if you are Guided by courage awareness tranquility and peace nature will serve you you’re going to make a lot of people mad doing what’s right for you any thought you have about the future is a delusion never trust a woman who tells you what you want to hear trust the woman who tells you what you need to hear whatever is causing you worry or pain right now won’t cause you worry or pain forever things change with time and it will pass if you need more than one hand to count your best friends you’re not a great best friend the single most powerful element of Youth is that you don’t have the life experiences to know what can’t be done at some some point you just got to forgive the past your happiness hinges on it there are not a lot of things worth caring about the past is a place of reference not a place of residence the past is a place of learning not a place of living we’re all born with two things borrowed time in varying amounts and the ability to make choices if you wish to know how you’re spending yours observe how others waste their time making wrong choices and don’t repeat them don’t correct people if you could just as easily let it slide you can either be a negative or positive person in life but only one will get you somewhere [Music] life doesn’t care about your vision you just got to roll with it nothing happens to anyone that he is not fit by nature to Bear you will never remember the days and nights you stay home and do nothing it’s never too late to turn your life in a completely new Direction and there is huge importance in just one day lessons in life will be repeated until they are learned you will never be who you want to be until you are happy with who you [Music] are when you get a different vantage point it changes your your perspective it allows us to see things that maybe we should have seen a long time ago if you’re right but you’re obnoxious about it people won’t see you as the good [Music] guy courage doesn’t always Roar sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying we’ll try again tomorrow why let go of yesterday because yesterday has already let go of [Music] you don’t spend your life dreaming about what could have been in another place or under different circumstances instead invest your energy in what is right in front of you people often confuse stress with responsibility in this life you don’t have to prove anything to anyone but yourself accept things as they are life isn’t about living in the past or living for the future it’s about living in the now it is not a lack of time it is a lack of priority enjoy every bit of your life to the fullest your compromises and sacrifices will be rewarded no one ever got tired of loving they get tired of waiting hearing lies assuming saying sorry and [Music] hurting never keep people in your life if they don’t love and respect respect you as much as you do them the reason you want to be better than someone else is the reason why you aren’t it’s not whether or not you get knocked down it’s what you do when you get back up a man must be big enough to admit his mistakes smart enough to profit from them and strong enough enough to correct them be the person you needed when you were younger strive to make small changes and learn something new daily because there are always these experiences you have had to tap into for the future someone’s opinion of you doesn’t have to become your reality [Music] not everybody who speaks in a pleasant way to you is your friend people are not good people are not bad people are just [Music] people experience don’t expect experience life do not carry expectations on how it should be [Music] wanting something is not enough you must hunger for it your motivation must be absolutely compelling in order to overcome the obstacles that will invariably come your way our lives are defined by opportunities even the ones we miss every person alive hits a Crossroads in life when you have to let go of the past and Forge ahead into something new the only sad thing would be clinging to the Past once it’s Out Of Reach if you change the way you look at things the things you look at change if you saturate your mind with positive thoughts it will sustain you in any situation [Music] you don’t ever truly know another person unless you can take up residence in their head you’ll never be privy to their true nature it is not our abilities that show what we truly are it is our choices you train people how to treat you unconsciously or not you you are either part of the problem or part of the solution never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity you’ve got to know when it’s time to turn the page forgiving doesn’t make the person who hurt you feel better it makes you feel better if someone is trying to bring you down it only means you are above them socializing is just like any skill you need to practice before you’re good at it life is brutal and will break your heart and you just have to be brave and do the best you can never deny yourself an experience just because it’s unknown or uncomfortable it may just be a defining and wonderful part of your life never go to the Past not for happiness not for justification not for excuses the world is what it is you are what you [Music] are sometimes the right path is not the easiest one if you only blame your problems on someone else don’t expect your life to get [Music] better life is an experiment in which you may fail or succeed Explore More expect least people don’t forget nothing gets forgiven things are only impossible until they are not each defeat each heartbreak each loss contains its own seed its own lesson on how to improve your future don’t prepare the road for your kids prepare your kids for the road don’t be scared because you don’t have all the answers right away you will learn through your experiences and find your own way to happiness just because you got away with a bad decision it doesn’t make it a good decision speak with caution even if someone forgives harsh words you’ve spoken they may be too hurt to ever forget them don’t leave a legacy of pain and regret of things you never should have said it’s not your fault things are the way they are you need to have faith in yourself be brave and take risks you don’t have to have it all figured out to move forward accept responsibility for your life know that it is you who will get you where you want to go no one else make improvements not excuses seek respect not attention opportunities can become obstacles the same way obstacles can become opportunities it all depends on how they are being interpreted by the mind of a person if you’re going to apologize you don’t say but after either you mean it or you don’t there are more things likely to frighten us than to crush us we suffer more often in imagination than in reality all we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us life moves pretty fast if you don’t stop and look around once in a while you could miss it anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured fake love is mighty convincing in a world where real love is mighty rare you can only lose what you cling to if you want to find happiness find gratitude except that things happen it may not be for a reason and you may have no control over it but the first step to getting through it is accepting what it is [Music] you’ll never be able to please everyone so don’t make your life revolve around being accepted by everyone don’t rely on others to tell you how to be happy or what makes a good life it’s up to you to follow your heart and find happiness from [Music] there sometimes Which choice you make is not as important is making a choice and committing to [Music] it a denied expectation hurts more than a denied hope while a fulfilled hope makes us happier than a fulfilled expectation don’t worry about controlling your emotions control your actions don’t wait for something good to happen realize that there are no participation trophies in life go out and do something for yourself success comes from action there’s no shame in saying I don’t know nobody has all the answers pretending to be perfect doesn’t make you perfect good people always marry wrong people because they see the good in everyone even when it’s not reciprocated listen to your conscience and do the right thing no matter the cost you can’t put a price on self-respect whoever fights can lose whoever doesn’t fight has already [Music] lost we live longer when we are too busy living the problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts while the stupid ones are full of [Music] confidence we don’t even ask for happiness just a little less pain beware of those who seek constant crowds they are nothing alone if you have the ability to love love yourself first wherever the Crowd Goes run in the other direction they are always wrong some people like what you do some people hate what you do but most people simply don’t give a damn too often the people complain that they have done nothing with their lives and then they wait for somebody to tell them that this isn’t so the crowd is the Gathering Place of the weakest true creation is a solitary act success is always dangerous it can make a nashole out of anybody if you’re going to try go all the way otherwise don’t even start what matters most is how well you walk through the fire I don’t hate people I just feel better when they’re not around sometimes you climb out of bed in the morning and you think I’m not going to make it but you laugh inside remembering all the times you felt that way we are here to laugh at the odds and live our lives so well that death will tremble to take us beauty is nothing Beauty won’t stay you don’t know how lucky you are to be ugly because if people like you you know it’s for something else people are strange they are constantly anur by trivial things but on a major matter like totally wasting their lives they hardly seem to notice nobody can save you but yourself and you’re worth saving it’s a war not easily won but if anything is worth winning then this is it of course it’s possible to love a human being if you don’t know them too well bad taste creates many more millionaires than good taste your ambition is handicapped by laziness there is nothing that teaches you more than regroup in after failure and moving on the less you need the better you feel we’re all going to die all of us what a circus that alone should make us love each other but it doesn’t find what you love and let it kill you things get bad for all of us almost continually and what we do under constant stress reveals who or what we are you have to die a few times before you can really live real loneliness is not necessarily limited to when you are alone sleeping in the Lion’s Den doesn’t make you a lion there is always one woman to save you from another and as that woman saves you she makes ready to destroy there are only two things wrong with money too much or too little Simplicity is all always the secret to a profound truth to doing things to writing to painting life is profound in its Simplicity can you remember who you were before the world told you who you should be if something burns your soul with purpose and desire it’s your duty to be reduced to ashes by it any other form of existence will be yet another dull book in the library of life nothing is worse than to finish a good than reach over and find the toilet paper container empty even the most horrible human being on Earth deserves to wipe his ass the only time most people think about Injustice is when it happens to them there are worse things than being alone but it often takes decades to realize this and most often when you do it’s too late and there’s nothing worse than too late if you’re losing your soul and you know it then you’ve still got a soul left to lose to truly make a difference in the world start by helping one person at a time anything more grandiose than this is either overly idealistic or politically motivated love is a form of prejudice you love what you need you love what makes you feel good you love what is [Music] convenient and why do women always need the husbands of other women and why do horse thieves always prefer a tamed horse to a wild one genius might be the ability to say a profound thing in a simple [Music] way a love is like a serious illness an illness from which you never entirely recover [Music] we are like flowers that never took the chance to bloom when we should have and it’s as if life has grown tired of waiting for us when a person thinks deeply and seriously he has a bad time among the general public a creation of importance can only be produced when its author isolates himself it is a child of solitude the greatest evil that can befall a man is that he should come to think ill of himself our friends show us what we can do our enemies teach us what we must [Music] do Destiny grants us our wishes but in its own way in order to give us something beyond our wishes do not give in too much to feelings an overly sensitive heart is an unhappy possession on this shaky Earth many people take no care of their money until they come near the end of it and others do the same with their time if you knew how rarely we are understood correctly you would be silent more [Music] often he who moves not forward goes backward you can easily judge a man’s character by how he treats those who can do nothing for him mountains cannot be surmounted except by winding paths what you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your [Music] goals if you treat an individual as he is he will remain how he is but if you treat him as if he were what he ought to be and could be he will become what he ought to be and could be the most ridiculous desire is the desire to please [Music] everybody doubt can only be removed by action too many parents make life hard for their children by trying too zealously to make it easy for them Talent is formed in silence character in stormy disturbances of light everything is hard before it is easy if each of us sweeps right under our feet the whole world will be clean give a man a purpose worth living for and he can survive in any situation to be pleased with one’s limits is a wretched State love is an ideal thing marriage a real thing one always has enough time if one applies it well it is better to make an approximately correct decision than a precise mistake what is not started today is never finished tomorrow catch a good mood it so rarely visits [Music] us everybody wants to be somebody but nobody wants to grow there are people who never make mistakes because they don’t want to do it nothing is worth more than this day nothing shows a man’s character more than what he laughs at no one knows what his powers are until he uses [Music] them the way you see people is the way you treat them and the way you treat them is what they become true greatness begins with understanding your own insignificance there is no more hopeless slavery than the slavery of those slaves who consider themselves free from fets an intelligent person is not the the one who knows a lot but the one who knows [Music] himself the best government is that which teaches us to govern ourselves we know accurately only when we know little with knowledge doubt increases man’s manners are a mirror in which his portrait is reflected whoever wishes to keep a secret must hide the fact that he possesses one ingratitude is a kind of weakness outstanding people are never ungrateful everyone hears only what he [Music] understands go to foreign countries and you will get to know the good things one possesses at home divide and conquer is a wise rule but unite and Lead is even better knowing is not enough we must apply willing is not enough we must [Music] do for a man to achieve all that is demanded of him he must regard himself as greater than he [Music] is a person lives a real life if he is happy with someone else’s happiness as soon as you trust yourself you will know how to live the greatest thing in this world is not so much where we stand as in what direction we are moving art is the mediator of what cannot be said we all live upon the past and through the past we are destroyed the longer you live alone the less the crowd appeals the less you need others to fill the silence the more you find peace in solitude’s Whispers correction does much but encouragement does more I can tell you honest friend what to believe believe life it teaches better than a book or orator of all the thieves idiots are the most harmful they steal our time and mood from us someone despises me that’s their problem realize that you have something in you more powerful and miraculous than the things that affect you and make you dance like a [Music] puppet no carelessness in my actions no confusion in my words no imprecision in my thoughts no matter what anyone says or does my task is to be good not to be driven this way and that but always to behave with Justice and see things as they are not to assume it’s impossible because you find it hard but to recognize that if it’s humanly possible you can do it too do not let others hold you back the object of life is not to be on the side of the majority but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane limit yourself to the present the first rule is to keep an untroubled Spirit the second is to look things in the face and know them for what they [Music] are never esteem anything as of advantage to you that will make you break your word or lose your self-respect receive without Pride let go without attachment you have power over your mind not outside events realize this and you will find [Music] strength be tolerant with others and strict with yourself get busy with life’s purpose toss aside empty hopes and get active in your own rescue everything is born from change stop allowing your mind to be a slave to be jerked about by selfish impulses to kick against fate in the present and to mistrust the future the responsibility is all mine no one can stop me from being honest or straightforward think of yourself as dead you have lived your life now take what left and live it [Music] properly learn to be indifferent to what makes no difference the struggle is great the task Divine to gain Mastery Freedom happiness and Tranquility its courtesy and kindness that Define me today I escaped anxiety or no I discarded it because it was Within Me In My Own perceptions not outside there is nowhere that a person can find a more peaceful and trouble-free Retreat than in his own mind so constantly give yourself this Retreat and renew yourself true Good Fortune is what you make for yourself good fortune good character good intentions and good actions anywhere can lead your life I can lead a good one when I do help others or help them to do something I’m doing what I was designed [Music] for think about the expanse of time and how brief almost momentary the part marked for you think of the workings of fate and how infinitesimal your role is the responsibility is all mine no one can stop me from being honest or straightforward to love only what happens no greater Harmony the happiness of my life depends upon the quality of my thoughts there is a limit to the time assigned you and if you don’t use it to free yourself it will be gone and never return there is never any need to get worked up or to trouble your soul about things you can’t control these things are not asking to be judged by you leave them alone why should you feel anger at the world as if the world would notice be like the cliff against which the waves continually break but it stands firm and tames the fury of the water around it if it is not right do not do it if it is not true do not say it [Music] if you are distressed by anything external the pain is not due to the thing itself but to your estimate of it and this you have the power to revoke at any moment your days are numbered use them to throw open the windows of your soul to the sun if you do not the sun will soon set and you with it the best revenge is not to be like your enemy do not indulge in dreams of having what you have not but reckon up the chief of the blessings you do possess and then thankfully remember how you would crave for them if they were not [Music] yours the things you think about determine the quality of your mind your your soul takes on the color of your thoughts because a thing seems difficult for you do not think it impossible for anyone to accomplish never remind people about yourself because those who value you remember and the rest doesn’t matter harmed choose not to be and you won’t feel harmed don’t feel harmed and you haven’t been do not act as if you were going to live 10,000 years death hangs over you while you live while it is in your power be good it is not death that a man should fear but he should fear never beginning to live here is a rule to remember in the future when anything tempts you to feel bitter not this is Misfortune but to bear this worthily is good fortune when you arise in the morning think of what a privilege it is to be alive to think to enjoy to love

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