IT’S OKAY TO BE ALONE — Most Powerful Motivational Speech


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be alone it’s okay to be alone people get freaked out when they’re alone it’s okay to be alone it’s okay it’s okay to be alone there’s no big deal enjoy it do something productive and build that trust up in yourself you know look back at the situation learn from it start with yourself right rely on yourself trust yourself because we when when someone breaks our trust we we we question ourselves too yes like we think our my judgment’s bad I’m not a good judge of human character because I totally put my faith in this person look what they did to me so now we don’t trust her so you gotta build that trust up you got to build that trust up back again with yourself how do you do that read write learn work out and then look for them next time around because you deal with people all the time that they they made mistakes the first run they go back they make the same mistakes the second run they go back and make the same mistakes the Third Run that’s when you gotta start blaming yourself yeah on your situation that’s why that’s why I said you got to like build a relationship with yourself you gotta learn yourself you gotta trust you got to learn to trust yourself so spend some time doing that there’s a process to all this stuff man the process starts with you gotta shut off technology yeah go here I call it the dark room where you’re alone no cell phones no music no TVs no computers you buy yourself very few people want to be alone anymore they want to be around no ways and you can’t think be alone go that dark space in that dark space shut life off for a little bit go to a dark place in your mind and figure out what you want to be you don’t know what you don’t want because you don’t know what you want to be because you haven’t spent time Real Time with yourself spend time with yourself trust me and once you find that passion that purpose your goals your purpose everything when they start lining up when I was growing up there was this statement I think it was Pascal he said you know all of man’s problems arise because he cannot sit by himself in a room for 30 minutes alone and it’s very true I’ve always needed to be stimulated and when the iPhone came along boredom was dead I would never be bored again even if I’m standing in line I’m on my iPhone and I thought it was great and when I was a kid I used to try and overclock my brain be like how many thoughts can I think at once the answer is only one but I would try to like think multiple thoughts at once and I was proud of that I was proud that my brain was always running this engine was always moving and it’s a disease it’s actually the road to misery and now that I’m older I realize like you actually want to again rest your mind you want to learn how to settle into your mind now I look forward to solitary confinement you leave me alone for a day it’ll be like the happiest day I’ve had in a while and and that is a superpower that I think everybody can attain the superpower of learning to be alone and enjoying it yeah I know people who lives have been ruined because somebody wasn’t good for them see there are some people that aren’t good for you hello they aren’t good for you you’ve got to get them out of your life see a lot of people put up with a lot of foolishness because they don’t want to die by themselves here’s what I believe I believe in a one to a box Theory ask this question of yourself make a list of who you communicate with most and ask yourself the question what kind of person am I becoming because of this relationship is it helping me to grow mental and emotionally and spiritually am I becoming a better person because of this relationship do they bring out the best in me do they inspire me do they encouraged me to develop my greatness do they make me stretch see you got to look at the people in your life and find out what kind of person are you becoming because of that relationship my mother used to say birds of a feather flock together you run around with losers you will end up a loser straight up move forget them they are lying and they are untrustworthy so move on now sometimes this can be hard especially if they’ve somehow tied themselves into your life especially like for instance kids involved in a divorce scenario you you can’t move on but you have to mentally move on you have to emotionally detach from that human and that’s hard to do because obviously they were someone that you trusted be and the reason I know that you trusted them is because they got to a point where they were able to betray your trust and destroy you so it’s hard but the fact that they trust that you trusted them the fact that you had that relationship that’s even more reason to walk away it’s even more reason to move on you gotta see them for what they are that person is not who you thought they were the idea that this person was a trustworthy faithful companion is not true it is not true that person does not exist they didn’t exist and they don’t exist it was in your head it was in your head that this person was trustworthy and you the they were everything you wanted them to be and they were faithful commanded that is a lie they are not that person they’ve proved it by their actions so move on and at the risk of sounding callous get over it do not dwell on do not dwell on on what it was and don’t dwell on what it could have been you you’re when guys go through bad breakups don’t dwell on that deal with what it is right now what that person is deal with reality accept reality and be be thankful for reality be thankful that you were able to learn before you invested more into this person be thankful that you found out when you did that this person was a liar that this person was unfaithful is untrustworthy be be thankful that you know it and you know it now instead of later and you know what else is going to make it a lot easier to get over these situations is recognize that there’s plenty of people out there in the world that are trustworthy and that are faithful good people they’re out there go find one of them but don’t think that that person that you had was the only one in the world they’re not it’s great when people believe in US cheer us on make us feel valuable we love when our spouse compliments us a friend is there to give encouragement our co-worker stays late to help us on the project God uses people to help move us toward our destiny but here’s the key you can’t become so dependent on people that you’re getting your worth and value out of how they treat you it’s easy to become addicted to compliments addicted to encouragement addicted to them cheering you on now you rely on them to keep you feeling good about yourself to always be there to validate you to make you feel approved like a drug if they don’t keep you fixed meet all your expectations you get discouraged feel inferior work overtime to try to win their approval the problem is you’re trying to get from people what only God can give your worth your value doesn’t come from another person it comes from your creator if you rely on people you’ll be disappointed people will let you down people will get busy and not be there when you need it sometimes people will even turn on you some of you you are taking too much time trying to convince people to love you that do not matter some of you are taking way too much time tolerating and trying to get people engaged that don’t matter that don’t care that are never ever going to help you get into your destiny sand you this week if somebody can walk away from your life let them walk away you shouldn’t have to convince anybody to love you if they can walk let them go if they leave you it means they’re not attached to your future we spend so much time wasting energy because we’re so upset about being rejected by people what if I told you that some of the rejection you have been facing in your life it’s because people are jealous of what’s on your life what if I told you that the rejection is simply an indication that you got favor on your life God is getting ready to do something in your life you just got to understand there’s more to know we live in an external world everything is is you got to see it touch it it’s external if you can for the rest of your life live inside of yourself listen to people who are calling you fat gay transect everything that is makes no sense all these insecure people putting their insecurities on you you gotta flush it out you gotta just be whoever the hell God or whoever the hell you believe in if you believe in nothing but yourself I don’t care what it is you got to take everything and throw it away you have to believe in one thing and that is yourself and and I’m not saying don’t believe in God or what you believe in but right now for you to find greatness in yourself you’re not going to find it by looking in a book or by even hearing me I may give you the spark but you’ve got to go inside yourself to find it and that means you gotta be quiet shut the go in a room stop talking search your soul search your mind search your abilities and you’ll find it but if you’re not looking for it you won’t find it so you got to go start your journey and the journey starts with you finding why the hell am I here on this planet Earth why am I here if you don’t know that you will live the rest of your life searching always asking the question why [Music]

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  1. I'm alone every night, and it's always a time that I look forward to. People who are more intelligent than others are almost always alone, because they're doing their best when they're alone. A good section of the day I'm usually alone, doing what I do. Occasionally, I have a family member will show up, and we chat for a time, cause I trust this person, they're someone I know, and they usually leave me alone, cause I'm doing what I do. What I choose to do. Whether it's playing GTA V for my 800+ followers on PS4, (doing that today, and likely finishing the playthrough) or whatever else I'm doing. I do things best when I'm alone. Concentrating, thinking, working on a task to be done.

  2. This is truly one of the most powerful motivational speeches I've ever heard! 💪 It's an important reminder that being alone can actually be a strength and help us grow as individuals. 🌱 Embrace solitude, focus on self-improvement, and become the best version of ourselves! 🚀 #ItsOkayToBeAlone

  3. Yea, it's ok to be alone. Once I love being in a big circles unfortunately after a lots of experiences I came to knew that this was bullshit. Fortunately staying alone is peaceful and comfortable.