When Abused Boyfriends Realized They’ve Been Rescued

I did not invite you in off then don’t come in my home get under there let’s go this is what happens when abusive relationships take a different turn these women thought they were in control but what happens when law enforcement steps in and flips the script from domestic disputes to Violent confrontations here are instances where abused boyfriends realized they had been rescued on the 11th of March 2021 in Florida the police responded to a disturbance at a parking lot where a domestic battery was taking place 0 686 x-ray Fox shot 0686 what’s going on guys just just want to be loud and be extra can you step out talk to me sir please um he broke what’s going on I a’t broke it I B it here let’s go over here and talk we got in a big argument she told me start the car so she can get out okay I pulled over to do that and now it’s escalating to more okay I got punched in the face a couple times on video where she just being loud being extra okay so what how did this start like what was the very first thing we was just going to eat she got frustrated we down there here let’s turn around this what you talk to about just so you guys aren’t getting more mad at each other she’s pregnant okay I see that here you look at me this way we was going to eat M of course she F to lie but I’mma show you the video okay she grabbing my gun and everything from out the seat and all can can I secure that in my you can but make sure you get back cuz it’s Casino it’s clean and everything do you have okay here walk over here with me do you have any other weapons on you no no any weapons in the car no and we got the video right here all right let me check out your uh concealed permit really quick I’m going to take this out throwing all my stuff trying to break my window all right you mind if I take it out yeah look at that all right I’m going to hold on to this while you show me the video I’ll give it back now so basically all I’m saying what this will happen we’re going to eat she get frustrated by whatever she aggravated by then she tell me take her stop at a store I’m like why would I take you to a store out here and pull over for you to get I just want to get out I just want to get out yelling yelling yelling fussing all that so I say okay she you got to think about it too as human beings if I’m driving a car and I’m getting punched in the face what am I going to do in traffic so she punched you first she punched me a couple times all it’s no because this be aggravating and it’s always they want to try to go back on the dude and make him seem this bad person I’m not making that like that at all not you I’m just saying in general because the situation that’s occurring I got you okay so I’m coming to turn punch you in the face yeah she punched me in the face and then what happen so I’m coming to turn right here to pull over I’m coming to turn and pull over so I can basically let out you want to get out I get right here I done got hit three or four times I hold her finger her finger was some kind of way on my face or something but it stud me she like grabbing you on your face instead of me like jabbing her whatever Clos you know it’s a reaction I kind of like nipped the finger with my you know to you didn’t like Chomp on him no I ain’t Chomp it’s just like this time that’s the only way think about it your finger can’t get bit if it ain’t by the mouth so if it’s by the mouth and you grabing that’s what’s going to kind of happen I got so I say go ahead if you want to get out like you saying go ahead get out what you want to argue and go back and forth to get out the car for right and that’s what it turned to hitting the windshield with the brush you hit it with a lock I threw the phone down her phone I threw it on she threw the brush or you did no she was hitting the windshield with the brush and with the lock I threw the phone down because she trying to damage the car or whatever okay but I ain’t physically heit her or nothing just like I said basically just defending myself doing this getting punched in the face all that and it turn it this do you need EMS no I’m fine I let me let me see your face you got any like marks or anything she just it just punched it ain’t really too much but I’m good it was a oh is that blood right here it might be hers I don’t know off her finger or something that you better it started bleeding her finger her finger bleeding I know my finger bleeding a little bit from something I don’t know but okay let me see your hands this way you don’t know what that’s from upon arriving at the scene officers found McDaniels aggressively assaulting her boyfriend Randolph she was seen repeatedly striking him in the face and battering him with her bag while they were driving I don’t really know it could be My Nail probably cracked or something like that I don’t really know okay let me see this video come yeah go ahead go ahead I’m telling her to get out the car plenty time and this this this this when I pulled the phone out cuz all the stuff she’s already started doing but she got to the front window trying to hit it with the brush and a lock and all that he man just being extra over food man 21 105 101 got over food we shouldn’t even be 105 we 104 then that’s what they threaten you with after they do all the extra stuff they do they threaten you with the cops and you see it in the what is you doing is that doing something to you right there I can’t 200 how long have you guys been together for over a year over you guys live together yes okay do you have your regular ID on you my driving license yes sir see they going they going to blame you in the end see what I’m saying now I’m a man that you want to cry do all that 10 5753 see they want to blame you for after OPD your current address the r but that’s not where we stay at though okay I’ll get that from you in a second 105 on three 105 1065 29p by DL number and place in the call please 65 Romeo 5341 1388 2860 should come back back to a Cedric Randolph blackmail all right do you mind just hanging out right here I’m going to talk to the other officer look be look look this is is this after no that’s the same video just showing you she trying to hit what is that in your hand that’s your car right car to you hitting with a law you hitting with you just doing so 105 10 Cedric Maurice Rand has a valid Class C is 1054 1029 26 thank you so did she make any threats towards you like just man just she talking a lot of junk like I said I pulled over just like she wanted me to do I pulled over and me pulling over and go to more stuff now just like I’m telling you if she pregnant I’m man why am I going to physically go at her no I know you yelling at me I don’t think we got any information and all that like so who called somebody in the parking lot it wasn’t you guys right I I don’t think it was us apparently a concerned witness had observed the violent outburst and immediately alerted the authorities prompting a swift response from the police um do you guys have kids together n this going to be the first one okay all right hold tight for one second I’m going to talk to this officer all right they were arguing say channel one he told me it was about food going to restaurant okay she didn’t tell me where it was but they were arguing um he started driving real fast okay and she told him she wanted to get out of the car because she’s pregnant okay she wanted to get out of the car and and he’s like you’re going to get out of the car and hang out right there for one second some get my we will hang on one second do up and um he started driving erratically and she told him she wanted to get up and he would not let her out okay so when they finally stopped tried she tried to get out and she grabbed her purse okay and yanked it off her hands and ripped two of her nails oh God she has like the acrylic nails two of them were ripped top she has blood on her finger she I asked her if she need EMS she said no I just gave her a napkin okay and after that just just they stopped there and then we pulled up okay and I told him that we were here because somebody said that you guys were kind of tusting yeah okay um he said basically the same thing except when he was driving to go to stop to pull over she smacked him in the face and had her hand like all in his face and then he said he might have bit her finger cuz it was just like she was just pulling on it she she didn’t mention anything about hitting like the ass or did he put his hands on you she he said that she smacked him in the face and did all that does he have any he doesn’t have many injuries he has a little blood on his shoulder but he said that could be from her finger yeah um cuz she has on her dress on on the purse you can see on the purse like yeah and then he said when they stopped she started yanking on everything got out was trying to smash the window with the brush which she does have a video of she was doing that mentioned that um they do live together and that is their child together their child together yeah yeah I I said that too yeah um that’s know it’s uh but he doesn’t have any injuries on yeah and he broke her phone which is on the ground and the screen you can even just shattered yeah she’s telling me that the phone that he has she pays for it as well that’s her that she wants it back that’s what she was saying I want my phone back because she for she pays for it okay and she just wants to go it’s one of those things you know is uh he doesn’t have any marks she’s claiming he’s claiming he hit her she said she didn’t put her hands on him and he didn’t put hands on her it was just when when he ripped the the purse and she was grabbing on so tight that her fingernails came off okay so what impact count has battery that that is yeah basically it’s like an extension of you yeah yeah it does if you go by Statue I don’t know what give me some veteran guidance call the sergeant and see what what he thinks about yeah I don’t it’s one of those where like b line you know B and see what thinks about it okay I’ll do that okay sir can you tell me about she’s saying that she had a purse and you ripped the purse off and her nails came off and she her nails are off can you give us an explanation for that after briefing his colleague on the situation the officer approached McDaniels for her account she alleged that Randolph had forcefully ripped her purse from her hands causing her nails to break this led the officer to dig deeper initiating a more thorough investigation I don’t know how that happened that could have been on her thing I ain’t did nothing her Neil or nothing kind of way I I I know the purse when I I told her to get her stuff out the purse I pulled the purse she did kind of have the purse like maybe the hook of it but it ain’t nothing that I did nothing crazy cuz she just went to dump and everything I said okay get your stuff you want your stuff get your stuff so I pulled the purse and said whatever get it but I ain’t her nail or whatever that is I don’t know what that is so she was trying to get out and then that’s when you pulled the purse no she wasn’t trying to no she trying to get out and not pull the purse no I’m just I’m not understanding the part about the pulling we I we both had a handle on the purse she why were you trying to why did you have a handle on it cuz she when she was saying give her give her stuff I said give me my stuff give me cuz I brought the purse basically I got I she took she was no she was taking stuff she had I guess I was pulling good getting stuff I had it was just like a little tug of war a couple seconds I don’t know what went on with her nails and all that okay but all right want for he didn’t answer the witness didn’t see anything physical just saw like hands flying around he said they were arguing over the purse cuz they were when she was trying to get out he was just like all right give me my stuff and they were kind of going back and forth over it um she using my phone to pull her D she what using my phone to pull her D okay um I don’t know Sergeant didn’t answer she said he like smashed the phone on the ground like he threw it on the ground well it’s you didn’t mention how he broke it but the phone is just completely yeah I see it that’s like a yeah it’s an criminal mischief could he wants to yeah well don’t domestics don’t we have less that’s yeah yeah let me see if Sergeant Todd is available all right yep that makes since I think that’s what we’ll do right right and she was being aggressive to the car which I saw on camera so okay all right thanks for letting me talk it out with you thanks Sergeant bye he said 10:15 on her cuz the witness heard him say stop hitting me following a comprehensive investigation the officer determined that McDaniels was at fault and proceeded with her arrest without delay so I’m going to ask her about the yeah all right ma’am so earlier we were kind of just investigating but I am going to read you your Miranda warnings okay so I’m going again I didn’t say that I want to read these first okay so you have the right to remain silent anything you say can and will be used against you in a court of law you have the right to talk to a lawyer and have him present with you while you’re being questioned if you cannot afford to hire a lawyer one will be appointed to represent you before any questioning if you wish you can decide at any time to execute these rights and not answer any questions or make any statements do you understand these rights do you wish to talk to us having them in mind yes I want to know what what’s going on just tell me what’s okay so right now I’m just going to be honest with you right now I have a witness that heard U Mr Randolph screaming stop hitting me you saw you got let me finish you saw you guys kind of tussling in the car um Mr Randolph saying you slapped him in the face and then he did say y’all were tussling over the purse so I’m just trying to get your side did you T do anything to his face no he said he he also might have bit you a little bit on accidentally he he bit me on my hand and then how did he bite you so okay so you tell me your side I know you already told officer Santiago but what wow soon as I protect him well soon as I protect him this is your chance to tell me what happened but any who well what happened was since everybody’s telling the truth since um we left um Cheddars okay I was mad because you know I’m pregnant so I was off about a little something that we had going on cuz I told him you know he was like are you staying in the car and I was like no I’m telling you so he in the car he was like are you ready to go so I was like well no I just told you I’m not ready to go so I got upset or whatever we start arguing back and forth and I told him to just let me out because your off right so he comes up and he scar pulling and I’m like what are you you know my hands start going in his face so he bit me and I mushed him so that’s that’s how he bit my finger and mushed once my hand was in his face yeah that’s when I that’s when I put my hands on him okay so we came around the corner and that was just about it I didn’t I never actually physically punched him okay and then he pushed well he didn’t say you punched him he said you did what you’re telling me right now he pulled my pushed my head forward and well I guess trying to stop me cuz I pushed the emergency break that’s what happened like I don’t he lying like naturally McDaniels wasn’t ready to go down without a fight she claimed her her pregnancy had triggered her anger justifying the violent outburst and even admitting to pulling the emergency break while Randolf was driving okay well let me see your hand where he bit you over here and then rip the rip the purse from off my hands so how were you holding the purse we I was we was tussling from because he bought the purse so when I started asking for my belongings he started asking for the stuff that he bought childish I got but when we grabbed it it snatched my fingernails okay I see that so that’s what happened you sure you don’t want eating us I’m fine like okay so all right well I hate to do this what the witness said I got to place you under arrest for domestic battery okay go ahead and turn around come back over that’s so crazy you really ruin come back so where’s the witness stay over there so where’s the witness he’s in his car I I want to know the W like so what the witness said I told you what he said no what we’re going to walk over to my car cuz I want to cuz I want to see what do you want to take that person with you yeah that’s crazy 105 105 wow 10 15 I ain’t even telling I ain’t even telling you put my hand your hands on me that’s crazy you don’t have anything on crazy that’s so crazy that’s crazy you can sit sideways if you need to thank you 106 do you mind doing the paperwork with him6 um here’s his stuff oh let me get you his weapon it is it um you rent it I didn’t run it yet no I can though I’ll run it are you sure cool thank you I a got to go back to the house with her I can take a home and drop we don’t have a choice in domestic situations we have no discretion and we have a witness saying that you said stop hitting me and that’s what you said I verified it with the sergeant but I don’t she I don’t want her to go to jail I know we arguing just don’t take her to jail look I don’t have a choice in domestics if you guys didn’t have a kid together I would be able to but look it’s not my thrill to be doing this either but I don’t have a choice and I have a witness saying that you said don’t hit myun so he’s going to get with you you got to do some paperwork with him since you’re the victim and I’m going to take her okay I’m sorry all right take care so I can go bond out though can I you can’t bond out for domestic we she’ll have to wait till first appearance which should be tomorrow morning tomorrow morning yep she don’t she don’t I can drop her all home I I don’t have a choice you said she hit you I have a witness saying she hit you I literally can’t domestics we don’t have a if we let you guys go and then you guys ended up killing each other later we would be viable what if one of y’all dropped off what do you mean dropped off home I’m taking her to the jail right now she’s under arrest for battery domestic battery she hit you in the face you told me that so why am I being taken to jail again because I did what because the information I received indicates you committed domestic battery of doing what what so your boyfriend or is he your boyfriend no not anymore okay well whatever he was to you he told me that you when you asked to get dropped off he pulled over you smack him in the face and then you guys had to fight over the purse and all of that I have an independent witness who doesn’t even know you guys he has no reason to lie said he heard him yelling stop hitting me oh he doesn’t have a scratch on his face he doesn’t have nothing indicating that he’s been hurt and I’m telling you my story and you see all this this blood and and what’s happened to my fingers I don’t understand that’s what I don’t understand why am I being placed under arrest because you not in face by who like who that’s what he say telling me and the witness is telling me if we that the witness said that he said stop that he didn’t say that I smacked him in his face he didn’t witness that I I’m not going to argue with you this will go to court or the charges may even get dropped but right now but I’m going to jail for nothing eventually McDaniels was arrested and taken into custody she was charged with domestic battery on December 27th 2023 officers were dispatched to a residence where a domestic battery incident took place I want my stuff back police what’s all right what’s going on I’m out all right [Music] stop all right now what happened where you going I I’m doing stop no stop stop right now stand right here for right now until I I got another I don’t care I’m telling you right now what to do you stand right here I stand right here tell them to get my stuff done wait until I get another officer here and then we’ll figure all this mhm okay does he look like he can hurt me he’s six one I’m 105 lb he’s going to act like he can’t protect himself do that I have a recorder too all right yours so everything’s in your name you guys good yep I I help buy it okay we decorated it all you could do is call the police ma’am what stay right here all right so based on based on the video what uh what he saying our reported dispatch line um you going to be under arrest for domestic battery mhm all right so if you can stand up put your hands behind your back going to place you in handcuffs um we’re going to take you back to the station um issue you a complaint for domestic battery whether or not he decides to chill up in Cork he was very evident that he did not want you arrested unfortunately based on our current stat I have my video tape of what the whole of the whole incident yeah you you shown me a video of the incident in the kitchen but if you have other video to yeah let’s hear it let’s hear it is this your phone with the green case yeah I want to see the video too bring it it’s alled get that import no no I want to see it I don’t I don’t appre stop stop I’m going to record five men here I’m inating me a courtesy by allowing you to show us what you got here no no no okay five minutes including yeah you’re underr don’t resist just up come on can you stop this is ridiculous he’s will to hold your dog here if you want your brother to come pick it up work with you to get your dog out no I want my phone get your phone make sure those are it’s a little tight budddy you got small wrists they have to be small I know little all tight not those end it where you going stop it gra the phone grab my phone we’re can I get it for you stop no five men five men oh my God five men four one ignorant woman there’s another one four there’s another one outside there’s not another one outside I not Li you since I’ve been here there’s another men there more referring to the police police encountered a woman violently attacking her boyfriend but fortunately the man had recorded the entire incident on video the footage provided undeniable evidence leading to her immediate arrest one we got one female in C yeah we’ll grab it just walk out just walk out good job tiger bring my dog to my D it’s not his choice it’s not his choice at this come on his Cho a call but not choice right now no it is good job hey domestic conf going to shut my mouth no I don’t care yeah then walk no I’m not walking well then Rong we don’t care we’re not going to we’re not going to fight here 11:37 domestic abuse police all right abuse have a seat don’t touch me I asking you don’t touch me away don’t touch me don’t touch me I am asking you to don’t touch me okay I’m asking you to have a seat I’m asking you to don’t touch me then have a seat and we’ll let go of you 11:37 five police against one woman 105 lbs please just have a seat in the back I don’t want to have a seat unfortunately you’re going to have to have a SE so we can transport you back to if you don’t have a SE we’re going to charge you with actually resisting arrest go for it let’s go to court 11:37 five police officers want to arrest a 500 lb woman all right come on have a seat don’t touch me have a seat you’re kicking us now no got we’re done with you okay oh no you hurt my arm you just kicked him you just kied I not kick him I just watched you doing it no no done we’re done with you go for it from her volatile demeanor the officers could tell she wouldn’t go quietly she screamed relentlessly and even attempted to lash out at them but her resistance was feudal the situation was now firmly under control that guy me across the seat tell them not to go anywhere St this way got it you who me across the seat you in trouble oh I am yeah all right do my favor go stand against facing the wall that’s this horse when you’re kicking an officer no not you I wasn’t kicking him either it’s all my body can miss it was clear that this woman didn’t grasp the severity of her situation she continued to behave as though she was Untouchable acting as if the law didn’t apply to her I’d love to see it my leg was that way how do I kick you in this way you’re full of okay we not say in your games love to see it show it must have not getting late last night oh that’s ex let’s take a picture of that first there you go take a picture of that want the indentation of the Handcuff you’re under arrest that’s kind of what happens sit down does it touch me sit down don’t touch you we’re going to touch you all we want okay can you you’re under a WRA you understand that you understand that I want my phone stop I want my phone Notting your phone you don’t have your phone right now you don’t get your phone phct show right now it’s all on body cam yeah and then his arms are scratched no my arms are sced my arms anyway I my phone you’re not getting okay well call me you don’t even right now I’m not questioning you you don’t get that that’s not how it works well then you don’t have any reason to keep me uh actually no we do because you have been arrested for domestic battery which is the reason why we told you you’re under arrest police I want my phone cuz that is to page yeah you have the this is your first stop right so we got to process you we got to get through fingerprints photographs and I want my phone to document this stop after this after this stop you get to go to DuPage County Jail where you’re going to spend the night and you’re going to have a bond hearing in the morning all right have you been arrested before for domestic battery have you noid you’re not an idiot are you calling me an idiot yes you have an ID on for her no is he hiding what is he hiding out a home for your ption wait what is he hiding out a home per your instructions is he hiding a what are you drunk too or not you want a breath no I don’t you’re a very unpleasant person unpleasant person I want my phone to document you’re not getting your phone you’re not getting the phone we can drop itop please law you’re not getting M either oh so I’m denied a phone call you’re not you don’t need one we’re not questioning you then why are you here you’re under arrest for what domestic battery then I should get an attorney no you can get one tomorrow after you’re buy here I’m sorry the marks aren’t going to be here tomorrow police officer what’s your name then show it to me I can’t there’s no video review on this then why are you looking at it his house it’s recording then why are you looking at it his house he obviously showed it to you there’s a stark difference between knowing your rights and acting as if you’re above the law this woman has clearly confused the two mistaking her rights for a reckless display of arrogance and from here it only spirals further downhill wa what no no your boyfriend ex-boyfriend whatever he is to you he showed us video from camera in the home oh okay I have phone on my camera that’s not good enough you’ll only show white I have it on my phone it’s all recorded okay so if you’re going to believe him I should be we mine out all right so let me call my attorney it’s okay it’s not it’s okay what’s your last name again don’t worry about it okay let’s see he can tell you he took notes while he were banshe while was what I want my phone you’re not getting it or I’m calling the police okay and my lawyer okay we put that as an not on here all right birthday I want my phone and let me actually see if I can find her DL so if not he’s got plenty of attorney friends I got 20 great you can talk to all of them if you’re up tomorrow oh well no if I’m going to be arrested I am you to an attorney phone call no it’s it’s a buzzer you’re wrong I’m wrong yeah you’re not being questioned we’re not questioning you then you shouldn’t hold me you don’t you don’t have a saying us holding you okay you don’t you get you don’t get to hold me yes we do no you don’t watch you I you question inide is that what you you don’t get to hold me if you don’t have any evidence are you getting your legal Knowledge from a television no no no no I know LIC status person I’m done listening I’m done listening we’re just going to get you through this process and get you on your way how about that I want an attorney I want my phone that’s great I want a million dollars I don’t have that were you born in the were you born in the US no it’s not happening to me um I’m going anywhere until I get my attourney you have I have you you gave up your choice when you batter I didn’t batter anybody you clean my batter something but so I saw with my own eyes so you saw with your own eyes in the dark in the dark buddy in the dark so why don’t you pull it up how tall are you but my foot you said y I want to see it brown eyes let see it why there’s like five steps above above you guys okay you can call I will if I get my phone you’re not getting the phone tonight oh why well I’m not going anywhere today without my phone see how that goes for you I don’t worry I’m marking all of it down and we all of in the papers tomorrow you’re right your name will be in the paper tomorrow I know so what yours uh it might be yeah what do you do for a living don’t worry about it I classy plenty of women around here doing classy all men thinking there’s some funy walk around with a chip on your shoulder all the time or oh I don’t have a chip on my shoulder I have more money than you guys can put together so left to you or did you actually earn it I’m sorry was that left to you or did you actually earn the money 3021 did not leave you anything yeah it’s kind of what I thought oh this is America doesn’t matter are taking over anyway only you with the trip is shoulder they them two don’t but that’s okay it’s cuz you’re drawing at me this whole time bother them well cuz you pushed me in the car no I pulled you in the car cuz you’re trying to kick an officer oh he he didn’t see the compl he didn’t see that cuz it was it was taken care of that’s why of course she continues to act recklessly arrogant continually making a fool out of herself I’m not on anybody I’m not on anybody’s side I’m on the I’m on the law side I guess you’re on the law side that’s why I don’t have Miranda rights I don’t have my phone goodness cuz you don’t know the law but I know the law you want to read her Miranda in case she do uh what time is it 21:32 yes please do before answering any questions or make any statements you must fully understand your rights you have the right to remain silent anything you say can and will be used against you you have the right to consult with an attorney before questioning and have him or her with you during questioning if you cannot afford to hire an attorney one will be appointed to represent you free of charge all right do you understand your right my attorney yes I like to call my attorney we’re not we’re not asking any questions so you you don’t need to call your attorney you just didn’t read myand right yeah you didn’t understand them I did I have the right to call my attorney uh it does not say that during questioning you’re not being questioned well then I shouldn’t be tied together TI together I think you seem to seem to be a one confused no it’s it’s okay it’ll I’ll be cleared up in court I’m sure this isn’t even going to stick so I’m sure and he’ll be back in a nanc as he always does and then you know what I’ll send you a picture of us two laughing at you that’s sorry you know if we weren’t obligated by law to arrest you as I was explaining to you at the kitchen table this wouldn’t be happening okay that’s because our tax dollar is atrocious they can’t do anything other than do this that we’re in agreement with There’s real crime to fight out there and then they send you guys go climb on Animal Patrol and domestic abuse when there’s a real crime to fight out there I think it’s atrocious I agree with you on that y I vote a republican I stand behind my words and I’m so couldn’t say much more of that war is kind of stum have you ever been arrested before NOP no all right clean immigrant citizen we paid our own way you doing the justtin though yeah thank you wasn’t the strain on Social Security we pay to be here unlike some people who are born here take advantage of it thinks that it’s a fruit B for everybody and then watch two months later he will be back in my house begging for me to take his back and at that time I am going to set a picture send it with hugs and kisses and sent it to his ex his children so much from oh I don’t doubt it either he’s done it six times but when I show up oh what are you doing here I sa my name when he had to say I told him to get away from me can I unlawfully officer sh in a car at w she hurt me all right so for these I just got send these off there just the two starters right Frank uh two counts of domestic makes physical contact and causes bily arm okay and then the resisting all right let me get back in resisting doesn’t mean that I have to be like yes I’m going to go with you yes please well when you pull away and then you do not enter the squad car yes that is a uh resisting oh okay I’ll remember that tell my daughter please just get into any stranger’s car without any fight and ask questions so you’re not resisting [Music] hello um all right so how close you on that uh just got to make sure everything is when do I do my one phone call yeah D page count of jail um can you grab me a Dage County property form yep so what actually documented in the woman was eventually charged with domestic battery including physical contact as well as resisting arrest on September 26th 2023 officers responded to a domestic abuse call involving a woman the boyfriend reported that she had bitten and scratched him multiple times before fleeing the scene the police launched a search for her setting off a rather intriguing series of events oh my CU yeah your cuff is too yeah it wasn’t me you’re fine yeah you’re fine but it wasn’t me oh yeah laugh you have the hook the pink I had them where’ they go I got her you know I’m a victim you know I am just stand right here for me you know I’m a Vic relax upon locating the woman identified as Bobby Elliott the officers quickly understood they were in for a challenging and protracted ordeal she just just out of me she she just just pulled my shirt this is going on the last few days okay and this is like the third phone call third time I called the police this is her that’s her she she came in my backyard I’ll show you the what’s her name Bobby Elliott Bobby Elliot all right you hang out here my partner’s going to show up you can talk to him and she’s still back there she’s not in my backyard she ran off she ran off I’m going to go look real quick you just stay here okay sheere gotcha what’s her first name Bobby Bobby Bobby don’t run I got a dog Bobby stop running I don’t care I’m sorry I’m sorry please help no shoot shoot me shoot me please put your hands around your back now shoot me put your hands behind your back sh shoot me 349 shoot me shoot me he broke it he came to me never mind 47 he came to me man he came to put your hand behind your back came to me dud stop resisting he came to me stop resisting he came to me you’re you’re going to get your arm broken if you don’t stop breathe ow he came to me you don’t care I have my hair now great you guys don’t to call you I need to help didn’t you really rip my why are you back here because he came to me and he stole my he sto my charger I’m not lying came to you at your his house sir yes he came to me at my you want to start the wagon this way we’ll have a female for him the boyfriend presented video evidence of Bobby’s violent Behavior including her breaking his window as additional officers arrived at the scene it became clear that this was not the first incident of its kind he came to my tent because I knew he are you going to let me double lock these or you going keep having them tighten up on you stand up stand up not going ow why you twisted them bre that break that you’re going to get charged with it IA she’s no contact or that guy the girl lives here Co we HED there for a domestic probably 2 days ago he bit or she bit him was it a fresh bite he had some old bites on him too so we we took her for domestic but they they both I mean this is normal for them she was she’s High um she run from you yeah I’m going to go talk to the guy she does she live here at all like or used to live here uh no they just have a child together okay that’s it and then I don’t know if the other femal here but I know she has no contact all right yeah we’re good she’s just flexible okay yeah where where did y’all end up she was hiding behind the shed okay my garage yeah oh we got her she going to jail yeah uh I don’t like I said to him she bit me right there so is this fresh I know you got B the other no this is fresh this is guaranteed fresh this is old so these are thank you that’s the old one that’s the old one okay this one on and I saw your ripped shirt and all the scratches and stuff that’s old that’s all that’s old yeah cuz that’s still red so this one that’s from the other day that’s from the other day but she just like tried to rip my shirt off and I swear to God on all my kids still her saliva on it’s all her I believe you I mean this one looks different than that so yeah yeah it’s I’m I’m just tired of it I’m tired of it I I I know you’re tired of it too he’s the main one that comes here and has to deal with and she just he just took her to Jail the other day that’s what he was saying I was at the park I was at the park so what happened was I was at the park cuz I had to visit uh I had to meet with this lady uh that’s in charge of our super visits because we have we share a job together right so I had a meeting there at 12:15 and we sat there and you know we did the meeting for about 45 minutes and then she left I grabbed my basketball and my jacket because I was waiting uh see I even left my basketball I think but I was uh I was walking towards this way and then next thing you know she’s she’s just popping up out of nowhere and talking about you got my charger I want my charger and this and that I’m like talking about I you know and I really want to get these videos I just the other officer told me to put my phone on the charger yeah and could I go get it real quick show you this video go I’m going to pull my car up a little closer so my dog stops barking good boy dude he’s a little anxious he heard me yelling back there so this is just I just took that but yeah to the video so what happened with all that back there with what my my backyard was a little dirty cuz of my kids dude my backyard was a little dirty cuz of the kids but she you know that fire pit right there she destroyed she took lighter to my uh clothing line okay uh I don’t know if she completed that she just you know she she’s just destroying stuff there’s a camera right there you see by the window yeah she took that destroyed it and threw it into this yard I don’t know if somewhere over there but let me get to the videos this is a video of her spitting on me I stop just leave my home alone no the f is weak come on just go no I want to Charger go this is all over a phone charg stop you’re look spit on me right there yeah look get off of my property look there’s a charger right there a cord right there just get it off of my property come on she had a rock in her hand nothing yours that’s she broke my window before she already got called on police called on her before about that Bobby you need to go and leave how would you guys this kid come on stay off of my property I swear to God I swear to God you get on my property I’m calling the police my we’re good I don’t think so it’s dirt he was already on top of room 99 we just took to her yesterday for domestic she’s already back yeah I with them three times a month that now he came to my tent and stole stuff out of my tent that’s how I woke up and then he takes off don’t follow him bro I wanted my stuff how can you Ste all y all you guys what do you mean by that you already told us you want to talk to us why do I read you your rights okay I just told you today yeah you can speak to my attorney the other day when you arrested me you didn’t read me my rights I don’t have to yeah you do when you start questioning me and when I’m detained and you question me yeah you do that’s why my attorney is coming after you what are you doing I want out I’m hot okay I’m dying you want your window cracked I’m hot I’ll turn your fan on no can you roll the window down no yeah you can I can you’re right but I’m not going to for you because of the way you’re acting where are these punch me my face right here you can’t see it I can’t see it there she right here look look look straight at me like in the cheek he punched you I’m not trying to Blind you no he did let me ride my cheek all right what’s up my man again again again got a camera uh actually we do have a camera but I think somebody El going to take a picture Bobby insisted that she wouldn’t be the one facing jail claiming her boyfriend had abused her multiple times however the officers dismissed her claims due to the lack of supporting evidence all available proof pointed to her as the abuser sealing her fate it’s it’s faded away I see it what’s up so what was up with the chickens I don’t know if she Ms with the chicken there vinegar everywhere back there vinegar everywhere like she tried to throw it TS me just it’s so disgusting all right how is she is she calming down it sounds like she was she’s not kicking anymore all right we’ll throw her in her own compartment then I going nowhere oh yes you are well let’s just be let’s just be arrest him he hit me do you not see the red L I’m I’m not here for any of that okay okay arrest him too I’m not going to jail only he needs to go to jail too for a domestic it’s not just me it’s not just me I’ve been abused for a year and a half and the victim goes to jail so listen we we listen I don’t have anything to do with this he needs to go to jail too he dude when today he came to my tent he opened the he grabbed grab off for me and he punched that’s why I chased after him okay do you not see the Mark I I don’t know here step out of the corner I’ll look at it are you going to go be cooperative and get in the back yeah if you guys arrest him too I we have no conern he does here’s the deal right now just let me talk just be quiet and let me talk you have to go to jail for the violation of the no contact ERS fine but he need we have to talk to him and we can’t do that when you’re yelling at us okay but you’re not going to do anything face are you I don’t know what’s going to happen yet I just thought it was something else that so you have no contact order yeah but he came to my tent stole my stuff punched me and then I ran after him because he had my what stuff just Hey listen I can hear you just fine I’m standing right he has my charger to my acceler over device okay my cord he also took a pair of shoes that are mine and he also took a PlayStation so what shoes did she what shoes did he take they’re uh black and white uh Adidas where where he where would he even put him probably inside of his house but he did hit me and he needs to go to jail I’m not going to be the only one going to jail for anything he hit me well I can’t see it with you sitting inside there do you not see my face it’s probably not going to be swollen until tomorrow right my cheek man it hurts do you see it I can’t see so I I can’t soing or anything how did he punch youing it’ll come out if how did he punch you whole fist man he like that so here’s the thing okay if if you were punched in the face by a man there would be some more marks and bro I even have more but you guys don’t listen to me he abused me the other day too you guys don’t you care about throwing the victim in jail listen if if you’ve been abused over the past year and you have not been reporting it that’s not on us it’s on you I did report it 3 weeks ago but guess what that little lousy officer right there Mr uh Sergeant Mitchell or whoever Mitchell yeah he made a case report if you look at my wallet I have if you look at my wallet I have a case number about it and you guys a get arrested did he no I don’t know no he didn’t so here’s here’s the thing I don’t know anything about that you have to go to jail for the violation of the no contact order okay so let’s just make it easy we already know you’re going to go okay he can go to Joe for a domestic okay all right no you guys AR doing that he’s going to do the he’s going to do the case for a detective will look into no I don’t want to hear that you can arrest me we can take pictures if you want the only thing that’s going to make you cooperate today if he goes to dude if he goes to jail yeah if he goes to jail that’s so here’s the thing okay so is there anything I can say the victim in jail to get you to be Cooper yeah ago you took pictur this is what’s going to happen if you don’t your HB I’m going to put you in hobbles to stop you from kicking and then we’re just going to put you on all fours inside of the back of the wagon I’m not going on all I’m just letting you I’m going to let you know how it’s going to go all I want you guys to do is arrest him for a domestic and you guys don’t care the victim’s always the one going to jail not the abuser okay the officers assured the man that they had the situation fully under control and would handle everything from that point forward I’ll see I’m going to get up and I’m going to stand I’m going to sit you’re also going to be charge with ass on a PO okay you searching already or no yeah and all our criminal paperwork is still in there from the other day oh good I guess we hav like when I heard this come out I was like should probably just head that way and uh we were like cuz we’re nowhere near that salt and a PO yes good I was just like goad we were on the ground and I’m like yeah no I just like I I was planning on stopping to look in the alley to see if she was there and I just like saw you on top I’m like I’ll back up and go we’ve been kind of listening and paying attention cuz we knew that it was so we were kind of you know what’s funny is I I had a feeling was going to be these people do do all right Danny I’ll get some photos of your new injuries me a model again huh that’s all right okay what is new so that I know was old is this on the upper right new uh I can’t I really don’t know what that looks a little fresher all right and then they said you got bit yeah right here it it already faded away but there’re still yeah you can still see a little bit I’ll get a photo of that all right I’ll do your forearm first I don’t know that’s going to be hard to see but but when uh dude first came up it was real deep on his body cam was it that’s good yeah they record too so okay that’s the old bite mark is anything new on me I don’t see anything new back here I know you had this old bik that was a good bite mark there last time all right did you get case guard and everything no she bit me I don’t know if you guys took pictures of that before but that was a bite mark too look man I know we had a rough whatever but I am dead serious this is never my problem when it comes to her and she always painted the picture and make me seem like a bad person but if I’m a bad person she keep coming to me doing this now and the way she’s treating you guys that’s how that’s what she does to me yep like say it’s a good situation to remove yourself from man well try to I guess she if she comes here there’s nothing you can do about that yeah I got still got the N 347 347 could you give me the case number we have out here as soon as I got done with this visit that’s when she popped up out of nowhere man gotcha all right we got the photos that’s a case number for today’s incident do you have any questions about today no when will uh she’s going to try to go to the m that’s what she aims for yeah it’s not going to happen today I mean she can act like that in jail they have ways to deal with that so um do you have any questions or anything uh yeah uh when will he follow up with me who the detective yeah anybody can know it should be today it should be tomorrow I I really want to go to court and make sure that she gets so the deal with court is that not everything always goes to court to a point where you’re involved that’s pretty much only going to be if it gets further down the road where the her attorney is thinking of doing a trial uh vnco Court though you’ll probably be asked to show up to that that’s usually two two weeks out from like an arrest but the P County Attorney’s Office should get in contact with you about that after throwing several Tantrums Bobby attempted to justify her actions by claiming she was mentally ill and in need of help it remains to be seen how far this excuse will take her how’s that working not very good she’s still breathing because she in the fale compartment don’t care I don’t want nothing probably going to have I don’t want to be alive just stop try to talk me into staying alive you let go with that no I don’t want to be alive you guys don’t listen I don’t care you guys don’t listen I don’t want to be Al daughter when did that happen look at the papers it was found my daughter Danny daughter why are you still always around him because I have to answer that talk to my attorney I don’t want to be alive just leave me alone just leave me alone hey Bobby how old are you business you know my information actually I I haven’t looked at it so yeah oh stop you that’s not very nice not very nice arrest the victim huh so here we go okay we’re going to go back to the other car I don’t care okay all right um I’m see gr wants us to take her in here or an ambulance around ambulance just soft to the BR impatient please I want to go to sand please I want to go to sand you’re not going to I want to go to Sands I we’re going to get your help okay take go to S please going to get the Medics to come [Music] trans definitely an option it’s an option please it’s it’s broad mental actual I really want to goe can you to S we’re going to have Medics come to transport you because we don’t feel please I want to go to sand I mean we could hobble we could hobble her before we put her in a car cuz then we like if we hobble her put her in the car what like what what we typically would do is tie a knot and then just close the door on the knot and that way that way her feet are stuck hang the rest just their feet together and hang the rest out the car exactly well don’t let it flop tie in a knot cuz if it grabs something not a good day you just that’s one say sorry tie a knot in it and then we’re good she got quiet what are you doing so SM I’m not smiling what are you do look at him do you not see him smiling haha it’s funny dude it’s not funny it is we just I wish you would just sit and go I don’t want to be here we would already we’ already be halfway there be I’m not going to ja I’m going to say it okay well you could keep saying that all you want but what if we Tire up with the SE I don’t know it’s a joke BL yeah it’s funny well we’ll make sure we let him know that you’re suicidal I don’t care I’m going to stands you guys are violation violating my right I have BPD I mentally ill if that is the case I have to go to St you guys don’t care care about getting paid after so much resistance and Tantrums that Bobby displayed she was eventually tied up and carried into the car there we go all right come grab me make sure I don’t fall in the concrete and hit my head y got you’re pressing my w b police are B okay all right yeah you just twist my wrist yeah thank you thank you I’m not I’ll get on the ground yes you don’t have to twist my arm you ruin my pants can you not touch me please I don’t want him to touch me I will abide but he does not need to touch me he just t just lay going I’m going I’m going lay on it can I go can I move my leg before you guys get in there you go for me thank you yeah no why you touching me sir you need to get off me oh that’s you that’s not the white one yeah it’s not it’s it’s a different one uh is she going in your car I’m going I’m going to take that we could have just had off you’re just ding it really hard I’m going to take that it’s cuz you have two on no H hey hold on hold on hold on hold on just take the excess shut it in the door and it hold on well L I think I think that Leng right yeah yeah I was without causing issues just TI in a knot and then we’ll SL the door we’re going to do that yeah I’m getting up to help you if you can help me up on the back work it goes into the well we can put it in here we can put it up there Bobby was arrested and charged with criminal crial Mischief interference with official acts domestic abuse possession of a controlled substance assault on peace officers and violation of a no contact order on May 1st 2024 officers were dispatched to a residence following multiple distress calls from a woman alleging that her husband was threatening her despite her claims upon their arrival officers found that the situation was quite different it was the woman herself who was creating the disturbances what happened this time she just going crazy M so I’m coming down search me you can search me I have a knife in my pocket for it’s on my right right was going crazy my wife we could that wasn’t that wasn’t the problem earlier though it wasn’t no that was the guy that called earlier the police officer in order to understand the situation begins to question the man about the disturbance it wasn’t no that was the guy that called earlier because he was standing out here staring at my kids he was standing right at the end of the driveway this had nothing to do with what’s going on now upstairs yeah CU it came in as a domes oh it did that’s why that’s why we’re knocking on the door it came that must him calling arguing and fighting and all that stuff no so I mean if you want to go talk to her fine I came out I’m just letting you guys know I’m GNA tell you like this my bad on the words earlier all good man you apologizing we appreciate I’m even dud dude but she’s pulling just ridiculous it is my daughter even had to leave cuz she couldn’t deal with the drama yeah and she left she went to a friend’s house to stay how old and I’m getting uh 17 and I’m getting ready to send him to a friend house to stay so they can go to school like the drama I agree where she have another dog but he won’t try to do anything where how big is he uh he’s honestly I have no idea where she’s at she’s upstairs she was upstairs that’s the last time I saw but now I you’re fine with us going up and get talking go in the house it’s fine uh the dog is not going to do anything to you guys the dog that we left out he’s really old he’s not going to try anything legs are kind of messed up so but she just has been on and off and then now she just like attacked us yeah there is she’s been served yes and she has a warrant an active warrant right now I know know so we’re like I’ve been trying to I’ve been trying to be cool with her dude and the problem is I don’t know what to say I’m not jumping sides I’m not trying to say anything bad ain’t I said my bad earlier D with the mouth it’s all good man feel like people like her with women nowadays that just doesn’t make any sense I agree she called you guys and was saying I was trying to attack her kill her with a knif video of her I don’t have a video recording of her like standing there I just have the audio so where she ran to now I don’t know I told her we were going downstairs and coming out front to wait for you guys she’s in the house she was in just she was in his bedroom she was she burst through the door have any weapons on her um I don’t no she didn’t threaten us with any weapons or anything can pull her up yeah I already added her for the call okay where she go I don’t know she could be anywhere in the house guys there is a closet what’s her name what’s your name Donna Donna the police Donna Donna it’s the police hey Donna we need to get your side of the story what happened Donna Donna Don 39 [Music] Mark Donna Donna if you’re in here make yourself known now the woman identified as Donna is informed of the active warrant and the violation of the protection order the seriousness of the legal situation is highlighted requiring immediate custody get out from under that bed come out now there get the under there let’s go get he’s going to kill I don’t care stand up stand up put your hands behind your back turn around now turn around really guys please thank stop moving okay well you don’t got to worry about that cuz you’re going to jail no please I didn’t anything I know because of him and you’re and you’re violating the protection of right now so you’re going to jail I’m sorry what you’re violating prote my house sir I understand that but you have a protection order and it’s conc to we are you guys are separating tonight you have to go to jail tonight I know please help me I know we’ll help you as soon as you get out we getting you out of here yeah we getting you out of here don’t worry won leave got it guys yes thank you please help me come On’s hurt hurt to hurt stop on he beat your knee he beat your KN D me across the floor of the stairs please Jason tell them the truth Jason tell them the truth tell them the truth please’ please tell them the truth please I swear I’m telling the truth I’m telling the truth I swear I swear be quiet I tell the truth I’m not going to leave I just want you to listen to me no I swear please don’t hurt me please don’t listen not going to hurt you just stop fighting help me please please I’m not trying to do anything officer woman please officer I want to please can I talk to you please a woman a woman a woman a woman please help me help me somebody help me stand up somebody help me help me help me stop please oh my God please help me he did this4 Jason [Music] how did you do that to me ow ow I’m not fighting I’m not fighting you’re going to break my help help sit up Jason please don’t let me be in there baby please give me out please baby get me out he said he would get me out listen to me officers listen please listen I’m not even supposed to have this warrant I have a motion to vacate I’m not supposed to have this warrant it was issued on accident it was issued on accident I’m not supposed to have this warrant please help me when you get that figured out you have to actually it I can’t remember hey ma’am confed it got her Jason please don’t let me sit in there’ I’m not ma’am hey Arington you remember her name off top of your head Jason please stop my shoulders already I have a torn rotator C Donna you I am I’m not moving Donna I’m not moving you got a Tor Rotator cuup how did you fight and rip yourself out of cuup he did no he didn’t do that you did that I’ve been working with this what with what you been working with what if I don’t he kill me Donna repeatedly pleads with the officers insisting that the warrant was issued by mistake and that she should not have it her please blend desperation and frustration as she tries to explain her situation and convey her fear of being harmed night you don’t have to worry about that because you won’t be here thir time please stop saying that Mr meanie you don’t understand did you use some type of Narcotics no where’s your pain I got to ask I don’t know youing at the mouth sleeping okay no I’m are you k no you are I’m not going to lie on you now probably because I haven’t had any water I’m not fighting you you did at the door that’s why we’re concerned Jason tell them the truth you’re not being charged with anything reference Jason but you have a warrant this is because of him this warrant is because of him I know but the second part of the problem is you’re at a protected address no no no you have this is my house you have a protection order at this house this is my house it doesn’t matter when the law says you can’t be here you can’t be here what are you talking about I yes you do yes there is no I don’t this is my house okay well either way you got no there isn’t even if it’s there’s no protection over here say we go down the road that you’re saying you still have a warrant so you have to go to jail it’s not supposed to be here my motion my attorney filed a motion to vacate guess what when I’m not supposed to have this when you go to court it’ll get Tak Liv right there okay that’s fine please no the police officers stand firm stressing the need to follow legal procedures and take Donna into custody they remind her that the courts will handle her claims while their job is to enforce the law without bias did we tried your way we tried to do it the nice way you you locked up on the door and ripped yourself out of car you weren’t going to listen to me every time I call you guys you never listen to me you wouldn’t even come to the door last time you walk past the window when I was talking to you why is that you were he was nowhere near you why is that I was I was looking through the window no you weren’t I saw you you walked past the window I saw you that was my son no it wasn’t it was you you had your hair up no it wasn’t okay that was my no then that was my other daughter because my daughter’s not here now Evelyn left at some point no you didn’t a liar I saw you window you’re liar sir can I pray for you g he’s lying no it’s not it is yes but listen why would I lie about that I’m not lying you’re not hearing me I didn’t say you were lying I said Jason tell them the truth ma’am tell them the truth it has nothing to do with Jason it’s a warrant War Jason didn’t write the warrant it’s against him because it doesn’t matter it doesn’t matter Jason can’t stop any this it has nothing to do with him you have to go see a judge and then they’ll let you out you see a judge in the morning right so why are you making this such a thing if you know that why are you making this a thing this is my house I the house is going to be here when you get back M you you literally will see a to come in this house but more than likely yeah as long as there’s not a protection order in place like you said no there’s not sir so there we go you’ll see the judge in the morning the officer explained that Donna will see a judge in the morning and concerns about Bales would be addressed this is a legal procedure and making the situation worse will not help it was he came out yelling at the neighbor earlier when I called and saw you in the window that wasn’t me that was Evelyn I was downstairs in the trash bag all right okay so Evelyn came out and I told her I said tell your dad to calm down mhm because he was over there yelling at the neighbor because he’s drunk okay off because he has nothing and that’s okay who him yes okay I’m here to I just paid for everything today I just got paid I just paid for for everything he’s got no job nothing but I’m here to help and save and bring the family to put it back together they all moved in here with me because they were homeless and they had nowhere to go you sound like a decent person if you did all that I love my family I’ll do anything for my husband and my children anything I would die for them this is not so so if you’re saying you would do anything for them let’s let’s let’s springboard off that this is a part of that process where you got charged with something and if it’s erroneous guess what it’s wrong right so it’ll get thrown out but this is a part of the process I don’t have anything to do with the judge you’ll see the judge in the morning we don’t have anything to do with that you just have to go through the process I did listen I had an attorney uh-huh the judge gave me uh a whatever it was a call in to a video a video a video gave me a video okay oh it’s you said a video what she gave me she was going to give me a video Court he told me not to go he told you not to go or yes [Music] okay oh you guys please ma’am listen did you just hear what I just said you literally will see the judge in the morning and then you get a B I have no family I have no one to bond me out you said this is your family he’s not going to bond me out he hates me you said your sister Liv across the street my brother’s gone he doesn’t live there anymore obviously moved out today it’s May 1st how would I know that you just told me live Jason please don’t do this to me it’s not I mean seriously he just text me can I text can I show you anything that I have any anything going to fight us no I’m not going to fight you come on are you going to walk to the are you going to walk to the CR I want to just no you didn’t just all right look this I have some pants or something I’m sing we can get you some pants okay what kind of us though um look pinky swear I’m not going to fight you guys I believe you let Us’s stand up okay where are your pants at I’ll have him grab a pair where they at they’re in there in there stand on up hey Jason can you grab right one all right we’ll be gentle guys ma’am it’s not up to him you got you got to go this way Jason wait no give me pants that’s those don’t fit me he’s going to get it okay no those don’t fit me those those are Evelyn Jason please don’t let me die in there we’re not Donna you going to see the judge and get out tomorrow morning God if she goes cooperatively sure if we got a rapper then now you want some sandals too count confirmed the warrant they said thank you for the transport Jason not up to Jason Jason Jason please stop this you know it’s all right you literally going to see the judging on it and get out I I don’t don’t don’t make this bigger let me cry come on more steps right stand up put this I’m so scared I’m so scared you’re going to go in there for a day serious not not going to let me out you’re going to see the judge in the morning put your pants on come on come on there you go I know but I don’t have a choice this is up to the judge so you’re going to see him in the morning there you go I do believe you I do believe you but it’s not up to me have no men to help me no men please help me no nobody in the end the woman was booked on her warrant for charges including felonius assault as well as domestic violence and violating a protection order on June 17th 2022 officers rushed to an apartment complex in response to an escalating domestic dispute that had residents on edge that’s where’s police permit open the door leave my house leave my house no thank you she has my bike leave you want it to be gone leave so we’re not going to close the door I’m not yes I am this is my home I didn’t open it for you he did I am not opening this door to you who l i do I said no nobody’s opening the door to the cops here I do not leave and I’m done my God no and what’s a relationship where is lost his child yeah friends friends don’t please get out of my house I did not invite you in I had you did not don’t do that I’m here for domestic disturbance no but you do not have a right to enter my home unless I’ve invited you you do not have a warrant I did not open my door to you he opened it to leave I understand then bring your supervisor but I want him gone that you don’t want to talk to me that’s great I’m not talking to anybody I’m done for tonight he can leave okay as he wanted goodbye so there’s another option on the way no you can tell me that you’re not giving me STDs because rubber like you promised you can I don’t know give me the $120 plus dollar that you owe me and then I’ll give you your bike back like you agreed months ago but oh no cuz it’s always a lie to you please leave didn’t you guys call the police I did oh you did out of my home no I will get the supervisor now I did not invite you in then don’t come in my home near me now here I’ll call 911 again do we need to do this go ahead great get out of my house please go ahead get out of my house I by every right inlaw you do not have no you do not have a right to come in my home I’m not touching you but you don’t have a right to be in my home without a warrant get out please you are not invited in by the homeowner another off goodbye that’s great please step outside my door now now sir I did not invite you into my home I did not invite you in my home you are now trespassing without a warrant exit my doorstep now no get out of my house how are you going to threaten me in my house he is not I do not invite him in he is not just going to walk in my house this is this he no he doesn’t have a warrant T needs to get it he’s threatening me and I’m no it’s a domestic issue I does I did not open that door to him he did no get out of my house now you can stand right there in the door will stay open I don’t out of my house now I want your badge number card no I want the card please I didn’t invite you in my home and you are breaking the law you have no right to enter a dwelling at all without permission oh I’m going to keep it up I’m going to keep going ma’am please do not come do not come into my house and tell me what I can and can’t do you are not invited in I did not give you permission to be here now you are trespassing and threatening me please leave my doorway you can stand on the outside I need the call okay so what’s going on now tra me in the house argu before um but uh she’s like assaulted me before um obviously I can’t touch her you know I don’t want to be physical with her and um is she your girlfriend see like an ex hang out with his friends and um she knew I had to go to work this morning at like 5:30 I do house painting and um when I started to leave she just like started going off on me and would block the door and she you can’t do this and she took my bike I came in I need my bike um and did it get physical at any point in time no okay what what is it that you need do you just you just trying to leave I was just trying to leave and she was threatening me so you just want your bicycle yes okay according to reports the woman had taken the man’s bike as Ransom over an unpaid $120 debt sparking the entire disturbance amid the escalating chaos she became increasingly erratic lashing out at the officer trying to calm the situation please leave my doorway you do not have a warrant you are not invited this close to being arrested for resisting you’re inside my house surpr can you stop I’m not resist can you stop you’re res no right now I am cuz you’re hurting me sir stop I will let you handcuff me stop put your hands behind your back I’ve done this put your hands your back can you stop put your hands behind your back I said I will you do not need to use excessive force you came into my home without invitation you are under arrest for resisting and obstructing did not do anything okay hey can I can I can I not deal with him anymore please let him no he has been nothing please stop you’re hurting me I will get off I have a broken toe we’re walking we’re walking to my no my son is inside this apartment please get me out these CS I will I will cooperate please get me out of these cups now okay but I’m freaking out I have a son I had an officer walk into my home without my permission please get these off of me I am protecting my child and myself please I didn’t he walked into my home without my permission I did not open my door to him he does not have a warrant please stop you’re under arrest for resisting obstru can you I’m not going anywhere please stop get my I have babies please stop you are very can you please take these put him in the front please I’m not going to run I have a baby please take these off of me we need to go out I can’t my son is inside let me sit down please fine I need to sit down I have a baby sit down thank you sit down you guys don’t understand I’m not trying to resist anything you guys are threatening me he came in my home and threatened me I did not invite that officer into my house explain something to you you are our kids going to be okay you her I I live downstairs we’ll talk to you in a minute can you hang on downstairs for me I’m trying to calm down can I please have these off I’m not going to go anywhere swear do you have a baby right there and two my right now like to smoke a cigarette I’m going you to calm down I’d like to smoke a c to please can you get the coughs off those cuffs aren’t coming off until you’re calm down listen real quick I can calm down if you take these off of me please okay they’re not coming down please sir I have been used by a cop my can you please get these off of me that is not going but this is a trick that’s why I’m saying I can calm down me just even unhook one Cal down please just unhook one I don’t think you just Cal down for me how do you not understand PTSD like please calm down for me take them off a concerned neighbor soon approached asking about the welfare of the woman’s children in response one of the officers quickly stepped inside to check on them ensuring their safety amidst the escalating tension sir can we help something yes I’m uh her downstairs neighbor I’m wanting to know I know uh her kids right yes and they’re fine I’m going to I’m going to put an eye on I to know I’m going to check on him right now sir he’s not somebody that can be talk to like a human being so no please please let me finish it’s different with your guys’ attitudes and his okay he does not have permission to go in my house sir okay we’re we’re we’re done with I’m just standing no I’m just I’m breathing you told me to calm down sir please let me I’m melting can I please stay SE can I please breathe I’m trying to breathe he’s walking through my he’s my son Valerie Valerie can I help kids how many children does she have three and two I only see one I promise no I can’t I can’t read just put it back on this two handcuff can I please not have one behind it just I I could be in the front you said if I call has three children yeah yes do you not heare me speak to you sir I said I here I have three children I’m not resisting anything I just one in the bedroom sir I just said the other two are with somebody okay good good they’re coming here at 6:00 in the morning can good can I please just take a fat ticket anything please don’t this I have nothing but them I will I will do anything please guys I’m calm have a seat and calm down I apologize okay please so only one child is in here sir what’s your name tell me your name I’m not going to S I’ll leave it don’t do any tighter please I will not slip it I promise I promise please don’t please don’t please you guys are not dealing with my that Hur I have R lus you are literally killing right now please stop please just stop I will be good I’ll sit right here just please stop is there any PC please stop I a’t got nothing all right he just wants his bike can I just sit right here you’re no seriously you’re cutting off circulation you’re cutting off circulation stop yelling you don’t even have the cuff on stop right here it’s cutting in stop you don’t Hur on your Hey listen to me I no that’s perfect if you calm down for me these are going to come off do you understand that yes okay can you understand you’re the one yelling at us I I’m having a pts triggers right now I am not trying to be out of control I am really just having serious PTSD as bre did you need medical attention ma’am just breathe I can’t deal with all the questions can I you need medical attention you guys keep it up then help please stop if you want medical attention we can get it for you no want I want to sit right heree stop stay right there me stop handling me okay so so here’s a deal don’t be in my face I can listen please back off then look that way okay I’m you’re in my space please I’m I’m going to talk to you really quick okay you let me breathe for just two minutes without talking can I just please and then I will just don’t yell anymore then do you guys have to stop jumping down my throat okay I’ve done nothing wrong I put no hands on anybody okay everything’s going to be all right we’re all on camera here nothing’s going to happen I want to know I want nothing’s going to happen way he treated me came in my home did not invite anybody into my home can I explain to you something can I talk do as you need to officer okay so when it’s a domestic related issue you do not have a right to search my things he he needs to stop I but I understand hold on real quick but I can I Dr to but I have a question about what you’re explaining so with can I finish explaining it to you I’m going to answer your question yeah I’ll probably forget the question just listen to me okay he can he stop searching my things I have every right for him to stop he needs to stop any domestic related issue okay we are 100% we can come into your house investigate what we incl I did not open the door to him it doesn’t matter it does you need a warrant toenter my home no not when it’s a domestic related issue but he does not know right to search my things or my home without my because you have kids here we have to check their wellbeing that’s great he’s Alive’s that’s the reason why we went in the room to go check so he’s also opening my things he does not have a right to do if you are Cooperative with us I am cooperating I’m just saying why does he need to go through my things then that has nothing to do with the domestic disturbance that has nothing to do with my child can he please stop going through my things okay and that’s why I’m asking you can he please Rel relax can he please stop going through my things relax for me I’m really trying here officer a cigarette can I get your information to you he I’ll give you everything you want if that officer will go away please I’m very intimidated and threatened by him I need her 49 I will can I get your first and last name I will give you everything if he goes outside my door I’ll give you whatever you want if that man will go ins my I’m write that down I’m going to be right here I don’t want him ins my house were you up here earlier sir I’m sorry were you up here earlier no okay is there anything else we can help you with I want to make sure her kids are going to be all right yeah as a matter of fact you know when they’re going to come back from wherever they are and stuff like that uh I need to know if that she’s going to be here for them and Stu or anybody’s going to be here for yeah she’s going to be here for them she’s she’s not going to jail all she’s going to get is a ticket okay okay okay so thank you yeah her her boy’s going to be okay it’s not just her boy she’s got two girls here she’s going to be here when her other two children get in after assuring the neighbor of the safety of the woman’s children the officer proceeded with his questioning please stop asking my neighbor questions I will give you what information can you stop you listen to me but that’s he’s in my doorway echoing talking okay can you guys go downstairs talk listen to me okay what’s your social he you Val I’ve calmed down can they please come off what’s your social can they come off after the social look after we’re done you said when I calm down no you’re not calm down but I am I really am but I’m these hurt you’re not calmed down believe me this this is as calm as I’m going to get with you guys now until we’re like completely good I’m sweating I just can I smoke a cigarette and just be here I’m not going if you come down for me you’re going to smoke that cigarette this is calm down I promise you this is but I really need these off so I can get can I gather all your information sir can I please have this off and you can have everything you want promite what’s your social hey have you ever had PTSD can you ask about Gilbert’s bike um can we wait for that thanks where’s where’s Gilbert Spike I answer question I think it’s that electric that blue electric scooter ask him if it’s a blue electric scooter it is is it a blue electric scooter yes yes it’s a black black Jetson scooter yeah I really need these what’s your phone number Valerie phone number don’t have it’s a text now number and I don’t have a okay what’s your social if the Cuffs can come off after the social please what’s your social can we agree to that officer I’m cooperating but can you work with me okay once herey but no you said they come off if I calm down I’m calm I don’t need your social this is a PTSD trigger can we please respect that I really like we do respect can you handcuff me to my damn table then the reason you’re in the handcuffs is because your behavior when we arrived okay it wasn’t my behavior it was the officer’s Behavior who was threatening me okay well when I walked in you weren’t letting him explain anything to you you were just yelling in his face okay wasn’t explaining anything he was gritting his teeth in my face and said I’m going to jail he had no way to explain it you were yelling over him I told him I’m not saying you’re wrong but you have to meet with us I did not invite him in my home okay right now been threatening me in right now he decided to place you under arrest at the moment so that’s he said that it was okay I’m not trying to I just really just want these in front of me that’s honestly do can I put them in front of me no we’re not allowed to do that that’s that’s just a policy okay can you help me light a cigarette cuz that is that it can I please just have a cigarette that’s all I really want them all for where where your cigarettes at uh well they yep yep yep please you want to sit up here do you want to your bike was um she took it to the back I know that just be like when you walk in the hallway around not a lot of like in the bedroom or by the kitchen not by the kitchen inside the bedrooms okay where’s the bike just tell me if you could just help me up I’ll help you get it like I’m not I don’t want to fight I just okay just just have a seat we’ll get it do this let’s do this first you can relax my son’s back there can I at least be by the curtain yeah we’ll get in a minute let’s right there let’s help you relax okay and it should just be I don’t want that other guy back in here but it’s right back to the blanket that’s fine just take a seat smoke that relax a bit obviously can’t get you anything it’s not a New Mexico ID will you give him your social you said you said it it where is it from Colorado that officer need for Valerie Ellis out of col I am getting return for unknown clerk the officer located the missing bicycle hidden in the bedroom and returned it to the woman’s boyfriend hoping to diffuse the escalating in Conflict here the man’s 42 years old and got pregnant okay and moved him out of his trailer he was cheating on me still helped him he lived with me how long you have you guys been back at we were yeah pretty much for over a year a year okay and um he owes me money and I literally asked him if you’re going to be people can you please wear condom he refused to answer and I said that’s kind of that is my body too I have every right to know he’s like I’m not dealing with this and to leave and I’m like do you need to at least give me that that’s it oh you’re threatening me you’re trying to keep me here I was like because I want a really answer was this today that this argument happened okay just now so what what did he have the bike here and you kicked him out or what what exactly I told him I was like I can I’ll keep the bike until you pay me my $120 plus that you said you pay me for months now did he leave on the door or did you make him leave or what happened he the cops knocked and he was like answer the door like I’m not answering the door he answered the door and I said go got you then the cops stepped in my house and thread me just B this is what’s going to happen okay I’m just going to do a quick explanation okay those cups are going to come off not going to do once we’re done Valerie okay for right now they’re going to stay on okay I just need to get a little more information I need to get you have two girls and a boy right I really I just need to get their names date of births why do you need that they’re not involved in this case I need it cuz they’re in the household is CPS being called anybody who’s in the house anybody who’s in the houseold sir I heard you I heard you I asked you a question though I’m not ignoring yours I asked you a question okay are you calling CPS we’re just making a report it’s it’s for the police but are you reporting this and yes ma’am I am thank you that’s all I needed can I get can let’s start with the boy I already have all their names okay well I need it Jackson I would like to know officer real quick um what you are reporting accusational wise to CPS please uh reference to a domestic disturbance and so what does that conclude with CPS I guess does that open a whole case just for their information up to them really up to them okay than that’s no I appreciate I just need to know just need to know is it nette with two T’s Double T I’m a very literal autistic girl so please don’t say they’re going to come off once I give you that info if they’re not okay I’m just waiting for I know but I’m saying you have to understand that’s a lie to me okay you said as soon as I give you that info they’d come off no I told you once we’re done here they’re going to no you said I asked you once I give you the names you said they come off no okay let’s not argue about that okay here they’re going to then we’re done I’ve given you everything we’re not done my partner still is working on some stuff okay I don’t done but I’m saying those CS are going to come off that’s not how you reported it okay that’s how I that’s how I explain okay but I’m not in any danger you said when I CM even earlier you said when I calm down you’ll take them off i’ I’ve done that please let them come off we’re going to no officer you you kind of gave me your word can I please have them off let’s just relax okay can you at least look at me admit you li two like one more minute two more Adit that you just told me a lie cuz you did say earlier when I calm down we were done they were going to actually you said when I calm down they’ll come off multiple times I’m just saying though but please don’t do that to people can I speak please you’ve been like this the whole night and this is what started we’re going to take the handcuffs off and you’re going to leave I’m going to have you sit down and I’m going to explain the citation to you okay outside with you and these charges I can smoke cigarette outside sure absolutely can I can you grab my cigarettes then and my lighter the officers then walked out of the apartment and continued to explain the citation that they issued to the female I don’t I would have worked I was not mad at you but I did not appreciate how I felt approached okay well so it can I’m a very reasonable person the next time the police respond especially in reference to a domestic disturbance isn’t even a domestic disturbance he’s a pansy so you’re getting a ticket for resisting evading or obstructing an alcer during uh an investigation okay I’m autistic so my brain is just works a little bit differently I’m really just trying to understand what I’m asking questions I just want to see what I think I don’t know how I did wrong or what I did to resist so I just need to be told so I understand that’s why I’m trying to explain to you is the next time the police officers arrive in reference to any kind of Investigation especially when trying to make sure the that everybody’s okay and the well-being of everybody involved making sure that nobody gets hurt especially when children are involved okay you need to cooperate that’s it you I was I felt threatened okay can you understand as a mama bear I and that’s really where it was I have this man who’s knocked me up and Abed me and my children and I just wanted paid you got really close to me and I could smell the alcohol so I’m sure the alcohol had something to do with it now in regards to the children I see that your house is a mess you know what’s funny the woman was charged with resisting an officer and domestic disturbance but was spared in arrest receiving a citation instead [Music]